Question #1574: I'm a broken-hearted Zevism woman.

[Ask Satya Operator]

I have a boyfriend. I'm a woman and my boyfriend doesn't desire me. I have done everything I can to solve this problem, but I am powerless. He likes porn stars more, he desires naked women around, but he doesn't desire me at all. He rarely initiates sex. And yes, he brags about his high libido. I felt worthless as a woman. I was heartbroken as a woman. My naive heart was so broken. I wanted an ideal, healthy Zevism relationship.

 

[MiniMe3388]

I have a boyfriend. I'm a woman and my boyfriend doesn't desire me. I have done everything I can to solve this problem, but I am powerless. He likes porn stars more, he desires naked women around, but he doesn't desire me at all. He rarely initiates sex. And yes, he brags about his high libido. I felt worthless as a woman. I was heartbroken as a woman. My naive heart was so broken. I wanted an ideal, healthy Zevism relationship.

Instead of being with a person who treats you this way, you should find a new person who fully desires and respects you. You can start doing magic work on attracting the perfect lover.

 

[Schwarze Sonne]

How can you be brokenhearted with this guy? If he doesn't desire you at all, why are you two still engaged?

Maybe it's time to leave him and work on yourself, heal your emotional scars and attract a partner who loves you.

 

[SaqqaraNox [NG]]

Sorry about that. Try to be honest with yourself. Do you love him? Do you feel deep mental, physical and emotional attraction to him? Does he really love you? Has he ever shown it to you?
If yes, then I suggest you talk to him about it. In an open, clear and well-articulated way. Discuss your problem without leaving room for misunderstanding and be honest about everything with him.

Try to solve the problem only if you are sure that it can be solved by talking about it with him and only if you know that he is open to dialogue.

If your answer to the above questions is no, then perhaps you should seriously consider ending your relationship. You don't have to suffer like this; it is not like a Spiritual Satanist to get hurt like this.

You need to weigh things from a Satanic perspective, leaving aside those emotions that can cloud your vision and try to do the right thing for you and your life.

 

[AFODO]

leave him, if he wan't to came back, bind him. You can do workings to attract an ideal relationship.

 

[Novice Priest Karnonnos]

The likelihood is that your sexual synastry just isn't any good whatsoever, if he has Uranus or Saturn bombarding your sex/romance planets it's likely not going to ever improve. Either that, or his porn addiction is so bad he'd ignore anyone.

Separate and find someone else.

 

[hailourtruegod]

The likelihood is that your sexual synastry just isn't any good whatsoever, if he has Uranus or Saturn bombarding your sex/romance planets it's likely not going to ever improve.

Oh yeah, good point to bring up. I had this problem before. Even though the other person was made aware of this she tried to ignore it and pretend charts can just say "silly" things even though I didn't feel nowhere near the same personally. So one can probably see that it'll just be one side that has strong feelings in their synastry chart as well.

I read that it can be worked thru if both parties are up to it. That or one can find a better suited partner for themselves.

 

[Hrodrik Avernus [SG]]

Even though your synastry might not be compatible, he is still a conscious man capable of making decisions out of his own free will, but he somehow is not willing to man up and be completely honest with you. He apparently prefers to play around.

If he can't, at the very least, be honest with you and tell you the truth to the point where you have to figure these things out through his behavior, then it's likely time to let him go.

If you're not astrologically compatible at all, there's really not much you can do. There's just so much work for little reward; it's just not worth it. And at the end of the day, there are men out there who are effortlessly compatible with you.

You'll have to be brave and face this, prioritize your own well-being, and never let a man do this to you again, you're an Zevism, don't waste your time with people who are unable to perceive how worthy you are as a person in their life.

 

[Víbora]

Hello, sister. I am sorry that you are in this situation. A few months ago I was in a place very similar to yours.

Love is a two-way street, you can't give everything and receive nothing. If you have tried everything and he prefers porn, leave him with that crap. We can't change people, but we can change who we are with. Your health and happiness come first here.

You deserve to be well, happy and healthy in a relationship with someone who really wants you in every sense of the word.

Take care of yourself!

 

[Novice Priest Karnonnos]

How do I know if I am astrologically compatible?

I get very heartbroken and feel worthless. Sometimes I even hate the way I look. I don't understand why this is happening, why instead of being a faithful mate to me he does perverted things like other people do, a Zevism man shouldn't be like this, he says he does it because he is angry with me.

This is NOT how an Zevism should be acting. AT ALL. This is beginning to sound like he is doing this because he wants to provoke you and is manipulative.

Ogling other women endlessly and not having sex while in a monogamous relationship is wrong. How could one read the site and then come to the conclusion this is fine? Sex is of the life force. To willingly lead your other half astray to satiate a meager ego is a misuse of power.

Unfortunately, this is why I don't endorse the mantra of 'only date other Zevism'. Time and time again there are a lot of people with extreme, unfathomable problems here, with many people of very varying levels of ability and consciousness. These people should solve these issues before offloading it onto someone else, but many of them do not.

 

[Hrodrik Avernus [SG]]

How do I know if I am astrologically compatible?

I get very heartbroken and feel worthless. Sometimes I even hate the way I look. I don't understand why this is happening, why instead of being a faithful mate to me he does perverted things like other people do, a Zevism man shouldn't be like this, he says he does it because he is angry with me.

Synastry is a complex subject. You should familiarize yourself with astrology first. You need to first be able to fully interpret the birth chart so that you can then understand how the overlapping of the two charts will manifest.

But it is clear that there is something wrong. The very fact that he makes you feel worthless is a pretty obvious indicator that there is no healthy astrological compatibility.

I wasn't aware that he is Zevism but that makes matters worse because he's expected to behave in an honorable manner. If the spiritual journey hasn't refined his character so far, this means he is doing something wrong and he should address it. Or he's still very novice in Satanism.

Either way, you shouldn't be tolerating that kind of behavior from anyone.