I'm a bit embarrassed to bring up the topic because it signals other men in this forum that I may be someone who is incompetent in attracting a romantic partner. In a way, I am. It's kind of complicated, but I do have had some success with women at an earlier point in my life... When I was an atheist... Christianity held me back and gave me nothing in this aspect of my life.
But with Zevism, what is your overall advice?
I have other endeavors in my life that are keeping me busy, but I do go to bars (alone) every now and then. I just don't have much time to socialize outside of my college classroom nowadays. And I also abandoned many of my loser friends.
Although people have their own individual opinions on this thing, there are thematic consistencies in their ideas and advice which is tied to what type of subculture they belong to. Bodybuilders, for instance, think almost like a true silverback gorilla in the sense that they'd tell you to completely abandon the "bullshit" advice you learn from self-help gurus and just figure out a way to be successful in life. Women will naturally spot a successful man and cling to him.
I've met men who were very good-looking who went out of their way to tell me that the secret to a woman's heart is to have six-pack abs. Introverts generally advise me to open up a Bumble account.
High school boys are all about figuring out any way to be popular in their tiny high school of 500 students. Like tribesmen mentality.
Funnily enough, men who are just very socially adept generally just advise people to just be themselves, even though many prodigious readers of self-help books will tell you that is the absolute worst advice anyone can give any man.
Personally, me, when I was young, what worked for me was sophisticated conversation. Women really can't match me in that department so it was easy for me to shine when me and her/them are in a more tame setting where we can actually talk about stuff. But that was the past. The best case scenarios I got from those was an intimate night, and that's it. They'd move on and I'd move on.
Married men tend to see things in a way where you have to treat the lady like a princess... Which I think is really garbage advice, honestly.
What do you folks got?
Here is some advice. Do not isolate yourself from others for a start, do what worked for you before. Just cut out all the mindgames and useless rubbish outside the ToZ tied to these subcultures telling you to fixate on highly distorted ideas tied to present day trendy phenomena. If you pay too much attention to others specific ideas of this nonsense you will be romantically and mentally crippled. Crabs in a barrel bullshit is designed to benefit the reptile holding the bait.
Go with someone who is compatible with you on an Astrological and racial level and zone in on them.
Some women want to be treated like princesses and queens, others find it revolting. Nothing wrong with that. That's just natural variation.
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