Family Family involvement

Like you said, sometimes circumstances are outside of our control. Life is not perfect for anyone, meaning there isn't a single person who has a perfect life. Just look at your birth chart.

You have a Saturn in a specific sign and house, and possibly in hard aspects to other planets. This represents where you struggle in life, where there are delays, where you need to learn to have patience and moderation. Everyone has a Saturn, and every Saturn like every planet has a shadow side.

You also have a Neptune. The sign, the house, any hard aspects to other planets... these also show you where you may find disappointment in life, where your expectations fail to meet reality, where you are weak and vulnerable. Everyone has a Neptune, and every Neptune has a shadow side.

And these are only simple examples of where astrology tells you about yourself and your problems. We are meant to live our lives, to experience the good, the bad, and the ugly. If perfection existed, life would be stagnant: no growth, no purpose, nothing to really live for. It's by experiencing imperfection and issues that we are driven to improve ourselves and to grow in life. It's important to accept this is the reality.

Sure, problems can absolutely be overcome over time, but you need to ask yourself what are your priorities in life at the current moment.

If trying to improve things with your blood family is a priority at the moment, then by all means also perform witchcraft to mend what's broken or kickstart what does not exist yet if not as a seed, perform God rituals that relate to it, ask the Gods for advice, and study academic books that help with building family relationships.

If building your own family is the priority, you can still try and benefit from a good family by choosing your partner carefully and, possibly, having children when the time is right.

If family is not a priority for you right, then it would be best to focus your energies elsewhere, no matter how painful or difficult it might be. There will be other things in your life right now that will give you pleasure, as well as other things that will give you pain. The goal is to keep moving forward.

Once you have identified your priorities, feel free to let us know how we can help, if you need help. Feel free to talk to us or to someone else about anything that pains you or frustrates you. The Temple is a family, and we're here to support you.

I wish you all the best going forward!