Temple of Zeus — The Assembly of the Gods

Trouble having an orgasm. (Female)

MissMeow

#1

To be blunt in the past I was never able to have an orgasm during sex with a partner. As I have aged it is a bit easier for me but I only have an orgasm with clitoral stimulation. Not only does this frustrate me it also makes my current loving partner feel bad.

Is this just a curse I have to live with or is there any other women in the forum that have had this problem (no vaginal orgasms) and overcame it? It seems to be a huge problem with so many women I know who rarely or never get off with their partners..

Thanks in advance!

Discussion

Centralforce666
#2

This is very normal.

Before you read my post it is intended for someone over the legal age of sexual consent.

If you are not of that age, please do not read my post.

I have found many female lovers to be in the same position.

I have overcome it with them by either:

- getting them to the point of orgasm by clitoral stimulation before intercourse and then going onto penetration immediately at or after the point of their orgasm and/or,

- stimulating their clitoris whilst penetration is occurring either with my fingers or theirs.

This eventually creates a bridge between the two areas and vagina orgasm can *sometimes* occur in some individuals (dependent upon sensitivity, how long and how many times the above practices are performed and individual tolerances etc.).

#3

I want to add here that, if your partner is also spiritually active, what makes orgasms occur much more easily and pleasantly is to have a strong connection. This can be a very intricate and deep thing, especially on its higher levels. From the Zevism females that I know, many of them have orgasms through astral sex and visualization. This can be either all on its own, or in conjunction with physical stimulation.

I dont have a vagina so I unfortunately can't bring personal experience to the table here, but rather just what females that I am close to have told me. What I also do know, is that advanced beings like our Gods can easily climax through having this deep connection to their partner. Which to me shows that with enough advancement, this should easily be attainable. It's about establishing a deep connection with your partner, that causes you to feel his pleasure, and him to feel yours. Both of the pleasures being shared and increasing exponentially as the act of intercourse continues, orgasm becomes guaranteed and extremely pleasant for both of you.
That is what sex is like on the higher level.

#4

I have the same trouble.But I masturbate.I do have the very short orgasm(maybe).Compared to the first time I had the intense and good-feeling orgasm, it just not feels right.

High Priestess Lydia Coventina
#5

In addition to what Centralforce wrote, vibrate Uruz rune into your sacral chakra, program your sexuality to be free and enjoyable, or however you want to word it. Make sure to clean this chakra as well, you might have some blockages there (most people do).

Psychxdeliclove666
#6

Another tip, one from the page of https://templeofzeus.org/Step_3.php, even if this isn't a case of lack of sex-drive, try seeing what a vibrator can help with. Don't push yourself on these matters, since only trying anything for a result without considering the path you take will give you bad results and may leave your sexual health worse than before due to blunt forcing things that sometimes should not be forced, and is an immoral thing to do in general.

Ol argedco luciftiasActive Helper
#7

So sit on his face.

Paladin of Khepu
#8
Ol argedco luciftias wrote:

So sit on his face.

Oly!! WTF?!! Lmao. Dude that was unprecendented. :lol:

Ol argedco luciftiasActive Helper
#9
Ramier108666 wrote:
Ol argedco luciftias wrote:

So sit on his face.

Oly!! WTF?!! Lmao. Dude that was unprecendented. :lol:

I bet it would fix their problems. :lol:

Ài GōngLead Translator
#10

I'm not sure if this may help for your case but try the position where the man is on top but the one with open legs, and the woman on bottom close the legs after penetration, then causing more friction externaly. It was the favorite position of a former partner and she'd easily orgasm like this.

#11
Egon wrote:

I'm not sure if this may help for your case but try the position where the man is on top but the one with open legs, and the woman on bottom close the legs after penetration, then causing more friction externaly. It was the favorite position of a former partner and she'd easily orgasm like this.

This actually sounds interesting. So it's like missionary position but the woman closes the legs after penetration?

Ài GōngLead Translator
#12

Yep.

Shael wrote:

it's like missionary position but the woman closes the legs after penetration?

#13
Egon wrote:

Yep.

Shael wrote:

it's like missionary position but the woman closes the legs after penetration?

There is something better:
Your left leg bound (like v letter inverted) above her left outside hibs the other leg long in the middle between her legs. Your body is 22,5 degree to the right sight of her face. Cock -> vagina. While intercourse you will also stimulate her clit with your body. (of course vise versa is also possible)

Like this but the men is on top and the long leg is not on the outside but inside of the two female legs and v leg on outside:

If this is something new, I call it the GG Allin ;)

#14

Try to see a doctor first - this is normal and can be treated with stimulants or hormone regulation
You can pray for lilith and ask for help from her

#15
thelord wrote:

Try to see a doctor first - this is normal and can be treated with stimulants or hormone regulation
You can pray for lilith and ask for help from her

Get out of here with that kind of toxic advice. Pharmaceutical "stimulants" and drugs for "hormonal regulation" do not fix shit. They just create even worse problems in the long term.

#16

Without Pineal Secretion and Circulation body degrades. Sex and orgasms become harder. You can have Spiritual Sex while having Sex physically and as your Girl or Guy becomes more empowered and as you continue to have this type of Sex...... When you cum..... SHE CUMS( Vice Versa).

It also helps to change positions and give Reiki Massages during sex to empower and help circulate his or her energy. As well as biting. Rubbing. Squeezing. Smacking and licking and sucking. Also talking dirty helps as well as moaning. Let him or her "take it".

Spiritual to physical Sex is going to cause body reactions as well. Its addicting. Then when you even get near your lover. You automatically Euphoria. A simple kiss turns into...... YYYYYEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#17

Try " Eating" ice cream off her. YYYEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ài GōngLead Translator
#18
Jack wrote:

Most women do not have vaginal orgasms because of small dick size and incorrect position.The dick must be hitting the g spot.

That do not always work for every woman. Some even feel pain after a while in positions that would normaly hit the g spot, if it continues. Everyone is different and what works for someone may not for other.

#19
Egon wrote:
Jack wrote:

Most women do not have vaginal orgasms because of small dick size and incorrect position.The dick must be hitting the g spot.

That do not always work for every woman. Some even feel pain after a while in positions that would normaly hit the g spot, if it continues. Everyone is different and what works for someone may not for other.

That is in fact true. A more important aspect of this is having a partner who understands you.

#20

This is not normal, it has to do with your lower charkras, probably a block or needs to be cleaned. Lydia wrote exactly I was thinking before I even scroll down the page. Do workings on your lower chakras