How do the God's behave "in love"?

[sinbad]

How do the God's show love/affection towards each other and create mystery or intrigue in their relationships to still keep things fresh and exciting?

Seduction always has some degree of "fantasy" which is a harmless type of manipulation, like storytelling I believe. Otherwise thing's get stale.

But God's are telepathic so they'd just know what the other is trying to do anyway, and don't have all of the normal human emotional issue's which make's certain types of romance exciting. e.g., some people like you BECAUSE of your specific flaw's, which they can "fill" - but what about when you've advanced so far you no longer have many flaws? People seem to find perfect people "boring"...?

And a lot girl's these days would find "romantic things" or passionate displays of emotion to be kinda lame or desperate and off-putting. But it would be a more appealing for me to show affection through a detached but powerfully expressive way, such as creating music/art/poetry as an expression of love - I hate gooey verbal expressions, it feels uncouth and devoid of mystery and diffuses the passion into something cheap and pathetic as mere words without any skill or weight. Whereas art transmutes it into something immortal, and implies effort.

So how do God's behave in such a context, and would it translate well for humans to embody, or are we too underdeveloped at the moment? Have they any writings on this topic I could look into, or ancient philosophers/writers to understand how to behave?

I don't really know really know how to receive or show love/affection.

The last time and only time I was in a relationship I just acted like myself, and they seemed to like me. But they always questioned my abnormal habits regarding affection. Not in a malicious way, but out of curiosity. I became insecure about it, like I was a freak.

And so I ended up just copying them and how they acted and chose to express, which was probably off-putting and fake, but I just don't know how to behave in an emotional/romantic context.

Like I feel I literally don't have the same programming for it... I "feel" as other's feel but the channel to express it is missing, or different to how others like to receive love. And it's something I have to manually practice and learn.

I always end up trying to reflect the other person's behaviour, because I don't know what my behaviour is "supposed to" look like.

Something in me is a romantic, but is also constantly trying to erase and remove these tendencies - to kill the romantic in me. Consciously, I know it's unwise, especially because of the heavy Venusian themes in my soul, but I hate being so heavily controlled by something I'm incompetent at.

 

[WoadWarrior]

Honestly nobody here will be able to tell you that, The Gods dont tend to reveal too much personal information beyond what is necessary and I think this is even more true when it comes to romance and sex, quite frankly its just not our business and however they court each other would in no way be able to be replicated here amongst Humanity, as for Ancient philosophers many do have quite a lot to say on love and romance and everything in between but I am not sure how well their advice would translate to the modern day.

My advice is don't try and be someone your not when it comes to romance, at best someone will develop feelings for a mask that will eventually slip and then it will all be ruined, at worst they will always have a sneaking suspicion that you arent being genuine and be repulsed by this which will yet again ruin the relationship.

If you want a girl who would be impressed by an artistic display then you need to find one who is actually interested in those things, you cant go to a bar or the gym and expect to find a women who likes poetry, if you go to a poetry class however you would find one, same with music or painting you need to search for the communities that these people gather in to find what your looking for, I personally am only looking for casual things and so I use dating apps and the bar scene if I were to seek a spiritual partner for something longer term I would specifically look where I think I could find one instead of just hoping.

Most people dont really know what they are doing, we are all just doing the best we can, most people just copy what they think they should do, being unsure how to act romantically is actually very normal behavior no need to ruminate too strongly upon it as it will likely just make it worse, Google rumination as a psychological concept to see what I mean in that regard.