Question #3547: is it a bad idea to use a sex toy as a male?

It's fine.

Using an erotic toy is not a bad thing. Remember to use proper hygiene measures and store it in a proper place to avoid contamination or damage.

Sexual Energy isn't meant to be wasted in this way. When you're sexually frustrated ,that energy is supposed to be used to further your life goals. Instead of using a sex toy , you should masturbate doing deep breathing and orgasm to visions of success. And work towards that. That will be more favorable for your future.

General Yeager wrote:

Sexual Energy isn't meant to be wasted in this way. When you're sexually frustrated ,that energy is supposed to be used to further your life goals. Instead of using a sex toy , you should masturbate doing deep breathing and orgasm to visions of success. And work towards that. That will be more favorable for your future.

But what's the difference between using his hand and a toy? He can still do all of what you mentioned but with a toy.

MiniMe3388 wrote:

Using an erotic toy is not a bad thing. Remember to use proper hygiene measures and store it in a proper place to avoid contamination or damage.

This! Hygiene hermeticism is key: #1

A tip I can suggest is grab a bar of soap especially if it leaves behind a lot of soap. Lather the toy heavily and leave it for 40-60 seconds(1 Mississippi etc.etc.) count it out. If you want purchase one of those cheap silk antibacterial soaps and use it for just your toys.

BTW O.P. by any chance have you been curious on prostate massaging toys? Such as Aneros, Njoy Pure Wand etc.etc.

Excuse me if I'm disrespecting you, insinuating your sexuality. But a lot of straight men love prostate play especially when they rewire their system and experience various sensations ranging into multiple full body super orgasms. Also ever considered getting into nipple play? nipplegasms are a thing and some men can experience orgasms more powerful than prostatic/penile orgasm, it's rare but it happens.

You gotta play with your nipples for quite a few days for several hours a day to rewire your system. In fact with the Aneros toys many men state play with your nipples cause that is part of the adventure.

They sell both manual i.e. using your hand or anal muscles like the PC muscle and also vibrating ones.

BTW don't forget to study kegel exercises and perform kegels throughout your day quality over quantity at first. Try and do like 3-5 kegel sets per day until you develop a routine. Stuck at the redlight in your car pump out a few kegels. Waiting at the Dentist office do some kegel.

It will help you with various things.

Aquarius wrote:

General Yeager wrote:

Sexual Energy isn't meant to be wasted in this way. When you're sexually frustrated ,that energy is supposed to be used to further your life goals. Instead of using a sex toy , you should masturbate doing deep breathing and orgasm to visions of success. And work towards that. That will be more favorable for your future.

But what's the difference between using his hand and a toy? He can still do all of what you mentioned but with a toy.

That may desensitize him from actual vagina.

General Yeager wrote:

Aquarius wrote:

General Yeager wrote:

Sexual Energy isn't meant to be wasted in this way. When you're sexually frustrated ,that energy is supposed to be used to further your life goals. Instead of using a sex toy , you should masturbate doing deep breathing and orgasm to visions of success. And work towards that. That will be more favorable for your future.

But what's the difference between using his hand and a toy? He can still do all of what you mentioned but with a toy.

That may desensitize him from actual vagina.

A pocket pussy feels nothing like an actual vagina. The latter is much better lol.

General Yeager wrote:

Aquarius wrote:

General Yeager wrote:

Sexual Energy isn't meant to be wasted in this way. When you're sexually frustrated ,that energy is supposed to be used to further your life goals. Instead of using a sex toy , you should masturbate doing deep breathing and orgasm to visions of success. And work towards that. That will be more favorable for your future.

But what's the difference between using his hand and a toy? He can still do all of what you mentioned but with a toy.

That may desensitize him from actual vagina.

I believe OP is talking about a fake vagina, if the tightness is the same and the fabrics is sylicon then probably an actual vagina will feel even better when he finds a girl.

There is no real benefit to using sex toys, especially plastic and silicon ones. They create similar issues to porn, by getting the brain habituated to the wrong thing. What one needs is real human contact, as we are real humans.

Playing with sex toys is no different than having a robot girlfriend/boyfriend. You're not a robot, so get a real girlfriend. A fake pussy will never feel like a real one for several reasons, the main ones being:

:arrow: it's not alive or even organic;
:arrow: it's not part of a living body;
:arrow: it's not made of the same "fabric", "texture", etc a real vagina is made of.

Stormblood wrote:

There is no real benefit to using sex toys, especially plastic and silicon ones. They create similar issues to porn, by getting the brain habituated to the wrong thing. What one needs is real human contact, as we are real humans.

Playing with sex toys is no different than having a robot girlfriend/boyfriend. You're not a robot, so get a real girlfriend. A fake pussy will never feel like a real one for several reasons, the main ones being:

:arrow: it's not alive or even organic;
:arrow: it's not part of a living body;
:arrow: it's not made of the same "fabric", "texture", etc a real vagina is made of.

exactly ..it is sick how society has become degenerate

Use magic to attract a sexual partner. It's not the end of the world to use it but we have the means to get what we want here.

AskSatanOperator wrote:

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It is not perfect, but I also view porn as worse, therefore if this bridges the gap between real and 100% digital, then I would support this switch. It seems like it is promoting for you to aim more for physical stimulation, rather than mental, which would help you get more acquainted with reality.

No, a pocket pussy is not going to ruin you, especially as you are already guarded in this sense. All of these toys can never substitute for a real partner. A toy cannot provide the love and reception of another soul's Venusian energies, for example.