How do Zevists discipline their children
I have no clue how parents could ever „disciple“ their children by hurting them, or making them feel inferior or threatening them...
All of this is very bad for the psychological health of the child, no parent should ever do that. Never.
You can always explain children what is right and what is wrong, always be understanding, calm and explaining. Be someone they can really love, respect and look up to, this is our job. We have to raise our children into strong, understanding and educated human beings. This is our job, so how can we do this if we are the opposite?
I also get to spend alot of time with my neice and nephew, They both love to spend time with me and the worst punishment I have ever had to do was to take the younger ones toy, I warned her for almost an hour and sadly she started to cry. But I had to stick by my word.
The older one, he gets annoyed by the younger, I usually let them bicker, until I hear one of them whining or crying. I remind them that they have to put up with each other for the rest of their lives.
Ehm.. Sounds like a lot what my mom did to me and my little bro who was super annoying to me all the time. She didnt even know what he was doing.
When he was young like 2 years old he took my stuff all the time. I was 4. Not only that, there were other things. He used to get scolded for it but continued. Me being a child still I tried to copy what my mom did, to stand up for myself, and then I got scolded for that.
Later on when I was 7 and my little bro was 5 I got home and he called me names within the first 2 min of me being inside the house. So what do you do, you say the same stuff back.
And I got scolded and was told to go to my room because Im the older one.
I remember I used to call my brother stupid a lot because of this crap.
We didnt get along at all.In the end he lied about all the crap he did, I got punished and my mom was oblivious for an entire year of the fact that my bro was lying. He was clearly her favorite.

