I don't think you're annoying, you're just new. People develop after years of advancement, and the forums serve a very good purpose for helping members advance.
The forums should be utilized in the best way for the member: questions that need anonymity should be asked through the Ask Satan service, other questions can be asked to the regular forums, chat is fine for some things but don't expect a large viewership, and then anything more important can be asked to clergy or JGs; but most things can and should be posted to these forums or searched in previous posts or the JoS.