Question #3661: Can I do both at the same time?: Freeing Venus in the 11th House & Venus Square for Beautification?

About the 15 degrees, I am inclined to think it simply means power that most people are unable to harness, thus it becomes negative. But by itself, power is not always bad, but rather how it molds you. Certainly, something to be aware of, but not necessarily something to be afraid of.

Planet squares do not just give you one thing. Venus square will not just make you better looking. These planet squares enormously increase the energy and influence of this planet within your soul. Depending on all interactions between your natal chart, transiting planets, your own personality or accumulated karma, and how these interact with the planet that you choose to do a square for. This is how you will be affected, as all of these interactions will become stronger by the increased power and influence of that planet within you.

It is easy to become overwhelmed by these effects because the squares are very powerful. And they are also pretty much permanent, so you have to know that it is really the right thing for you to do.

Increase of Venus energy should work to make you more attactive looking. But you should know that there are many more effects that can come with it, and make the decision if you want to do this.

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If there is a lot of dross/negativity in this area, and I do a square, will it become amplified?

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What should I look for in my natal chart and elsewhere to spot red flags? My main worry is I want to remain a stoic guy, and not turn into some oddball or sex maniac clean freak. There is a lot of Libra placements, but low emotional skill, yet a strong desire for diplomacy, which if I do Venus square I'm hoping it will not make me become cringe.

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Is there somewhere I can read in-depth detailed descriptions of the nature of the signs and their effects via squares? Or can you give me a short list of potential bullet points of possible negative/positive side effects? Thanks a lot.
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For me, it manifests in different ways. For example, the more I learn about Astrology, I realise that whenever I arrange a meeting with people, arrange a business deal, or try to initiate romance - it always just so happens to be at the WORST possible planetary hours for such things to be initiated. This happens by default.
b.) At one point, I started to state aloud the opposite of what I wanted to manifest, (e.g., "I bet team X is going to win") because I noticed I tend to always receive the opposite of what I want when I tell others about it. So I realised this energy can be "tricked" in a way into doing what you want BECAUSE of its negative power and not in spite of it. I got extreme "good luck" with this tactic. It's like you are a putting the red flag in front of a raging bull and tricking it into bulldozing a wall for you (let's pretend here you are a demoltion man/construction worker).

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I also realised this situation creates an "obsessiveness" in regards to the affliction, for better or worse, and some superior people manage to transmute this suffering into something positive. But is still not fully adept at it. Like a paralympic who goes apeshit in the gym and becomes a beast - but is still a cripple, yet can still be said to be a superior athlete and physical specimen to most in terms of overall "impressiveness".