how to forgive someone?

[spiritual.jedi]

I want to forgive persons who hurt my feelings, but it is hard. Anyone knows how to forgive?

 

[vahswplhvsc4357o4irdmlulgj4pifhsbojb2jzg]

Dude, we're not xian's (Christians, we x out the "Christ"), if you do not want to forgive them, don't, it's your choice.

 

[Mikel Batsard]

Void meditations under "Meditations" section on Joy of Satan website helps. Basically, the best thing you can do for yourself is to "let go" of any instance where they hurt you. Focus on the void, a vast expanse of nothingness and send all of that excess feelings of hurt into it. Feel all of it leaving your body. You will most likely have to do this multiple times to start to feel yourself letting go of it all, but any time those feelings surface get rid of them in this way. It is not healthful to hold onto them, and holding onto this kind of energy will keep your soul in a constant state of not growing. 

On Sat, Nov 17, 2018, 2:56 PM spiritual.jedi@... [JoyofSatan666] <[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url] wrote:

  I want to forgive persons who hurt my feelings, but it is hard. Anyone knows how to forgive?

 

[Mikel Batsard]

Agreed  with DoNotFearTheTruth,Why take time out of your day to forgive someone that would still go out of their way to bring you down to their pathetic level?

 

On Nov 17, 2018 4:06 PM, "donotfearthetruth@... [JoyofSatan666]" <[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url] wrote:

  Dude, we're not xian's (Christians, we x out the "Christ"), if you do not want to forgive them, don't, it's your choice.

 

[ashleyslade0124]

Forgiveness is an emotional state that you either come to or you don't given the circumstances, it's not something you do as such. I'll explain. 

If someone does something that hurts and upsets you it is 100% natural to feel a dislike or anger towards those people. If these people have since apologized and have made it clear they didn't want to hurt you, then naturally your anger and hurt may start to go and we call this forgiveness. Moreover as time goes on your anger over what they did may naturally fade away, provided that you find an outlet for your feelings. 

If on the other hand they haven't apologized and haven't acknowledged the hurt they have caused you then these aren't people you should be trying to force yourself to forgive, because they aren't respecting your emotional well being. You have to acknowledge your own emotional needs and take care of yourself, if another person or group of people is causing you distress and they are not sorry for it then you may want to ask yourself why you are trying to force yourself to forgive them. Abuse is not something we accept as Satanists.

And of course, it all depends on how deeply they've hurt you. Some things can't be forgiven.

 

[dylanbartone]

If some one is hurting you why would u forgive them.???
You might as well go smash your hands and make their meals.

If I want a good relation with said person(for way ever reason) confront them in the moment of them hurting when ever it happens. If they continue to be a cock holster then fk off with the haters.