Be VERY VERY CAUTIOUS about discussing your secrets with "open-minded" gawdbots of any sort.
It's a trap.
Quite often, being the lovers of lies as they are, they're just trying to get information on you, to hurt or slander you.
Do not be tricked into handing yourself over to tormentors.
Because they WILL torment you. They will. They will toemt you. They will slander go out. They will add you to their little "prayer warrior circles," in obedience to their masters.
Trust me on this, please, especially if you you are new.
You DO NOT owe them your objective honesty. And, when hurt trying to impress others, we rarely make the impression we think we're making.
Please, take this lesson from my own pain and spare yourself the wasted time and energy.
Satan understands your predicament.