Heath Perkins
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Alrighty I want to write about this issue I think I am facing,I think a lot of guys would agree to what I would have to say. This is in response to what I made in the JoS Forums after thinking about it for a while about my experience when it comes to dating, and yes she is from America.
I have one thing to say. America is a fucked up country. There got it off my chest. Society programming is unbelievable to say.
Society has programmed everyone with the dominate religions of Christianity, Islam and Judaism. And in-filterated every part of religious and spiritual practices as well as our mundane lives because we believe in religion. Most humans are programmed to believe there are only two "sexes" there is no inbetween! Regardless though, my experiences with women in America from a romantic level, and there are a few women like this in other countries. But I honestly feel deep down due to the years of abuse and repression, women have not truly been appreciated, and loved for who and what they are suppose to be. The rise of feminism is not liberating women but making it worse. Why? think about it, women deep down really want to be feminine, modest, sweet, etc. they want security (I am not talking about money gold digging ones either). All of this is repressed and seen as something degrading. So it is actually psychologically damaging women today. Because of this, it raises a further separation to keep from unity happening. REAL unity. My experiences with American women (when it comes to romantic interests):
They cut their hair short, not sweet and modest, and are not proud to wear, dresses, skirts ,etc. that they think is degrading and oppressive. They do not act very feminine.They seem to have disdain and contempt for guys especially and harbor a "men are creeps" attitude. They resist relationships. They active defensive and paranoid. They twist your words around and use it against you.They are often unhealthy mentally or physically.They are too independent, while I agree everyone needs personal independence and individuality but i am talking about the sharing of a life with someone you love. They dont seem to be positive, nor do they seem to appreciate and be commitment oriented.They are not authentic, down-to-earth and natural. Meaning everything here is artificial and games. Cant find anyone were we can be sincere, decent, down-to-earth, kind and especially charming. And nothing complicated which is the way it should be.They do not act their age, in this world it seems like they seem to be more spoiled than responsible.Guys often do not feel valued and appreciated for what they are. This is something that most guys cant experience in America, where everyone in America is virtually insecure and trying to mask it, because they do not feel accepted for what they are. The key to true confidence, feeling appreciated and accepted for what you are, not the pseudo fake confidence aka "pumped up" artificial kind. This is why there is a huge psychological problem here in America.They do not appreciate niceness, they dont blush and giggle and like to hear compliments. Such qualities are inherent in true femininity - but absent in American women.They usually see it as "creepy and offensive" (unless it comes from their fictional Mr. Perfect). (Now I don't know about you, but when niceness is not appreciated but used against men, I think it speaks volumes about how screwed up, dysfunctional and bizarro the dating culture is) American and Western girls - who are too tough and masculine to do that in blush and giggle.They are not raised with good family values. They do not have healthy relationship with their families, they often hate and disdain for their fathers or whatever else that is common with American women. NO wife material either. They do not view their partner and them as one unit. American women tend to view their husband and them as two separates individuals with their own needs and interests usually this is not a very real commitment and loyalty while they will toss their partner away like used clothes as soon as they get tired of their partner.They do not dream of having a husband or whatever and family, and do not believe in sticking with their partner through thick and thin. They can't find fulfillment in finding a good man, and provide love, support and companionship to their partner, which doesnt make them good marriage material.They do not believe in old fashioned romance. The kind of romance you see in films from the 50's and 60's but it seems like it does exists in the minds and hearts of foreign women - whereas modern American women see that kind of romance as an unrealistic childish fantasy (obviously because it doesn't exist in their hearts anymore). They are jaded towards romance, they do not have that purity and innocence within their hearts and spirits that is open to "love" the old fashioned way - which has become lost with Western women.Beauty and brains are not the norm in the US, women with beauty and brains are a rare exception, for there is an inverse relationship between brains and beauty there. None seem to be intellectual, cultured, broad-minded and have a wider range of interests.They are not easy going and very judgmental. They are not very refined/sophisticated. They cant really forgive, they hold on to the past. They seem to be high strung, uptight or easily offended.They do masculinize themselves, they are never feminine or modest. They are usually are snobby or not romantically attracted to you and they will not even be friends, hang out or have coffee with a guy who is "not their type".
There you have it. That is my view and experiences and observation of what is wrong with ALL American women that I have tried to date or show interest. And further more, those women who dare tell me "you just havent found the right one" or "plenty of fish in the sea",etc. are usually American women trying to defend the facts. So I am not open to hear that bullshit they always say.
I have one thing to say. America is a fucked up country. There got it off my chest. Society programming is unbelievable to say.
Society has programmed everyone with the dominate religions of Christianity, Islam and Judaism. And in-filterated every part of religious and spiritual practices as well as our mundane lives because we believe in religion. Most humans are programmed to believe there are only two "sexes" there is no inbetween! Regardless though, my experiences with women in America from a romantic level, and there are a few women like this in other countries. But I honestly feel deep down due to the years of abuse and repression, women have not truly been appreciated, and loved for who and what they are suppose to be. The rise of feminism is not liberating women but making it worse. Why? think about it, women deep down really want to be feminine, modest, sweet, etc. they want security (I am not talking about money gold digging ones either). All of this is repressed and seen as something degrading. So it is actually psychologically damaging women today. Because of this, it raises a further separation to keep from unity happening. REAL unity. My experiences with American women (when it comes to romantic interests):
They cut their hair short, not sweet and modest, and are not proud to wear, dresses, skirts ,etc. that they think is degrading and oppressive. They do not act very feminine.They seem to have disdain and contempt for guys especially and harbor a "men are creeps" attitude. They resist relationships. They active defensive and paranoid. They twist your words around and use it against you.They are often unhealthy mentally or physically.They are too independent, while I agree everyone needs personal independence and individuality but i am talking about the sharing of a life with someone you love. They dont seem to be positive, nor do they seem to appreciate and be commitment oriented.They are not authentic, down-to-earth and natural. Meaning everything here is artificial and games. Cant find anyone were we can be sincere, decent, down-to-earth, kind and especially charming. And nothing complicated which is the way it should be.They do not act their age, in this world it seems like they seem to be more spoiled than responsible.Guys often do not feel valued and appreciated for what they are. This is something that most guys cant experience in America, where everyone in America is virtually insecure and trying to mask it, because they do not feel accepted for what they are. The key to true confidence, feeling appreciated and accepted for what you are, not the pseudo fake confidence aka "pumped up" artificial kind. This is why there is a huge psychological problem here in America.They do not appreciate niceness, they dont blush and giggle and like to hear compliments. Such qualities are inherent in true femininity - but absent in American women.They usually see it as "creepy and offensive" (unless it comes from their fictional Mr. Perfect). (Now I don't know about you, but when niceness is not appreciated but used against men, I think it speaks volumes about how screwed up, dysfunctional and bizarro the dating culture is) American and Western girls - who are too tough and masculine to do that in blush and giggle.They are not raised with good family values. They do not have healthy relationship with their families, they often hate and disdain for their fathers or whatever else that is common with American women. NO wife material either. They do not view their partner and them as one unit. American women tend to view their husband and them as two separates individuals with their own needs and interests usually this is not a very real commitment and loyalty while they will toss their partner away like used clothes as soon as they get tired of their partner.They do not dream of having a husband or whatever and family, and do not believe in sticking with their partner through thick and thin. They can't find fulfillment in finding a good man, and provide love, support and companionship to their partner, which doesnt make them good marriage material.They do not believe in old fashioned romance. The kind of romance you see in films from the 50's and 60's but it seems like it does exists in the minds and hearts of foreign women - whereas modern American women see that kind of romance as an unrealistic childish fantasy (obviously because it doesn't exist in their hearts anymore). They are jaded towards romance, they do not have that purity and innocence within their hearts and spirits that is open to "love" the old fashioned way - which has become lost with Western women.Beauty and brains are not the norm in the US, women with beauty and brains are a rare exception, for there is an inverse relationship between brains and beauty there. None seem to be intellectual, cultured, broad-minded and have a wider range of interests.They are not easy going and very judgmental. They are not very refined/sophisticated. They cant really forgive, they hold on to the past. They seem to be high strung, uptight or easily offended.They do masculinize themselves, they are never feminine or modest. They are usually are snobby or not romantically attracted to you and they will not even be friends, hang out or have coffee with a guy who is "not their type".
There you have it. That is my view and experiences and observation of what is wrong with ALL American women that I have tried to date or show interest. And further more, those women who dare tell me "you just havent found the right one" or "plenty of fish in the sea",etc. are usually American women trying to defend the facts. So I am not open to hear that bullshit they always say.