sotem said:
Jack said:
sotem said:
It does. If she's alone all the burden will fall to her which might affect her Psychologically.
Thats right. She thinks it doesnt matter anymore but it definitely is.
I don't know how old you are but if you're old enough (15-16) then you should try and take some burden off of your mother's shoulders. It could be as easy as doing some housework or cooking.
A lot of behaviors that women exhibit actually do not mean what they say and its about a totally different reason. Sometimes she just wants reassurance that she has a strong partner who will take care of her. Sometimes she just wants to fight so that she can feel the full range of emotions and sometimes she just wants someone to listen to her unwind after a long day of stressful work.
This might be draining for a man who doesn't know that women behave differently and Express their inner feelings differently than men. A man just wants some peace and quiet. He's unable to logically ascertain why she's saying all this stuff which doesn't make sense. But generally she's trying to communicate to her partner to feel his role of satisfying her emotional needs.
But since she doesn't have a husband, it's been building up for so long that it's going haywire and being really really pronounced.
Try to reassure her with statements like
"Don't worry mom,I'll deal with it."
"Mom ,you really work very hard and I really appreciate everything that you're doing for us. "
"I don't know what I'd do without you. "
"Mom I'll take care of you when i make my own money. "
You have to be in tune with a woman to address her emotional needs. Just say the things that she wants to hear so she'll calm down.