Embrace who you are as a person, flaws and all. The characteristics you have make up the unique being that is you, there is no one like you and there never will be. We are all a one of one and the Gods want us to embrace our individuality, don't be afraid to be different, weird, or any other words you wish to describe the self that you are. At the same time however if you feel there is something you need to change about yourself, that doesn't serve you or is harmful in some way then move forward and do it. We need to temper our personalities into the best version they can be or the superior version of ourselves that is possible. See change good or bad as a means to help improve yourself or others in some way, also i believe there is purpose in every thing we experience. Whether this is for us to learn something for ourselves or others always remains to be seen.. Just always be aware of this and take note of important events good or bad and write them down if they hold some significance for you.