how to input natal charts in "match-making"?

[astarothmyqueen]

Hi!

Surely this is something that got to have signifigance right? yes i have just met a girl which i first had interest in but now its almost totally gone. i am a scorpio and have a strong emphasis on it in my natal, im also looking through this girls natal at the moment.

her ascendant is saggitarious, and her sun sign is in cancer. i thought the ascendant is always in our zodiac sign btw, is this incorrect? but i think this is the second chart im looking a bit deeper into so im not sure.

anyways, is there a way for me to see if we match(natally speaking) judging from her i think that cancer is a damn weak sign(does anyone agree btw?) and i see no future with us together but nonetheless is does not hurt for me trying to figure out our natal aspects(for better or worse)

does our ascendant signs play a crucial part here? or is it the zodiac that has the most influence for a match or a "dump her" signal? i have a hunch that venus might have big influence too while speaking of love?

her venus is in leo(eight house) and this describes her very good, a nervous wreck thats jealous and demands 1000000% attention at all time( and ohyea she is a sexfreak xD)

this does not work at all for the scorpio i am, my venus is in me 11th house(libra) which makes for a romantic dude but not at all in her portion, she mostly just keeps yappin about herself and being generally scared of anything, she cried hysterically for 20 mins after seeing a tiny mouse one time -.- seriously?

but i guess every single planet and its placements holds signifigance in its own way when doing this Natal-matchmaking too huh?

does anyone know how i should see which planets and their placements how they correspond to my own?

or is the process much easier solved if i were only to compare our zodiacs? then how does a scorpio match a cancer? or for that matter, which sign matches a scorpio?

Cheers..

 

[f.follets]

Synastry isn't that simple. There are many layers of compatibility between charts, and a relationship often needs a strong combination of that to work out.

The Ascendant is obviously important, because it's a huge part of personality, but in relationships what you seek is the opposite sign, the Descendant.

For example, if her AC is Sagittarius, her DC would be Gemini. The 7th house describes the partner, and in this case she seeks and attracts Gemini-like personalities, but this can change depending on the placement of Mercury in the chart. For things to work out as it is, you would need to bring her Mercurial qualities, which you may or may not have, depending on your chart. Depending on your own AC/DC axis, she may or may not bring to you what you seek in a relationship.

Venus in Libra makes for easy adaptation to other people, but because of your Scorpio (fixed) emphasis, it's not easy for you to deal with her. Venus in Leo sure likes drama, as does Cancer, so depending on her Moon sign you're really in for a soap opera story with her. But here's the deal: her chart asks for a flexible (Gemini-like) partner that can cope with her. Are you flexible with such a strong Scorpio emphasis?

Cancer is very compatible with Scorpio, though, because these are both water signs, meaning they work in trine aspect. Cancer is very emotional, so her actions are very normal, even if exaggerated by her ascendant and Venus (and possibly her Moon sign).

Planetary aspects between charts say a lot, so it would need more than just that info to be sure if you'd be good for each other. Easy aspects are good for compatibility but don't do much for passion and intensity. Hard aspects bring challenges, but variety is the spice of life after all. The main planets you'd look for when analysing two charts are the personal planets (Sun through Mars), but obviously all are important.

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "astarothmyqueen" <astarothmyqueen@... wrote:

Hi!

Surely this is something that got to have signifigance right? yes i have just met a girl which i first had interest in but now its almost totally gone. i am a scorpio and have a strong emphasis on it in my natal, im also looking through this girls natal at the moment.

her ascendant is saggitarious, and her sun sign is in cancer. i thought the ascendant is always in our zodiac sign btw, is this incorrect? but i think this is the second chart im looking a bit deeper into so im not sure.

anyways, is there a way for me to see if we match(natally speaking) judging from her i think that cancer is a damn weak sign(does anyone agree btw?) and i see no future with us together but nonetheless is does not hurt for me trying to figure out our natal aspects(for better or worse)

does our ascendant signs play a crucial part here? or is it the zodiac that has the most influence for a match or a "dump her" signal? i have a hunch that venus might have big influence too while speaking of love?

her venus is in leo(eight house) and this describes her very good, a nervous wreck thats jealous and demands 1000000% attention at all time( and ohyea she is a sexfreak xD)

this does not work at all for the scorpio i am, my venus is in me 11th house(libra) which makes for a romantic dude but not at all in her portion, she mostly just keeps yappin about herself and being generally scared of anything, she cried hysterically for 20 mins after seeing a tiny mouse one time -.- seriously?

but i guess every single planet and its placements holds signifigance in its own way when doing this Natal-matchmaking too huh?

does anyone know how i should see which planets and their placements how they correspond to my own?

or is the process much easier solved if i were only to compare our zodiacs? then how does a scorpio match a cancer? or for that matter, which sign matches a scorpio?

Cheers..