I need a magic or a spell to change my situation

[sonya2006]

First of all, I don’t want anyone to tell me to try to talk to my family or to be strong and patient and try to study or do something because I have already been patient enough and I have been trying under a lot of pressure since I was young until now. I am 18 years old and I have not had a good day and I have always tried and nothing works with them, literally nothing and their pressure on me increases. I don’t want anyone to tell me to focus on meditation. I am already cleaning my aura and chakras and strengthening them and I am trying to use my aura to keep my mother away from me, but it did not work and this needs a strong aura and good spirituality to work or my luck is bad, whatever this matter is does not work with me and I want a practical solution. I am the one in this whole situation, so I came to you, do not tell me to try to talk or continue meditating and control myself. I control myself all the time and I was patient and I really could not bear it anymore. Nothing works with them and the pressure increases. I am writing this while crying and choking I want a quick solution because I can't continue like this. Please, I really need this. I mean this. There is literally no solution with them except something like this, a spell or magic or anything that is guaranteed to work. So please understand this (I want them to stop controlling me and their bad behavior with me. I don't want them to talk to me and I want them to do whatever i want when I ask for something).

 

[Fuchs]

First of all, I don’t want anyone to tell me to try to talk to my family or to be strong and patient and try to study or do something because I have already been patient enough and I have been trying under a lot of pressure since I was young until now. I am 18 years old and I have not had a good day and I have always tried and nothing works with them, literally nothing and their pressure on me increases. I don’t want anyone to tell me to focus on meditation. I am already cleaning my aura and chakras and strengthening them and I am trying to use my aura to keep my mother away from me, but it did not work and this needs a strong aura and good spirituality to work or my luck is bad, whatever this matter is does not work with me and I want a practical solution. I am the one in this whole situation, so I came to you, do not tell me to try to talk or continue meditating and control myself. I control myself all the time and I was patient and I really could not bear it anymore. Nothing works with them and the pressure increases. I am writing this while crying and choking I want a quick solution because I can't continue like this. Please, I really need this. I mean this. There is literally no solution with them except something like this, a spell or magic or anything that is guaranteed to work. So please understand this (I want them to stop controlling me and their bad behavior with me. I don't want them to talk to me and I want them to do whatever i want when I ask for something).

Can you explain more in detail, what they do against you?

 

[sonya2006]

Can you explain more in detail, what they do against you?

Controlling clothing, controlling studies, controlling decisions. They shout all the time, pressuring me whenever I try, for example, to improve the situation or do something that helps me, so I can stay away from them they ruin it. They hinder everything in my life, they do not give me money or They bring me my needs, they are stingy . They talk and control me with religion, and they do the worst things in their religion and they do not want anyone to blame them for anything or talk to them about what they do or argue with them. You cannot say no, you will be beaten...many, many things. Their personalities are really bad, there is almost no good in them, there is no escape from them. Whenever I try to work or study to get away from them, they ruin it and close the roads in front of me. Really many things.

 

[Fuchs]

Controlling clothing, controlling studies, controlling decisions. They shout all the time, pressuring me whenever I try, for example, to improve the situation or do something that helps me, so I can stay away from them they ruin it. They hinder everything in my life, they do not give me money or They bring me my needs, they are stingy . They talk and control me with religion, and they do the worst things in their religion and they do not want anyone to blame them for anything or talk to them about what they do or argue with them. You cannot say no, you will be beaten...many, many things. Their personalities are really bad, there is almost no good in them, there is no escape from them. Whenever I try to work or study to get away from them, they ruin it and close the roads in front of me. Really many things.

Do you have any friends or relatives who are good to you?

 

[GoldenWarrior]

Controlling clothing, controlling studies, controlling decisions. They shout all the time, pressuring me whenever I try, for example, to improve the situation or do something that helps me, so I can stay away from them they ruin it. They hinder everything in my life, they do not give me money or They bring me my needs, they are stingy . They talk and control me with religion, and they do the worst things in their religion and they do not want anyone to blame them for anything or talk to them about what they do or argue with them. You cannot say no, you will be beaten...many, many things. Their personalities are really bad, there is almost no good in them, there is no escape from them. Whenever I try to work or study to get away from them, they ruin it and close the roads in front of me. Really many things.

so they wont let you study ? nor will they let you enjoy in your life. Look your Parents are stubborn, i dont think there is any change of stubbornness for them.


Try the Ganesha Mantra for removing obstacles in life. So if your trying to study or give an exam ,which can sort of get you of your home and study somewhere else , and you can be independent , it will help. This is the only practical solution. Infact Gods are always going to help you , and thats the most practical thing to do is to ask help from them. Aura alone wont help you.

Ganesha Mantra = https://ancient-forums.com/threads/ganesha-powerful-mantra.91202/ , start this mantra on a day for removing obstacles , you can check the calendar for that.

Dont stress sister , remain calm , cause thats the better option in this scenario. This will pass as well.

 

[GoldenWarrior]

Controlling clothing, controlling studies, controlling decisions. They shout all the time, pressuring me whenever I try, for example, to improve the situation or do something that helps me, so I can stay away from them they ruin it. They hinder everything in my life, they do not give me money or They bring me my needs, they are stingy . They talk and control me with religion, and they do the worst things in their religion and they do not want anyone to blame them for anything or talk to them about what they do or argue with them. You cannot say no, you will be beaten...many, many things. Their personalities are really bad, there is almost no good in them, there is no escape from them. Whenever I try to work or study to get away from them, they ruin it and close the roads in front of me. Really many things.

and join the online community if you havnt already. You will enjoy the space. And do group rituals of the Gods as well , which will also help you.

 

[sonya2006]

Do you have any friends or relatives who are good to you?

I don't have anyone by my side to help me, only my bf, and unfortunately he has closed all his social media and the Internet because of his work. I don't know why my luck was like this. He was going to save me from all this. I don't know why the circumstances were against me. He was the only one by my side. I really missed him and need him.

 

[Lucius Invictus [NG]]

I think this will benefit you:

If possible, wait until your parents are asleep.

Vibrate WUNJO X 50 (or your choice) while imagining your parents and yourself in a healthy green light + the Rune lighting up white gold in-between you guys. Furthermore, during the vibration and affirmation phase, feel the desirable outcome, e.g., freedom, understanding, love, friendship, etc. Know that your magic is working.

Eg affirmation:
My parents and I have a loving, balanced, and joyful relationship that continues to grow in the best way for all of us, now and forever. x 5

AUM X 1

You can do a ritual to Queen Aphrodite the first day you start the working to ask for help.

Do this for 50 days, to start, and see what happens.

Good luck! Blessings

 

[Valeska]

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. You could start a banishing ritual once the moon is full (full to new moon, never start when moon is void of course). Make sure the affirmations say something about it being healthy and safe for you. I know from experience that it can backfire if not careful with this/not cleaning aura afterwards. For example, I did one for my coworkers that really irritated me and I ended up under another supervisor that I don't like so the situation actually still wasn't great. Of course, this is only if the relationship is totally unfixable. I would give GoldenxChild1's ritual a chance to see if you can fix it depending on how bad the situation is. I totally empathize though, my mom is a narcissist and I've come to realize she won't change because she doesn't think she's doing anything wrong. This is after countless times of trying to help her out, trying to set boundaries, trying to be nice despite how mean she was. Some people are capable of change, some maybe not so much. Anyway, I hope your situation gets better and that you may find happiness
Hail Zeus

 

[Pammy]

Hello dear, I'm very sorry to hear your situation.

To bind your family members: https://web.archive.org/web/20250403035125/http://templeofzeus.org/Binding_Spell
Blessing for the home: https://ancient-forums.com/threads/blessing-for-the-home-by-tgai.302167/

When you are stronger, your spells will be stronger. Repeat these workings as you grow stronger.

I don't have anyone by my side to help me, only my bf, and unfortunately he has closed all his social media and the Internet because of his work. I don't know why my luck was like this. He was going to save me from all this. I don't know why the circumstances were against me. He was the only one by my side. I really missed him and need him.

When someone is failed by their parents, often they look for love and support from their love interests. Which can be fine depending on the other person, but sister(?), you need to be very careful. Instead of being saved, you may find yourself trapped again, this time not by your parents but by your partner. Everything you complained about, controlling clothes, controlling decisions, and financial abuse, can also be done by a partner. Even if he is not a bad person, relying on him for being saved will make him lose respect for you little by little until love is not possible; only pity will be left. Or worse, he can be evil, preying upon a young girl who can't trust her family to back her up. If your only contact with him is through social media, be extra careful. Many people meet their partners online nowadays, so it is not a problem in itself, however, it makes lying very easy. Or he could be weak, someone not able to save you.

Of course, he could be a genuinely good person who loves you and wants to help you. Just be careful and make sure you are in control of the situation. Well-meaning and dependable men don't usually lead young girls on and disappear. Like I said, even if he is not evil, he can be simply too weak in character or in material means to be relied on, just trying to impress you with big promises.

Take care of yourself and stand strong. I wish you all the best in the world.

 

[Demetra934]

deci nu te vor lăsa să studiezi? nici nu te vor lăsa să te bucuri în viața ta. Uite, părinții tăi sunt încăpățânați, nu cred că există vreo schimbare de încăpățânare pentru ei.


Încercați Mantra Ganesha pentru a elimina obstacolele din viață. Deci, dacă încercați să studiați sau să susțineți un examen, care vă poate duce de acasă și să studiați în altă parte și puteți fi independent, vă va ajuta. Aceasta este singura soluție practică. De fapt, zeii te vor ajuta mereu, iar cel mai practic lucru de făcut este să ceri ajutor de la ei. Numai Aura nu te va ajuta.

Mantra Ganesha = https://ancient-forums.com/threads/ganesha-powerful-mantra.91202/ , începeți această mantra într-o zi pentru eliminarea obstacolelor, puteți verifica calendarul pentru asta.

Nu o stresa pe sora, rămâi calm, pentru că asta este opțiunea mai bună în acest scenariu. Va trece şi asta.

Exact, Situația mea După gravidă 2023 Eu don t de lucru 2013-2014/2018-2022 Mama mea de lucru 1-2 luni vechi de locuri de muncă), Eu Dont Au bani pentru că stai cu Mama în copilul meu și bunica Copilul meu Don t ajuta-ma nimic nu bani și am absolut Liceul în țara mea examene orale,examene 3 repeta 2 × rușine nu văd ok mai mulți oameni acest Familia mea unchi și list continue ...și am 3 hobby-uri coafura tunsoare/manchardiser (vânzări mall vestimentar)/Terapeut limfatic și before de toate absolvit toate examenele nu știu.
Rarly I stay this forums have more time with My baby .
I hope so no understanding wrong , I Want Working I Have Situation financial good for My baby future grow up health , I feel My Mother his My blockage in all domenies My Life financial /emoțional .

 

[Adhiti Astartenia]

What you describe seem to be people with narcissitc traits. Utterly controlling, want to sabotage your life on porpouse, they treat you like they don't want you to be there, but, on the contrary, they actually want you to be there so they can keep on abusing you.

First, I suggest you to look for information on these kind of people and observe their cicles. There is usually a cicle about how they behave.

This is a good place for such, I find: https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/

If any of the stories sound like something similar to what you live, then yes, they are probably narcissistic parents. It is not uncommon, but it can make you feel very lonely.

I have personal experience with this, although mine are different from yours. There are different levels of control and it may boil down to context and how much impunity they think they have.

Isolation is also a common tactic from such people, which is one thing that would explain why you don't really have anyone else or, at least, you feel that way.

These people always have tactics, so you should make ones of your own. You may live on a chess board.

AoP and lots of meditation can help with this. At least, to make thing somewhat better. But what I found works the best is literally binding and cursing them. Another thing that works with them is psychic vampyrism, but only after AoP, knowing how to clean, binding and cursing. These type of people usually take the life away from you, literally, they suck out your energy and vitality. So, the type of psychic vampyrisn I am suggesting is more like "give it back to me". They may take away opportunities in life, luck and put blockages. So that would also explain bad luck, apart from planets.

Hope it doesn't ruffle feathers, but this kind of "parents" don't act as such, to the point you don't feel them as your "family" anymore, except on the amount of control they have over you. I don't believe that family should only be determined on biology. You could be literally be born to psychopaths just because they decided to have children, and then what? You justify them? You let them destroy you because they are "family"? Of course not.

Given they don't really think like a real family, I will elaborate on their real thinking. They are using a position of advantage against you. They are older than you, they have a house, they have some money and they have a bond with you. They use all of this to create their own personal pet or slave, whatever your situation is. What they are most afraid of is losing control.

You will need detaching too. Cutting the cords and freeing the soul:

Freeing the Soul

How to Detach Unwanted People/Entities from Your Aura

If you are psychic enough, you may be able to feel just how negative, dirty, chaotic and even evil these people are. It goes to different degrees, so only you may be able to tell in your case. Also, how much spiritual power thay themselves have (I wouldn't underestimate this).

There is no ONE spell that will suddenly take them away from your life. You will need more of an arsenal energetically, at least while you are still living with them. And even if you go somewhere else, so they don't come back demanding something or acting nice.

Don't discard studying just because it may not seem to save you right now. It will help you on the long term. Plus, if you have the opportunity of going to University, you will meet new people and somewhat get away from their control. If you can't go to a place to study right now, try searching online. There are free courses, including the asincronic ones, where you don't need to follow a specific schedule (so they won't sabotage that), including both for increasing your employability and for just knowing more.

These are just some I know:

https://www.open.edu/openlearn/free-courses/full-catalogue

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Do learn about your rights, by the way.

I don't know in which country you live, as it works different everywhere, but you also seem to be describing a situation of domestic violence. That's not legal in certain places. Or is a least a contravention and deserves intervention by the State. But, again, I don't know where you live, so I suggest you look up for services for domestic violence and violence against women in your country and zone. And also check out how it works there.

These people cannot be changed or negotiated with, so don't put your energy on that. Or even thinking about that. Also, if they suddenly start being nice, don't fall for that: it's a trap. It may happen when they see they don't have as much control over you anymore.

So, do the basics of meditation, and don't be afraid to bind them and curse them. They are the kind of people to be really sticky in a way and be over you, controlling. They don't want things to be better, as it doesn't serve them.

And keep your projects in utmost secret. Everything about getting out of there, everything about studyng, working, having a career, a friend, a secret.

Also, narcissists follow a certain rule: they are as bad as they are allowed to.

 

[solosince1995]

First of all, I don’t want anyone to tell me to try to talk to my family or to be strong and patient and try to study or do something because I have already been patient enough and I have been trying under a lot of pressure since I was young until now. I am 18 years old and I have not had a good day and I have always tried and nothing works with them, literally nothing and their pressure on me increases. I don’t want anyone to tell me to focus on meditation. I am already cleaning my aura and chakras and strengthening them and I am trying to use my aura to keep my mother away from me, but it did not work and this needs a strong aura and good spirituality to work or my luck is bad, whatever this matter is does not work with me and I want a practical solution. I am the one in this whole situation, so I came to you, do not tell me to try to talk or continue meditating and control myself. I control myself all the time and I was patient and I really could not bear it anymore. Nothing works with them and the pressure increases. I am writing this while crying and choking I want a quick solution because I can't continue like this. Please, I really need this. I mean this. There is literally no solution with them except something like this, a spell or magic or anything that is guaranteed to work. So please understand this (I want them to stop controlling me and their bad behavior with me. I don't want them to talk to me and I want them to do whatever i want when I ask for something).

Meditation can free you from ALOT of mental distress. You’re 18, which is incredibly young. You’ve found something as amazing as the Temple of Zeus. You said, you don’t want them to talk to you. But you want them to do whatever you want them to do pretty much at only your acceptance and expectations.. and at they’re cost im assuming..

And others are giving you advice like remove them as an obstacle, or to bind them.. is this teenforsatan or something?

You have parents that care for you. Many people don’t have that. Ever seen the movie home alone where the boy wishes that his family would just disappear?lol jk no.. I understand. But the good part is your 18, your coming into your own. And you have parents that seem to want to be involved with you.

If there was a system of magick that would manifest in a matter of hours, easily and effortlessly and only at the expensive and negative emotions of others without any hard work I hardly doubt this group would have existed for what almost 3 decades?

You can work on your meditation and yoga and your chakras, which will naturally put you in tune with yourself and your environment and will give you the ability to process things as they come along a lot better. You can meditate and reflect on yourself and your goals and realize you’re a legal adult now so you really don’t need your parents for anything and work torwards getting along with them. Religiously speaking to each his own but if it’s effecting you can you undo this with the beginners sections on the awareness meditations list there’s a meditation for ridding yourself of false programming so to speak.
You can do a spell or working for attracting a job and home of your own your an adult now and don’t really need them but. They’re your parents.. depending on your Relationship growing up with them more than likely they will probably always be around in some way shape of form and will still have some type of authority over you your very young.

A working for mental maturity, strengthening of your will power, and perhaps programming for building a better bond with your folks seems like a way better solution than to try and look for spells that will probably in all reality if even manifest, will manifest in a way far off from your expectations that’s just the reality of something like this. If you came on here and said they were abusing you or something hostile yeah I’d offer to bind them for you but mutual respect is a real thing and so is they’re house they’re rules and anyone who would think that’s unreasonable, I probably wouldn’t take advice from.

Magick to strengthen will power
Magick for employment and own place to live though even this comes with responsibilities and obstacles.. but you’ll become more independent. And at that point it really won’t matter what they have to say at all