I want to breakup to my girlfriend

[Arin]

it seems like you still have a christian mindset, may wanna work on that. But, I'll limit my comment to that. If you wanna break up with her break up with her. But, for future reference it might not be a good idea to go full on "No sex until marriage "... just, use protection instead? sex is kinda a natural need oof.

 

[High Priestess Lydia]

You need to cut off all contact with her immediately and but a binding on her, some of the other members can help with that part. She ruined you, it’s only right you ruin her (spiritually). :twisted:

Sex is a natural need, if he was refusing to have sex with her than he was kinda ruining her. If you're in a relationship for 5 years and never have sex, it's only inevitable that one will cheat.

@Truth Finding, either have sex with her or leave her and find someone else who does not have sexual urges. The vast majority of humans need sex though. It's no wonder she cheated, although it was stupid of her to be video recorded. It might be best to just break up with her.

 

[Shael]

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Dude honestly, you should evaluate yourself in this situation as well. If I read this correctly, you were together for 5 years but you never had sex with her? Why? If she even asked you for it repeatedly and you kept rejecting it then honestly it's your own fault she cheated on you.

You should clarify this for us if you want proper advice. You said you never did her any wrong in the relationship, but this might just be your own perception being clouded here. There could be much deeper issues within yourself that made her continuously frustrated with the relationship over the years. I'm not gonna go any deeper into this now as I would need more information first.

 

[Ghost in the Machine]

If my partner deprived me of sex for that that long for such a ridiculous reason then by the gods I would not have stayed with you either.

 

[Jack]

Pretty sad situation. My friend was also like this. He was with this girl for two years and somehow didn't manage to have sex with her which blew my mind (I found out after he told me the story and I asked her how much sex he was giving her.) So this guy cheated with her and this friend of mine had a physical altercation with the cheater guy and got into a fight. It was pretty brutal and my friend broke the leg of that cheater guy and he was hospitalized. It was pretty brutal but the girl still stuck with the Cheater guy after my friend and her broke up, and continued for 7 months after which they broke up.

Basically if you have any mentality of idolizing a woman, you need to let that go and realize your own values. Shes not a God whose untouchable, shes just a human like you. If you put her on a pedestal and do this type of disney bullshit you'll get burned. You need to constantly have sex with a woman and give her consistent orgasms. After orgasmic sex, a womans brain releases oxytocin which is also known as the Pairbonding or the Love hormone. There is a biological reason for her cheating with you (you hadn't pairbonded yet and she was thus more prone to cheating. )

This situation can never work out. There is no pure love. I went through this sometime ago. There is just infatuation borne out of weakness. I advice you to pursue multiple relationships while being non exclusive with multiple women Sexually. This woman who you're talking about can also be a part of that if you want. When you're having sex with multiple women, you will realize your value and all this disney tier pure love fantasy and the unrealistic expectations created by it will evaporate. Since you managed to get a gf, it is highly possible that you'll be able to have sex with multiple women at the same time as well. If someone asks you what yours and hers situation is and if you're bf gf, tell them "I just got out of a very emotionally scarring relationship and am unable to commit to anyone rn. It will take me some time to heal. I believe you'll respect my wishes." If they ask you if you're seeing anyone else, tell them the truth "No I'm not seeing anyone else. I have sex with x no of girls but I'm not dating anyone rn. " Basically this situation will come rarely and only if you're not careful enough. After experiencing abundance ,you can make informed decisions about the kind of woman you want to be with By CHOICE not some hormonal and societal thing like Fantasy Love that is literally a hypnotism situation.