On 5/1/11, searchingeast666 <
searchingeast666@... wrote:
Domestic situations are always a really tricky situation man.
For the first years of my life, I was raised in a household where I
witnessed my mother being beaten fairly regularly. It instilled in me 1) a
hatred that lasts to this day towards her now, ex-husband, and 2) an
ironclad certainty that I will NEVER harm the woman who I am supposed to
love, like that. It has also made me very intolerant to ANY kind of abuse
like that. I see it, or hear it happening, and all I want to go do is fuck
that dude up. Bad.
The problem with this, is it generally doesn't work out the way you want,
even if you DO successfully end the guy's attack. When I was a small boy, my
grandpa told me a story about one of his uncles, that always stuck with me.
One night while walking home from a bar, his uncle passed a house as a man
and a woman burst out of the house, literally fighting each other. The guy
was slapping the woman, the woman was scratching and biting the guy, it was
a bad situation. Well the guy ended up PUNCHING the woman, who fell, and
then CONTINUED to punch the woman. Well my grandpa's uncle couldn't just sit
there and WATCH it happen, so he stepped in and started pulling the guy off
the woman. Well then it turned into a fight between THOSE two, which is
pretty much to be expected. Well half-way through the fight, the WOMAN
starts ATTACKING my grandpa's uncle, who was just trying to HELP her,
because he was attacking HER man. That's the problem with getting involved
in domestic stuff. They are perfectly fine fighting EACH OTHER, but once you
give them an OUTSIDE target, they will suddenly be on the same team again.
Alcohol, is generally a LARGE part of these scenarios as well, and two drunk
people, are about the hardest thing in the world to talk to, or calm down. I
hate to say this, but unless you are prepared to deal with the backlash from
ALL parties involved, your mom was probably right.
Heroes don't really get the recognition you'd think they would, especially
in this kind of situation.
Ut Servo Diabolus!
HG
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[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "Joel" <joel.outlawstar.hampton@...
wrote:
You know about an hour ago i was in my room with my fiance and we looked
out the window and heard and saw what looked like a man beating his woman
I rushed downstairs to get someone to call the police and at the same time
hearing her screams just set off this panic button that makes me want to
just snap. So that what i did. Everyone was trying to talk me out of doing
things that could land me in jail with the bastard and i wouldn't listen
but eventually calmed down. When my mom was explaining to me how to react
to the domestic violence situations around the south side of Chicago where
we stay. All it sounded like is we should sit a do nothing... wait for the
police to come who came thirty fucking minutes later. That's bullshit you
know that made me feel like I was so powerless not to help just had to sit
back and let something screwed up like that happen. That really made me
want to practice satanism even harder so i won't feel powerless in moments
like that and so i won't get instantly set off my screams or something.
Just had to get that off my chest....
HAIL SATAN!!!!!
