It all starts with your food. It sounds like you may be overweight, if so: Switch to a ketogenic diet ASAP and step away from everything else till your weight is proper.
With exercise, set away some time to get your body used to physical activity everyday and use affirmations to your advantage.
Anything is possible if you believe.
no, ketogenic diet can go fuck herself
That would depend on his lifestyle, his location and his genetics. If you live in a cold country, for example, having more fats and proteins in your diet than carbohydrates is more natural. If one has an active lifestyle, fats are a better source of energy: they may be slow to give it you but they carry more energy and this energy lasts long; while carbs give you energy fast but it is also consumed faster. Choosing carbs over fats as a primary source of energy is like investing and getting 50 euros today, instead of waiting for tomorrow and getting 500. As far as genetics goes, I can't speak for it as I'm no expert.
On the other side of the badge, if one lives in a hot country, it's more natural to rely more on carbs, as nature provides more of that in hot countries. A good diet should rely on local, seasonal and organic products.
Don't ever feel guilty or ashamed about being who you are. That creates hangups that make it more difficult to progress. Instead, learn to recognise your weaknesses and understand yourself, so that you can work at your own pace and become stronger, solving issues instead of creating them.
I needed to hear this, I’ve been beating myself up a lot, and making myself feel quite a bit worthless recently. So thank you for the reminder!!
Happy to help! A positive outlook toward yourself and life prevents everything from being harder than it needs to be.