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Relationships #931 Tips for a meeting

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My boyfriend is coming from abroad, what can I do to make it perfect in every aspect and not leave it to chance? We met online. He will be here around February but I am already very stressed. For example, I don't have the money to buy a nice perfume, what can I do? Or I don't know if there is a good time to start the beauty spell until February, so that he finds me very, very beautiful. What kind of workings can I do for this?
 
The working called be yourself and let this be how it is.

If it doesn't work out then it is not meant to be. These things should play out naturally.

Just be yourself. If he loves you for you anyways, why change yourself?
 
Turn every single device off, go somewhere quiet, and sit in complete silence for 20 minutes.
Do that again, while imagining that he is also right there next to you, also sitting in complete silence.
See what happens.
If you're comfortable in that situation, you're ready for whatever happens.
 
Turn every single device off, go somewhere quiet, and sit in complete silence for 20 minutes.
Do that again, while imagining that he is also right there next to you, also sitting in complete silence.
See what happens.
If you're comfortable in that situation, you're ready for whatever happens.

You will notice that this can't really be called a spell, barely a meditation, because it's just a thought exercise to help you realize that:
1. You should be comfortable in your skin no matter what.
2. If you genuinely feel love for this person, their presence alone will make you feel more comfortable in your skin.

Genuinely, no magick advice here. My advice? Chill.
 
The working called be yourself and let this be how it is.

If it doesn't work out then it is not meant to be. These things should play out naturally.

Just be yourself. If he loves you for you anyways, why change yourself?
The problem with the spell you want is quite clear: a good first date doesn't mean that things will work out between you, or maybe you're not good for each other and that good first date just hides it.
Look at your natal charts, analyze whether you're good for each other, and if you need to do a spell to make it work between you. As for the date itself, be yourself.
 
The problem with the spell you want is quite clear: a good first date doesn't mean that things will work out between you, or maybe you're not good for each other and that good first date just hides it.
Look at your natal charts, analyze whether you're good for each other, and if you need to do a spell to make it work between you. As for the date itself, be yourself.
Perhaps doing a working to remove negative karmic issues would be better.

It worked for me.
 
There is no need to use expensive perfumes to make your body smell nice. Good body hygiene, diet and wearing clean clothes are enough to contribute for pleasant body odour, so you don't have to worry about this matter. (Unless there is a problem with unpleasant body odour despite proper body hygiene, however there are ways to deal with it, and those does not involve using perfumes).

It's clear that you care a lot about this meeting, which is understandable in a sense, but you won't see this man until February, and yet you're already stressing out quite a lot about this meeting. Don't overthink about what will potentially happen and try to relax more. Personally, a few years ago I used this pranayama technique to calm down, that is: inhaling for six seconds, holding it for six seconds, and exhaling for six seconds. (Just focus on your breathing and feel yourself calm down). If you feel uncomfortable holding for six seconds, you can lower it to, for example, four seconds - the point is to not overdo it. However, you can deal with stress in any other ways - going into a trance, void meditation, just to name a few. Additionally for beauty, you could breathe in green energy and state an affirmation according to your intentions.

For the upcoming date, dress comfortably and nicely, take care of proper body hygiene, choose a nice hairstyle and (optionally) you can do delicate face makeup. Be yourself during the meeting, do not pretend anything. Above all, relax and approach the meeting with a calmer attitude, as this will make the experience more pleasent for you, rather than worrying about details that may prevent you from fully enjoying the meeting.
 

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