Relationships #76476 People obsessed with one person, many people

[AskSatanOperator]

Envy has always been my problem. Right now, I'm watching a man who I can only call a "phenomenon." Everyone he talks to becomes obsessed with him. Men talk about him and want to be friends with him, women fall in love.
This is really something strange.
I know that envy is an unworthy feeling, but I would like to get at least a small part of his ability and stop being insignificant.

What part of spirituality do you need to work on to get at least some of his skills? It seems like there's not enough spirituality in life to get some of it, just for self-satisfaction.

I'm tired of being inconspicuous and insignificant, and I want to take revenge on life, BECAUSE right now the girl I love has gone to him again, and he's taken her away. He knows me, he did it defiantly, writing on his social network "there is nowhere to run." It is possible to understand HOW I feel now.

I feel like I'm going crazy.

 

[Karnonnos [TG]]

It is not just about spirituality. He is this way because he practiced it many times. Anything like this is an extension of effort and genetics, which is just effort in a familial sense.

Some people have 'it' and yet 'it' is not there by accident. Looks, wealth and certain matters like height and voice can help here, but I have seen people without any of those exhibit this.

If you want this, you need to do workings of the Sun, Mars and Venus. Challenge yourself to be gregarious - walk in anywhere as if you OWN the place. Gain experience with women, be assertive. This is a lifelong process too, not a click of fingers.

Remember, sometimes for different people, this has to pan out differently with age, accomplishments and other factors. Many people are beautiful flowers when young and then the petals wither completely, I say this without encouraging you to spend all day resenting him or assuming he will be 'punished', as that scenario may not even be true of him at all. More that others come into their own later in life.

Think also about yourself. Is negativity and resentment sabotaging you even when he is out of the picture? Are you using him as a scapegoat? Responsibility starts with the self.

If you truly want her, focus on getting her back including via methods like aura repulsion rather than endlessly thinking about him. If he wants competition and is cocky, bring it to him this way, but do not get lost in obsessing over him all day.

 

[AskSatanOperator]

It is not just about spirituality. He is this way because he practiced it many times. Anything like this is an extension of effort and genetics, which is just effort in a familial sense.

Some people have 'it' and yet 'it' is not there by accident. Looks, wealth and certain matters like height and voice can help here, but I have seen people without any of those exhibit this.

If you want this, you need to do workings of the Sun, Mars and Venus. Challenge yourself to be gregarious - walk in anywhere as if you OWN the place. Gain experience with women, be assertive. This is a lifelong process too, not a click of fingers.

Remember, sometimes for different people, this has to pan out differently with age, accomplishments and other factors. Many people are beautiful flowers when young and then the petals wither completely, I say this without encouraging you to spend all day resenting him or assuming he will be 'punished', as that scenario may not even be true of him at all. More that others come into their own later in life.

Think also about yourself. Is negativity and resentment sabotaging you even when he is out of the picture? Are you using him as a scapegoat? Responsibility starts with the self.

If you truly want her, focus on getting her back including via methods like aura repulsion rather than endlessly thinking about him. If he wants competition and is cocky, bring it to him this way, but do not get lost in obsessing over him all day.

I am not the OP, just wanted to ask.

And for women? Again; Sun, Mars and Venus, should we work with these planets? I guess it would be repulsive for a woman to pretend to be the owner of an environment, what do you think?

Thank you in advance.

 

[sinbad]

If you truly want her, focus on getting her back including via methods like aura repulsion rather than endlessly thinking about him. If he wants competition and is cocky, bring it to him this way, but do not get lost in obsessing over him all day.

I'm not too familiar with sexual/relationship dynamics in Spiritual Satanism, so I ask out of inquisitiveness, but isn't it a little pathetic and demonstrating a lack of self-respect/dignity by still wanting her at this point?

Wouldn't it be a wiser move to erase her from one's mind and find someone else who is compatible, instead of having this betrayal/cheating incident lingering in the background of any future relationship with this woman?

I understand life is complicated, people change and grow, and some meet "the right person as the wrong time" etc., but what do the God's say about this sort of thing?

(I am not OP).