Sorry, I seem to have misread/misunderstood what you wrote. And it sort of came out wrong. It was with the sincerest intention to be helpful by sharing some information, no need to get worked up.
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I can't see how you misread it at all. Just him being way out of line and ungrateful, and weird. :?
I think we both misunderstood each other.
I thought you were implying I still had a problem with the drink. I was drinking a lot about 10 years back because I was in a bad relationship. As soon as I broke up with her I cleaned up my act and got off it, and as I said previously, I only drink now on special social occasions, 2-3 times a year. I have never really missed it. I also gave up smoking about 20 years ago.
My original question was, does smoking and drinking give you long-term side effects? This might explain why I get this irritating burning and scratching in my feet/hands when I do serious meditation?
I'm sorry for dumping on you like that, I misunderstood. Your advice is welcome.
And I do wish that old moralising "windbag" VoE would stay out of my posts. If he wants to lecture people, then he should apply for JG.
Was a bit of an overreaction still huh? :roll:
I've also had experiences here where I thought someone was just fucking with me somehow, and later on realized that was not the case. So I understand this phenomenon. Can easily happen on internet forums, where people with issues often do fuck with one another like keyboard warriors hiding behind the screen etc.
For example if someone critizes me for something, it can easily be interpreted as mocking/bullying and so on.
Since you only see text and no facial expression, tonality etc. we also have that aspect of it all.
One can also become annoyed if someone misses the whole point of what one is trying to convey (like in this case).
But I mostly just jokingly point that out in those cases. Like; yea.. that was exactly how I meant. Adding some meme to it:
