Question #554: love

[Ask Satya Operator]

I would like to date, but I think that I am too ugly and ridiculous for that and that I need to be pretty to be loved. But I would like to have experiences and live this side of life a little..

 

[Hrodrik Avernus [SG]]

I would like to date, but I think that I am too ugly and ridiculous for that and that I need to be pretty to be loved. But I would like to have experiences and live this side of life a little..

I'm sure you're not *that* ugly. It seems more like a self-confidence problem and a lack of self-care. You have no idea how better looking you can get just by doing some changes in your life. What makes you think you're ugly and ridiculous? Besides, you don't have to be pretty to be loved.

But here are some things you can do: get a new haircut, trim your beard, change your style, go to the gym, eat healthy, have good hygiene, don't smoke, drink, or do drugs, don't dress like a cave man, have manners, ethics, you know, be someone a lady would be interested in. Unless you just want to get laid, in that case just go to your local pub or whatever and talk with someone, it's that easy, even if you're not confident, you can just act like you are.

Assuming you're meditating daily, perhaps you should consider doing some work on your Solar Chakra, either vibrating Sowilo, Raum, Suryae, or the Sun Square... you got the idea. The Solar Chakra Rules confidence. You can also go for the Venus Square as it rules beauty, but it seems more like a case of lack of confidence and social anxiety of some sort.

 

[Korpi]

I would like to date, but I think that I am too ugly and ridiculous for that and that I need to be pretty to be loved. But I would like to have experiences and live this side of life a little..

Read below,
Divine Masculinity
How To Be A Man? - It's Actually Rather Simple [Update: Working Out?]
- HP. Zevios Metathronos
Men need emotional release - jrvan

Today's a great day for a love spell!

Love Spells? Venus Squares?
Spotting an Afflicted or Debilitated Venus - Shadowcat

 

[Rroco88]

I would like to date, but I think that I am too ugly and ridiculous for that and that I need to be pretty to be loved. But I would like to have experiences and live this side of life a little..

You don't have to be looking a certain type of way to attract love in your life. This all has to do with character, the way you present yourself to people, your confidence and masculinity/feminity.

A working to attract love is useful. Maybe even programing your aura. Honestly, I been almost the same as you, but thinking that I need to be "perfect" in order to attract someone. Which is wrong. You just need a little bit of confidence, to get in tune with your sexual energy and basically taking care of yourself as a person.

And do you consider yourself ugly, are you actually ugly, or is it just a way of putting yourself down? Or just the result of past programming into believing you are ugly?

If you do not love your own self, do not expect someone else to do it.

Once you truly love yourself it will be shown in your actions, you're gonna take care of yourself and once you do that, you are really gonna change. Your vibration is gonna change and tune to the life you aspire to and the (love) life you act towards having.