Astrology #80338 Synastry, complicated love situation

[Ask Satya Operator]

There's one thing I think about too much.
My Moon is in Scorpio, in the 1st house. The person I like has Mars, Jupiter, Venus, Sun, Mercury, and Ascendant in Scorpio.
His Ascendant conjuncts mine in Scorpio, and my Moon also conjuncts his Mars, Jupiter, Venus, and Sun.
Ever since I somehow sensed that he was interested in me, I couldn't stop thinking about him. And then I learned about our synastry. He's acting very vague and evasive. Is this someone who has the potential to hurt me? His Saturn and Uranus is also square to my Moon from Leo, our 10th house.
Here, his many planets are in close contact with my single planet, but it seems I am the one most affected by this.
Why might this have happened?

The moment my attraction to him ended, he made his move. My interest seemed one-sided. He suddenly explained to me his past, his relationships, and after that he tried to get me to confess my love for him. Thinking it would be a minor source of amusement for the group of friends, I remained silent. I told him my suspicion and cut off contact. In the days that followed, wherever I went, he seemed to be right beside me or behind me, busy with something, chatting with his friends.
I honestly can't go a single day without thinking about him, it's been 3 months. I'm thinking about every possibility and I can't find peace.

What do you think? Why does this synastry seem to affect only me? It can't be psychological, because it started before I knew his chart. Could he really be feeling something as well?

 

[Edward Lonsa]

Greetings, Brother / Sister!

Through what I saw from synastries including those with parasitic people, if they are human - then yes, they might have or have no interest. What really gives the most interest is Pluto+CR, though Pluto+Moon and Pluto+Venus or any other female planet as well too. But this interest can be different. And yes, this combination may give harm with a non-human. As well as one-sided love from your part. Pluto+Moon is only one of aspects that gives interest. Yet what you describe indicates a lot of links but not necessarily good ones. If he is a psychopath or a narcissist or some other kind of parasite or a stalker (all criminal dangerous individuals that specialize in destroying society) too clingy synastry might act as a weapon in his hands against you to lure you into a trap.

What is important is not a synastry but a person. Even hard synastry with a good person might go well while any synastry - the more compatible the worse because the more compatible lures you in - will bring you trouble with the one who IS a trouble. And any synastry will make your life shit if you make it close with the one who is a shit of the earth.

The more clingy the synastry is the more people get attracted, and the harder it might be to go away (or to run for your life, for example). You need to get to know people before looking at synastries. Also look at the composite, if there are critical degrees in it that were not in your chart, then you need to consider this.

People are the prime importance. Their choices form any karma of any of their relationship anyway. It is about how they use their astrology not how it was given to them out of the box.

 

[Ask Satya Operator]

Greetings, Brother / Sister!

Through what I saw from synastries including those with parasitic people, if they are human - then yes, they might have or have no interest. What really gives the most interest is Pluto+CR, though Pluto+Moon and Pluto+Venus or any other female planet as well too. But this interest can be different. And yes, this combination may give harm with a non-human. As well as one-sided love from your part. Pluto+Moon is only one of aspects that gives interest. Yet what you describe indicates a lot of links but not necessarily good ones. If he is a psychopath or a narcissist or some other kind of parasite or a stalker (all criminal dangerous individuals that specialize in destroying society) too clingy synastry might act as a weapon in his hands against you to lure you into a trap.

What is important is not a synastry but a person. Even hard synastry with a good person might go well while any synastry - the more compatible the worse because the more compatible lures you in - will bring you trouble with the one who IS a trouble. And any synastry will make your life shit if you make it close with the one who is a shit of the earth.

The more clingy the synastry is the more people get attracted, and the harder it might be to go away (or to run for your life, for example). You need to get to know people before looking at synastries. Also look at the composite, if there are critical degrees in it that were not in your chart, then you need to consider this.

People are the prime importance. Their choices form any karma of any of their relationship anyway. It is about how they use their astrology not how it was given to them out of the box.

Hello Edward Lonsa! Thanks for the reply. I'm a sister
Thank you so much for explaining. When I did a bit of research, I learned that the Sun-Moon conjunction is associated with marriage, and the Moon-Venus conjunction creates strong attraction, among other things. Are these wrong? Or, maybe it's not that deep?

So, if we had a relationship, his own chart ruler would already be Pluto, and in Sagittarius. He would still feel attraction to a woman with a Sagittarius stellium. The situation you mentioned exists between us through the Pluto-Pluto conjunction, since Pluto is also my chart ruler.

I’ve started a love spell on him. I’m not taking any steps or acting interested, but I want him to feel what I feel through a love spell I prepared with runes, including directing orgasm and more, twice a day, morning and evening. It’s been four days since I started, so by the time I’m writing this it will have been four days. Let’s see.

Since I started the spell, I haven’t been obsessing over it as much as before. I just feel my heart burning and I feel love when I think about him. I interpret the spell having this effect on me as a sign that in a few days, he will start feeling the same things. At least, that’s what the readings I’ve done suggested.

 

[Edward Lonsa]

Hello Edward Lonsa! Thanks for the reply. I'm a sister
Thank you so much for explaining. When I did a bit of research, I learned that the Sun-Moon conjunction is associated with marriage, and the Moon-Venus conjunction creates strong attraction, among other things. Are these wrong? Or, maybe it's not that deep?

So, if we had a relationship, his own chart ruler would already be Pluto, and in Sagittarius. He would still feel attraction to a woman with a Sagittarius stellium. The situation you mentioned exists between us through the Pluto-Pluto conjunction, since Pluto is also my chart ruler.

I’ve started a love spell on him. I’m not taking any steps or acting interested, but I want him to feel what I feel through a love spell I prepared with runes, including directing orgasm and more, twice a day, morning and evening. It’s been four days since I started, so by the time I’m writing this it will have been four days. Let’s see.

Since I started the spell, I haven’t been obsessing over it as much as before. I just feel my heart burning and I feel love when I think about him. I interpret the spell having this effect on me as a sign that in a few days, he will start feeling the same things. At least, that’s what the readings I’ve done suggested.

Greetings, Sister! Congratulations with your great Sagittarius talents!

What you say in regards to astrological positions is true but only when in the higher octave. Stellium in Scorpio is gravitation, not heaviest that can be in the Zodiac but still. It has to be realized into serving humanity. If such thing stagnates it rots in the lower octaves. Do you know anything of how exactly he realizes it?

One's gravitation + other's CR = strong attraction, even if gravitation is of a light version. What IS important is that this tells completely nothing of the exact purposes of this attraction: it might be the attraction of maniac to its victim in the lower octave as well as everything else. Gravitation itself says nothing of whether the link is going to be constructive or not. It is not obligated to be friendly or positive one necessarily, it might be some severe attraction of a murderer to a victim, of a thief to a person with money etc. with the same probability. Gravitation says nothing of the nature of attraction at all. And in too many times it might be parasitic bond of a vampire to a donor. I saw such link: her stellium + his personal planet: she was narcissist vampire, he was a donor, she used and trashed him, he died. Unrealized or destructively realized stelliums are not rarity among vampires. Stelliums are also very popular among great people who made great use of them. She was a pop star composing debil orc "music" about eating men alive, jumping naked on the scene like an ape. It is NOT realization. She used her female planets stellium for [not only attention] whoring only. Mozart with the same stellium made ethereal immortal art out of it and made loving family. Result: he had great family and changed the world, her husband died of emotional pain.

I could go on and on about stelliums and astrology in general and how this must be worked upon to not become rot in the lower octave and source of abuse against other people. You obviously realize your Sagittarius stellium as a Zevist working for Gods and their purpose. But does he? Do you know him enough to evaluate how he uses the energies of his chart? Scorpio stellium is no joke, if he just lives for his own pleasure and do not look into changing humanity with its powers then most probably you might face a lot of rot. The silliest thing one can do when facing a stranger is to do love magic on them. Why? Because you attract the unknown, maybe danger, no one knows whom, with chart gravitation no one knows how used. This is why most love spells ends up badly: people who use love magic are usually those who do not care to get to know their target better: whether they are at all Gentile, human-like or decent people at all. It is outright dangerous: you already have too much attraction for outright strangers, then you double it with love magic.

One other important moment: he will NOT experience what you do. He will only experience what he can experience. People are different and the octave they can experience things is very different: for you - passion fatal. For him - the same energy might play out just as an impulse "to go get her" if he is a kike or a psychopath. Psychopaths can't feel in our sense, please educate yourself on psychopaths, sociopaths and narcissists. There are a lot of vampires and clinical monsters with best charts who realize them in lowest octaves possible. All most powerful passionate higher planetary aspects those of a genius those of greatest loves in history - they realize them in the octave of a moslen serial murderer with 2 classes of lower school. Their passion is but a passion of tearing out people's inner organs, that's all. Their Venus+Pluto is not about great love poems like that of a 14 century poet and a higher soul, but about lower passion of a pedophile. This is why you may hear me saying things so positive about astrological placements that overall statistics considers problematic. Because astrology is not about powers but about how people use them.

So what you need to do first before doing anything else with any stranger is to get to know them better: how do they use their chart, do they work for humanity? Are they trying to better the world? For example, surgeon saving thousands of lives throughout his life would be a great Scorpio stellium realization, criminalist who made great deal of justice and put a lot of monsters into cages would also do. Yet some no lifer drunkard who cares about nothing is not the best riverbed for Scorpio stellium and with great deal of probability is going to rot.

Here is a very good investigation on Scorpio stelliums among other things by HPS Maxine:

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