Breaking a marriage
Stop playing victim, you literally just ask us how to ruin a long-term marriage that has kids involved and you don't tell us any more about that, since that is all the information you give us I wonder why you act so victimized when people assume things that may or not be true. What this looks like is you're obsessed over a taken man and don't care to ruin a marriage that has kids involved, I mean, kids. It's a trauma for kids to see their parents divorce, have you ever thought about that? But it seems like you don't care, you just want that man.
Again, you don't want to give us other info so this is what it looks like, don't play victim if you fail to give us a reason of why we should not think you're just an egoist.I forgot to say in my former reply that his kids also suffering from their parent's bad marriage. Their father is literally not at home sometimes long weeks, because of his job. All of them became more distant. And he was not attached very strongly to his kids especially now when they are much older. It's again a kind of Leo thing from the bad side, also because of heavy planetary influences (a big stellium in Leo).
I was not really "playing the victim" here.
But I am a "victim" in a sense because those assholes took over my topic and I was insulted for no reason and it is offensive. Their stupidity made me react. Also they forced me into a kind of "defensive" position after their judgements.

