This could go on for thousands of years, but I won't betray him and I don't want anyone else, even my passion for fantasizing about sex has disappeared. How can I ease my suffering?
How to completely eliminate the need for sex and social connections?I'm in love forever but my partner is out of reach and we can't communicate.
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Imposed restraint without any understanding is without question harmful, and this is what the main 'religions' preach, but this is not what I'm talking about here. I was listening to a Yogi and he pointed out that the concept of sexual restraint, was actually known to the Ancients for thousands of years, but later Christianity and Islam took it, and removed all the knowledge around it, on how it is to be done properly, the Sadhana to do, the way you handle and not repress the urge, redirecting the energy to the higer energy centers and so on. Your own willingness to do it is extremely important, but these religions impose it on you, and that's terrible.
I urge people to not fall for the simplistic thinking of 'the Church preaches it, therefore it is bad'. Don't be a contrarian just for the sake of it, look furhter, analyze deeper.
For those who will make the argument 'well, sex is a natural human need, just like food, neglegting it would be stupid', I'd like to draw inspiration from one of Vilet's books on the matter. He argues that hunger and lust aren't similar at all, they are actually opposite. Why do we feel the need to eat? Why did nature instill that need in us? To nourish our bodies and stay alive as individuals. Why do we feel sexual urges? To have fun with ourselves? To have fun with women? Was this the actual intent? NO, not at all, the intent was to make babies. To reproduce, nothing else. They are called reproductive organs, not 'pleasure' organs. Even though there is nothing inherently wrong morally in having sex for fun, don't get me wrong. But that isn't why we feel compelled to do it, biologically.
Previously, I would have completely agreed with you. But now, things have changed as I have witnessed first-hand the alternative. The sexual energy does not need to be used for pleasure; it can be directed to one's health and well-being, eliminating the need for carnal pleasure. It can also be used for other higher purposes, such as meditation and other higher spiritual goals.
The health expenditure of sexual activity is real, but this is solved through spiritual gains in vitality and balance.
The main point of HPS Pythia, and what is being confused here, is the purpose of sex. The higher purpose and value is not simply pleasure, but rather it is spiritual development. Sex is Plutonian; it is the fusing of yin and yang. Restrictions imposed by the enemy on this are not just about causing physical backup, but creating spiritual degeneration.
The extreme pleasure state of the orgasm is what drives the manifestation to take place, because this is the sensory proof of the desire being fulfilled. The desire can be connected to anything one wants, such as performance goals, but the pleasure is always there and should be strengthened for a better result. One can use their partner as a bridge for this, such as in roleplay or other fantasy, and as a way to increase their natural arousal, especially for more abstract desires.
As a Zevist, practice your sex magick, not sexual restriction. If you do not like the current results you receive from your sexual activity, explore more and build up the spiritual skill, rather than believe it is capped at that point.
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Imposed restraint without any understanding is without question harmful, and this is what the main 'religions' preach, but this is not what I'm talking about here. I was listening to a Yogi and he pointed out that the concept of sexual restraint, was actually known to the Ancients for thousands of years, but later Christianity and Islam took it, and removed all the knowledge around it, on how it is to be done properly, the Sadhana to do, the way you handle and not repress the urge, redirecting the energy to the higer energy centers and so on. Your own willingness to do it is extremely important, but these religions impose it on you, and that's terrible.
I urge people to not fall for the simplistic thinking of 'the Church preaches it, therefore it is bad'. Don't be a contrarian just for the sake of it, look furhter, analyze deeper.
For those who will make the argument 'well, sex is a natural human need, just like food, neglegting it would be stupid', I'd like to draw inspiration from one of Vilet's books on the matter. He argues that hunger and lust aren't similar at all, they are actually opposite. Why do we feel the need to eat? Why did nature instill that need in us? To nourish our bodies and stay alive as individuals. Why do we feel sexual urges? To have fun with ourselves? To have fun with women? Was this the actual intent? NO, not at all, the intent was to make babies. To reproduce, nothing else. They are called reproductive organs, not 'pleasure' organs. Even though there is nothing inherently wrong morally in having sex for fun, don't get me wrong. But that isn't why we feel compelled to do it, biologically.
Previously, I would have completely agreed with you. But now, things have changed as I have witnessed first-hand the alternative. The sexual energy does not need to be used for pleasure; it can be directed to one's health and well-being, eliminating the need for carnal pleasure. It can also be used for other higher purposes, such as meditation and other higher spiritual goals.
The health expenditure of sexual activity is real, but this is solved through spiritual gains in vitality and balance.
The main point of HPS Pythia, and what is being confused here, is the purpose of sex. The higher purpose and value is not simply pleasure, but rather it is spiritual development. Sex is Plutonian; it is the fusing of yin and yang. Restrictions imposed by the enemy on this are not just about causing physical backup, but creating spiritual degeneration.
The extreme pleasure state of the orgasm is what drives the manifestation to take place, because this is the sensory proof of the desire being fulfilled. The desire can be connected to anything one wants, such as performance goals, but the pleasure is always there and should be strengthened for a better result. One can use their partner as a bridge for this, such as in roleplay or other fantasy, and as a way to increase their natural arousal, especially for more abstract desires.
As a Zevist, practice your sex magick, not sexual restriction. If you do not like the current results you receive from your sexual activity, explore more and build up the spiritual skill, rather than believe it is capped at that point.
The health expenditure of sexual activity is real, but this is solved through spiritual gains in vitality and balance.
The main point of HPS Pythia, and what is being confused here, is the purpose of sex. The higher purpose and value is not simply pleasure, but rather it is spiritual development. Sex is Plutonian; it is the fusing of yin and yang. Restrictions imposed by the enemy on this are not just about causing physical backup, but creating spiritual degeneration.
The extreme pleasure state of the orgasm is what drives the manifestation to take place, because this is the sensory proof of the desire being fulfilled. The desire can be connected to anything one wants, such as performance goals, but the pleasure is always there and should be strengthened for a better result. One can use their partner as a bridge for this, such as in roleplay or other fantasy, and as a way to increase their natural arousal, especially for more abstract desires.
Quite an assumption on your part. I will leave it at that.
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The health expenditure of sexual activity is real, but this is solved through spiritual gains in vitality and balance.
The main point of HPS Pythia, and what is being confused here, is the purpose of sex. The higher purpose and value is not simply pleasure, but rather it is spiritual development. Sex is Plutonian; it is the fusing of yin and yang. Restrictions imposed by the enemy on this are not just about causing physical backup, but creating spiritual degeneration.
The extreme pleasure state of the orgasm is what drives the manifestation to take place, because this is the sensory proof of the desire being fulfilled. The desire can be connected to anything one wants, such as performance goals, but the pleasure is always there and should be strengthened for a better result. One can use their partner as a bridge for this, such as in roleplay or other fantasy, and as a way to increase their natural arousal, especially for more abstract desires.
Quite an assumption on your part. I will leave it at that.
I think I read that Mantak Chia's wife divorced him for his obsession with not ejaculating.
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I think I read that Mantak Chia's wife divorced him for his obsession with not ejaculating.
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I think it's a lot easier to do (channel this energy) if you have an all-consuming obsession or goal of some sort, or are generally more intellectually obsessive. It is definitely also a personality thing, for example if you are someone who doesn't value or gain much from physical/material/sensory stimulation in general. I've been doing it for a few weeks and can say it has stabilised my brain and emotions completely, whereas I had been mentally erratic for the last year. It focused me like a laser beam.
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I think it's a lot easier to do (channel this energy) if you have an all-consuming obsession or goal of some sort, or are generally more intellectually obsessive. It is definitely also a personality thing, for example if you are someone who doesn't value or gain much from physical/material/sensory stimulation in general. I've been doing it for a few weeks and can say it has stabilised my brain and emotions completely, whereas I had been mentally erratic for the last year. It focused me like a laser beam.
You are in the know. I want to add that there is pleasure in taking pleasure in these other things (because from my previous post, it could be understood that there would not be pleasure anymore). A much more sophisticated form of pleasure. A full-body orgasm is much more pleasurable than a "squirt orgasm", for example. And then there is the fact that pleasure can be taken from many other avenues, such as sports, arts, culture, science, metaphysical pursuits, and whatever else there is. A high-energy state is something exciting to witness happening continuously.
Squirt massage is a variation of the yoni massage techniques described in tantric texts. It is a skill that every straight, married man should have.
I read a little of Mantak Chia's book. I liked the part that talks about exercising the pelvic floor muscles. This exercise is the cure for premature ejaculation. I've known this for years; Kegel exercises are great.
Of course, I don't agree with everything the book says. But even so, it's an interesting book.
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You are in the know. I want to add that there is pleasure in taking pleasure in these other things (because from my previous post, it could be understood that there would not be pleasure anymore). A much more sophisticated form of pleasure. A full-body orgasm is much more pleasurable than a "squirt orgasm", for example. And then there is the fact that pleasure can be taken from many other avenues, such as sports, arts, culture, science, metaphysical pursuits, and whatever else there is. A high-energy state is something exciting to witness happening continuously.
Squirt massage is a variation of the yoni massage techniques described in tantric texts. It is a skill that every straight, married man should have.
I read a little of Mantak Chia's book. I liked the part that talks about exercising the pelvic floor muscles. This exercise is the cure for premature ejaculation. I've known this for years; Kegel exercises are great.
Of course, I don't agree with everything the book says. But even so, it's an interesting book.
Squirt massage is a variation of the yoni massage techniques described in tantric texts. It is a skill that every straight, married man should have.
I read a little of Mantak Chia's book. I liked the part that talks about exercising the pelvic floor muscles. This exercise is the cure for premature ejaculation. I've known this for years; Kegel exercises are great.
Of course, I don't agree with everything the book says. But even so, it's an interesting book.
We are not talking about the same subject here. Notice the different words. In any case, I congratulate you on your sexual discoveries.
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Squirt massage is a variation of the yoni massage techniques described in tantric texts. It is a skill that every straight, married man should have.
I read a little of Mantak Chia's book. I liked the part that talks about exercising the pelvic floor muscles. This exercise is the cure for premature ejaculation. I've known this for years; Kegel exercises are great.
Of course, I don't agree with everything the book says. But even so, it's an interesting book.
We are not talking about the same subject here. Notice the different words. In any case, I congratulate you on your sexual discoveries.
In my opinion, the topic of blocking ejaculation began to be promoted when Vedic tantra and other similar Eastern practices were infiltrated and corrupted by Jainism, Confucianism, and Buddhism.
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In my opinion, the topic of blocking ejaculation began to be promoted when Vedic tantra and other similar Eastern practices were infiltrated and corrupted by Jainism, Confucianism, and Buddhism.
Sex magick, as I see it, is a way to not waste all of the energy that is raised in the act, it's not the optimal way to handle that energy. I often hear people say 'sex magick is extremely powerful, immensely powerful' and so on. Yeah, I know. But guess where that power is coming from? It's coming from your energy reserves, and once they're gone, they're gone forever. What if you retained them and handled them properly in Meditation though, without exerting them?
About your first point, that the expenditure can be solved through health improvement and so on, many Yogis would respond by telling you that sure, you may make some improvements, but you will never be able to gain back all that was lost over a long period of time. The processes to create semen are incredibly complex, they require time and the taxation that releasing it takes on the body can never be recovered in totality with good nutrition and spiritual techniques, over a long period of time.
In my opinion, restricting your energies will harm more than using them. Yes, ejaculating so many times like an addict will drain you, but without using energy and channeling them according to your wish will not help you in any way.
Energies are here for using and without using, and practice, you can't control them. Just simply collecting energies and storing them forever will end up leaking or hurting yourself. Restrictions are often not good. Also, energy can be renewed, so not using it does not make sense to me. And if I recall correctly, sexual energies can be restored in 3 to 9 days fully.
That being said, I practiced mantak chia, and honestly, I couldn't feel a big difference in my life, even though I experienced some pleasurable moments.
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Sex magick, as I see it, is a way to not waste all of the energy that is raised in the act, it's not the optimal way to handle that energy. I often hear people say 'sex magick is extremely powerful, immensely powerful' and so on. Yeah, I know. But guess where that power is coming from? It's coming from your energy reserves, and once they're gone, they're gone forever. What if you retained them and handled them properly in Meditation though, without exerting them?
About your first point, that the expenditure can be solved through health improvement and so on, many Yogis would respond by telling you that sure, you may make some improvements, but you will never be able to gain back all that was lost over a long period of time. The processes to create semen are incredibly complex, they require time and the taxation that releasing it takes on the body can never be recovered in totality with good nutrition and spiritual techniques, over a long period of time.
In my opinion, restricting your energies will harm more than using them. Yes, ejaculating so many times like an addict will drain you, but without using energy and channeling them according to your wish will not help you in any way.
Energies are here for using and without using, and practice, you can't control them. Just simply collecting energies and storing them forever will end up leaking or hurting yourself. Restrictions are often not good. Also, energy can be renewed, so not using it does not make sense to me. And if I recall correctly, sexual energies can be restored in 3 to 9 days fully.
That being said, I practiced mantak chia, and honestly, I couldn't feel a big difference in my life, even though I experienced some pleasurable moments.
This is the targeted message.
Mantak Chia has laid out clear instructions even for the layman to succeed at, given enough practice.
Clearly advancement is not something that can be categorized in one way only, but consists of multiple "departments". I am curious if the subsequent updates will clarify this.
I used to read Mantak Chia's book, The Multi-Orgasmic Man, a lot. But since I didn't have a girlfriend, I had no motivation. So my practice didn't last long. It was only occasional.
But it's a really good book. It's just that after the cold pull-up and the big pull-up, the energy always got stuck. In my back and head, I couldn't release it no matter what I did. But when I got better at Hatha yoga later on, it solved that problem. Hatha yoga helps release energy buildup.
You can develop yourself using these methods on your own, but I must add this for the sake of completeness. Because I have meditated a lot on this topic.
At this level of human existence, neither men nor women are complete. Therefore, their full creative potential can only be realized together. For example, in procreation. But what if this energy were used as money magic, for example? To improve the family's financial situation, or for other spiritual purposes. I think the result would be much better than if only one party did something alone. So I think that as a team, if it is well organized, for example in the form of a man and a woman, they can go further. But if the circumstances are not right, then it is worth continuing alone.
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Mantak Chia has laid out clear instructions even for the layman to succeed at, given enough practice.
Clearly advancement is not something that can be categorized in one way only, but consists of multiple "departments". I am curious if the subsequent updates will clarify this.
I used to read Mantak Chia's book, The Multi-Orgasmic Man, a lot. But since I didn't have a girlfriend, I had no motivation. So my practice didn't last long. It was only occasional.
But it's a really good book. It's just that after the cold pull-up and the big pull-up, the energy always got stuck. In my back and head, I couldn't release it no matter what I did. But when I got better at Hatha yoga later on, it solved that problem. Hatha yoga helps release energy buildup.
You can develop yourself using these methods on your own, but I must add this for the sake of completeness. Because I have meditated a lot on this topic.
At this level of human existence, neither men nor women are complete. Therefore, their full creative potential can only be realized together. For example, in procreation. But what if this energy were used as money magic, for example? To improve the family's financial situation, or for other spiritual purposes. I think the result would be much better than if only one party did something alone. So I think that as a team, if it is well organized, for example in the form of a man and a woman, they can go further. But if the circumstances are not right, then it is worth continuing alone.