Like everyone has said before me, "you need to establish your own personal relationship with Father".This is my personal experience with Father:
Concerning his appearance- he has always appeared wearing a Roman/Greek like tunic(blazing white) with ties on his shoulders but his bold white wings seem to be unaffected. When he appeared to me he shined brightly with a golden aura, that caused me to immediately loose all stress and just want to fall into his arms. He has golden hair(short when I see him) and crystal blue eyes that seem to hold the universe in them.Concerning his appearance- Father definitely has a unique personality... He can be strict when giving orders or saying something you need to do, but is also very sweet and has a joking kindness. When speaking to him in a dream on night, he said not to think of him as being over us(his children) because while he is, we can reach his level of power one day... Father(as I prefer to call him) instills in us the feeling of true acceptance and knows *all* our burdens. This actually makes him sad- to see his children stricken with suffering. (I have never seen him shed a tear but he does frown at the thought.)
He has truly given me so much and could never repay the love he has for me and all his children. I, personally, will serve him in every-life he sends me too and can not begin to describe my loyalty!
Hail Father! Hail Agares and Raum! Hail to our Legions!