Goldenwings
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I just broke free from that trap, trying to free the one who keeps making the trap and trapping himself is a waste of time and energy, i think this goes under freedom of choice and everyone should be let at peace even the one refusing to break free
This is the same when it comes to taking blame when some people you care about choose to fall and go lower in consciousness , sometimes they are chosing it and you cant help, you can of course try to trigger their rise , but it should be done with detachment , if you keep emotionally involved with everyone you care about and who is descending by choice, they will just drag you lower , and you wont be able to help him nor yourself, this is same as " put your mask first"
This applies also in viewing the people of your race or country and emotionally taking responsability for the level they are in, you will just turn from radiating in gold light to gray because of taking all the blame ( being emotionally involved is same as taking the blame)
Same for compassion/ empathy , i dont remember definition, but one is done with emotions and the other without emotions, the one without emotions is how one should engage with people who are in a hardship, otherwise you will drag yourself lower energetically, and you may not help him properly
Note: i am not against helping people, whole idea is helping or/and having a cause without feeling a negative charge to it daily or carrying it with you on a daily basis. Its better to help while feeling what you want to feel, not what the outsider feels or what a system from without wants you to feel
The action of help, doesnt require feeling what the one who needs help feels
Also the help usually should be correlated to the level of consciousness the one you want to help is in, for example i know muslims at the verge of quitting i can tell them that quran is bullshit without any problem , but the ones who are deeply in islam, i cant go that far with them, i make them instead develop correct ways of thinking and analysing , which will by consequence lead them to question islam
This is the same when it comes to taking blame when some people you care about choose to fall and go lower in consciousness , sometimes they are chosing it and you cant help, you can of course try to trigger their rise , but it should be done with detachment , if you keep emotionally involved with everyone you care about and who is descending by choice, they will just drag you lower , and you wont be able to help him nor yourself, this is same as " put your mask first"
This applies also in viewing the people of your race or country and emotionally taking responsability for the level they are in, you will just turn from radiating in gold light to gray because of taking all the blame ( being emotionally involved is same as taking the blame)
Same for compassion/ empathy , i dont remember definition, but one is done with emotions and the other without emotions, the one without emotions is how one should engage with people who are in a hardship, otherwise you will drag yourself lower energetically, and you may not help him properly
Note: i am not against helping people, whole idea is helping or/and having a cause without feeling a negative charge to it daily or carrying it with you on a daily basis. Its better to help while feeling what you want to feel, not what the outsider feels or what a system from without wants you to feel
The action of help, doesnt require feeling what the one who needs help feels
Also the help usually should be correlated to the level of consciousness the one you want to help is in, for example i know muslims at the verge of quitting i can tell them that quran is bullshit without any problem , but the ones who are deeply in islam, i cant go that far with them, i make them instead develop correct ways of thinking and analysing , which will by consequence lead them to question islam
im waiting for a post approval, to know whats better 4inche or 8inche candles, then order them ,i have just found them