I live in a very small town where people my age only care about drinking and "partying" and I don't like that.
I lost all my friends from school because none of them were really my friends and they just wanted to use me for their own benefit.
In the end I'm a person who spends all the time alone, I don't see a problem with going out alone or doing things alone, but certain things are done with friends.
I don't want to connect with these people because I want to leave here one day, I wish I could show you the reality of these people's mentality and you would understand, but I also understand that social interaction is necessary, but once every 6 months it doesn't make sense. In the end it's become a circle that I can't get out of, what do I do? Do I have to connect with these people for the sake of social interaction? Sometimes I miss having friends, but everyone I met in the end never was a truly friend. I'm not alone emotionally because I prefer to be alone, but I am alone socially.
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I'm really glad I've mostly avoided those kinds of people, and tge few times I did befriend them, I regretted it. I agree what MT88 said, if you want friends, seek out better ones than drunk andrapoda. Program your aura to attract them, take a class you're interested in, visit places where better things are happening, etc, to meet people.
(Hi! I don't post or talk a lot, but I'm SS, here for some years learning and participating silently 🤫😉)
Greetings, Brother / Sister!
No evil should be should be connected "for the sake of social interaction". Hermitude and seclusion is as sacred as social interaction. These are both equally needed and to be applied when time is good for each. Your time is obviously good for seclusion and being a hermit. There are a lot of books, studies and yes, relationships, that can happen in solitary investigation. For example relating to the geniuses of other epochs through great things their wrote / created, their souls are expressed in their writings / creations, you feel them and you do not feel alone. Relating to Gods through working for them and their cause. And relating to humanity by putting your effort in its advancement.
When you find a worthy person incarnated into physical realm of yours [or you somehow incarnate them yourself] you will know time came for you to socially interact.
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I live in a very small town where people my age only care about drinking and "partying" and I don't like that.
I lost all my friends from school because none of them were really my friends and they just wanted to use me for their own benefit.
In the end I'm a person who spends all the time alone, I don't see a problem with going out alone or doing things alone, but certain things are done with friends.
I don't want to connect with these people because I want to leave here one day, I wish I could show you the reality of these people's mentality and you would understand, but I also understand that social interaction is necessary, but once every 6 months it doesn't make sense. In the end it's become a circle that I can't get out of, what do I do? Do I have to connect with these people for the sake of social interaction? Sometimes I miss having friends, but everyone I met in the end never was a truly friend. I'm not alone emotionally because I prefer to be alone, but I am alone socially.
I do not know how much of a small city you live in, but I had a similar situation and I just left the city for a larger one.
You don't need to be friends with people you don't want to be friends with, but I recommend you look for friends in other companies, there are probably people in your city who share your interests, there may be very few such people, but I think you will find such people in your city if you search.
In any case, upon reaching the age of majority, you can move to live, study and work in another, more promising city.
«You will find on the left of the halls of Hades a spring, and standing by it a white cypress. Do not approach this spring at all. You will find another, from the Lake of Memory, with cold water flowing from it. Guardians stand before it. Say: 'I am a child of Earth and starry Heaven, but my race is of Heaven alone. You know this yourselves. I am parched with thirst and am perishing. Give me quickly the cold water flowing from the Lake of Memory.' And they will give you to drink from the sacred spring, and after that you will reign among the other heroes» - From the Petelia Tablet (300-200 BCE)
