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My half sister doesn't want a relationship - help

AvatarLucius Invictus [NG]1 min to read

Without divulging details about my life, I have a half-sister I haven't seen in years. We didn't grow up together as she is my biological Dad's child with another women who isn't my Mom. Anyways, this whole time, she has lived in the same city as me, so distance isn't an issue, but indifference is. We have each other only one social media channel, and I have reached out to tell her my door is always open, but she has no real interest in getting to know each other again.

How can I change this, or should I change this?

In Zevism, along with all healthy Pagan cultures, family is very important. Originally, I didn't care much for family, however I do now. I want a relationship with my sister. We are blood related after all.

Any help would be great

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Blitzkreig [JGsaid:

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Yes, time is not necessarily sensitive. Thanks Blitz.

One of the arguments I've seen is that I should consider the wishes of my sister, and I do. Another great point I saw is that family should uplift and improve you, otherwise why bother.

However, I have an answer to that, as Zevism we rarely have family that truly uplifts or improves us, given that most of us have family that is asleep and would not support our Spiritual Satanic development.

So, in my opinion, it is not their responsibility to improve or uplift us, but ours given the nature of the hierarchy of souls. We should seek to mend wounds in our family to further uplift and improve ourselves and our own blood, and thus the race. They do not have the same privileges as we do.

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NinRicksaid:
GoldenxChild1said:

I just wanted to say that I am thankful for the pragmatic advice I have received from some of my fellow Zevism. All of you have solid arguments, and I appreciate you taking the time to discuss my life with me.

Oh, using the method I shared with you, this will not take much energy, and you should see results pretty fast. At least this has been the case for me.

Yes, I will definitely get around to it. Thanks Nin

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Powerofjusticesaid:
GoldenxChild1said:

This context changes everything. The way I understood it initially was that you had been trying to get through to her for a long time and that she wasn't interested.

What I meant with my initial reply was that it would be far easier to figure out why she was avoiding contact and resolve that than to keep pouring energy into trying to have a relationship again. (Though that ended up not being the case)

It is a little complicated to explain. Basically, I know how she will respond to certain requests based on the experience from other members of my family (Dad and Sister) who have tried in the past to invite her our for coffee, for example.

Yes, I may do something in the future. It is not time sensitive. Thanks brother.

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existentialcrisissaid:
GoldenxChild1said:
Ol argedco luciftiassaid:

Have the best relationship that you can with the 4 of your siblings that you are close with. And one day the 5th one may think of all 4 of you together and want to be closer with the whole group. This shifts the focus towards wanting to be part of a family group, instead of just being closer with one person who honestly she barely knows and might not be fully comfortable with.

4 siblings who you are very close with is still a good record and you are lucky to have this. Many people don't have as good of a family.

Thanks for the reply Ol. Although I understand the argument some of our Zevism brothers are making, I think they're too off-the-mark. Unless your family member is a Christian or something, why not try? Especially seeing as we understand the power of family and have the power to improve it.

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Why not try? How about, why doesn't she try? Have you thought about that?

She has no desire to have you in her life and I think her wishes should be respected. Olly and POJ have made good points. What makes you so hung up on this one person when you have several other good relationships already?

Read my reply to Blitz when it posts!

I believe it is a duty of a Zevist to do what he or she can for family because of the maturity of the soul compared to his or her kin.

Basically, if a family member doesn't want a relationship, his or hers wishes should only be respected if it is good for them, but said family member is usually simply ignorant of what is good for them.

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