Thersthara said:
Hi, I have a question about synastry.
Let's say someones Uranus squares Venus in their partner's chart. This can lead to a rather erratic and non-permanent, unstable relationship. Since the problem here is related to Uranus, can this problem go away if the Uranus person clears his Uranus-related karma in his natal chart?
I have this settlement on my chart with my partner. At the same time, His Uranus squares my Moon and Sun. My Uranus squares his Venus. Also, he already has Venus Uranus square in his natal chart...
Of course, there are settlements that bring permanence on our charts. For example, his Saturn is in my 7th house.
However, I do not think that such minimal effects will balance the Uranus aspects in our charts. I'm so scared about it, I can't let it go, we've been through and shared a lot with him, everything is going well right now but that's the nature of Uranus, it catches you off guard and attacks like that. I'm afraid that everything could happen so suddenly and go wrong.
Is there any additional work I can do to balance and correct these Uranus aspects? Can this change if I break the Uranus karma in my own natal chart?
Can the Saturn square be used to maintain the relationship between us as permanent as possible and, if possible, forever? I've already gotten rid of my Saturn karma by combining a lot of Jupiter and Sun squares with 40 day workings. Is it okay to use the Saturn square? Saturn is already in my 7th house. Maybe it will be effective if I try to make my partnership relationships permanent. What are you thinking?
I am open to any ideas and suggestions on this subject, I am very afraid of losing him. Uranus aspects make me very nervous.
The influence of Uranus, while erratic, is already present in your relationship, as are the other aspects. There is a difference between the transit from the planet Uranus on your relationship versus the interaction of Uranus energy within our souls. A square of Venus/Uranus means there is an intriguing, yet alienating interaction in the relationship. This is not the same as a strong Saturn or Uranus transit which may threaten to seriously stress the relationship.
Also, the synastry will still be in the same orientation, even if you clear your own karma. However, it will indirectly be improved. Perhaps you yourself no longer have problems with erratic behavior, but your natal Uranus would still be "pointed" in an unharmonious manner to his Venus. To fully correct this, you would want to do magic on the relationship itself, not just yourself.
However, as you mention, there are other aspects involved with synastry besides Uranus. Do not expect every synastry chart to be perfect. If there are at least some aspects of love, friendship, sex, and stability, then all the basics are covered.
Despite squares or oppositions providing some stress, these also indicate a connection as well.
What you describe with Saturn in the 7th natally, and him having his Saturn in your 7th is not insignificant. At worst, this can create stress in the relationship or cause him to be cold towards you, but at best this makes a strong bond that won't break even under awful conditions.
Overall, it is your own fears that are amplifying the situation. What you describe does not sound so bad, although you would want to evaluate the rest of the synastry as well. Also, keep an eye on transits to the relationship. I think you can do this with a composite chart or progressed synastry: https://horoscopes.astro-seek.com/composite-chart-horoscope
No, I would not do a Saturn Square. Instead, use Nauthiz to bring stability. Make use of the other runes that are listed above if you feel certain aspects are lacking, as well. In regards to Uranus, Wunjo can be used to tighten the bonds in a manner that overrides any negatives of Uranus.
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