Question #3523: Relationships, Sex, Venus Square

AskSatanOperator wrote:

I've almost finished the square of venus, but I don't see any results.

Continue doing the Venus square (start it again if you finish it) until you get results.

Also, very important: try to suspend your neediness and negative feelings at least during the time you're doing the Venus square and visualizing and affirming your outcome. Visualize yourself as already being in a relationship with your soulmate or whatever else you want. Take as much time as you need to visualize your perfect outcome as if you've already in a relationship with a girl and feel the feelings you would feel if you were in a relationship.

You'll know you're doing it correctly when you don't feel any more neediness after the working, but instead feel happy and accomplished, like someone who already has success with girls. That feeling together with the working is what attracts your outcome. Any neediness repels it. Keep that in mind.

If you feel depressed, your problem could be Solar: https://www.ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?p=437736#p437736External ↗

Sun squares will give you self love and confidence. If you don't have those qualities, you might not attract people properly even if you are attractive. Others don't feel attracted to depressed people unless they are predators. Also, doing physical workout will cultivate this significantly: https://www.ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=89196External ↗

Except of that, magical workings tend to have a delay from the moment you do them, most workings aren't a one time deal. That is why empowering and fixing your self from the inside out is important too.

Also, this day 27 of December is auspicious for workings regarding women, family etc.:
From brother General Yeager:
Do a Working using Gebo + Waujo or Aum Klim Kamadevaya Namah and affirm,
"In a healthy and positive manner for me I am attracting my Ideal Partner right now." .

You need to look for the answer inside yourself. What is causing that? Also, have a look at your birth chart for any relationship karma.

In general, relationships are not a way to heal your traumatised psyche. That is a much, much earlier step as it relates to survival. If you are in such a depressive state, you need first to address that. Otherwise, you will only be damaging yourself and other people even if you were to have a relationship with woman.

Other than working on your solar plexus chakra (and your other chakras too for balance) as it was suggested already, there is a working by HPS Lydia that can help you heal or at least find the root cause so you can heal:

:arrow: Vibrate the rune Wunjo x88 times (you can do less if you are not accustomed to that much, such as 40, or more if you can handle more, such as 111, 144, 216, 333)
:arrow: Affirm: "In the most beneficial way for me, I'm permanently and completely healed from any and all psychological, mental and emotional damage and pain." You can tailor it to make it more yours, but be sure to include everything that's needed to ensure full healing, and keep it short and simple, in present tense and with no negations.

A relationship is not the first step in adult life. The first steps are consolidating an income (career/business) and a residential property (i.e. house/apartment) to live in.

Even if you were to do a love working, you need to ask yourself if you are a quality man. Only you know the answer. Only a quality man can attract a quality woman. What do you have to offer? What value would you bring to a relationship? Love and care are not sufficient for a relationship to be successful and healthy in all ways.

I cannot tell if you are doing anything wrong without knowing the details of your life, unfortunately.