Where do I get one ? I realized a lot of the rituals require one . But where can I get one ?

Hi I did the initiation ritual about a week ago with my boy friend .ever sense that ive had incredible luck we fell into 600$ last week and money has been rough .i was going to do the reverse Torah ritual but can’t find which one I should do (there are so many and can’t find the page now ) can...

Can my boy friend and I do this together ? If we each follow directions and write out our prayers separately on separate paper like I sign on my prayer he signs on his and we burn the prayers together ? Or should it be one I burn mine than he burns his ? Or should the whole thing be done...