Lucius Invictus [NG]
As the title implies..
I can finish in like 20 seconds sometimes while having sex with my partner. I'd like to, for obvious reasons, increase that.
I want to enjoy sex instead of Wam Bam Thank-you Mam. Is this a physiological issue?
I have no problems with erections, in fact those are easy and require no effort.
GoldenxChild1 wrote: As the title implies..
I can finish in like 20 seconds sometimes while having sex with my partner. I'd like to, for obvious reasons, increase that.
I want to enjoy sex instead of Wam Bam Thank-you Mam. Is this a physiological issue?
I have no problems with erections, in fact those are easy and require no effort.
It can be physical for those with yin deficiencies, but I believe mainly the problem comes from a mental origin, since it is usually connected to arousal and so on. I believe since porn is very mercurial in its digital presentation, this then translates to the sexual nerves being hypersensitive.
If you change the scenario of the sexual interaction and your arousal changes, then you know it is mental. For example, watching porn vs not, thinking certain thoughts vs others, and so on.
Regardless, you could use something like Isa to reduce sensitivity, and/or Nauthiz for greater control.
I also know of people doing hypnosis for this, but that would take longer than a working would. Yet, it at least proves that it is possible to get a good result. It also proves that it is more mental in origin. https://www.wendi.com/courses/in-control
Don't take my word as absolute truth since I'm not an expert but from what I've been able to inform :
- premature ejaculation can be primary (meaning you've always had it) or acquired.
-No matter what type it is, first do a medical check up. If you have no ailment (such as prostatitis ) , then it can be due overconsumption of alcohol. If no physiological cause, then if could be because of sexual trauma (maybe in early age ) or other psychological factors
It could also be a matter of habit.
There are men who learn how to last several hours before ejaculation as a form of self mastery. Now we Zevists don't deprive our bodies from what is necessary so you don't have to last 4 hours but if humans are able to hold that much then perhaps with training you can come to last your desired time.
Another strategy is to masturbate and try to last as much as possible, stopping right before climax if it is inevitable and thus prolonging it as much as possible. With training, your body may adapt to sex with a partner the same way.
Hope it helped. Good day!
Awesome thanks guys, I think it is mental. I'm hyper sensitive during intercourse which isn't a bad thing but is as I said inconvenient.
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GoldenxChild1 wrote: As the title implies..
I can finish in like 20 seconds sometimes while having sex with my partner. I'd like to, for obvious reasons, increase that.
I want to enjoy sex instead of Wam Bam Thank-you Mam. Is this a physiological issue?
I have no problems with erections, in fact those are easy and require no effort.
It can be physical for those with yin deficiencies, but I believe mainly the problem comes from a mental origin, since it is usually connected to arousal and so on. I believe since porn is very mercurial in its digital presentation, this then translates to the sexual nerves being hypersensitive.
If you change the scenario of the sexual interaction and your arousal changes, then you know it is mental. For example, watching porn vs not, thinking certain thoughts vs others, and so on.
Regardless, you could use something like Isa to reduce sensitivity, and/or Nauthiz for greater control.
I also know of people doing hypnosis for this, but that would take longer than a working would. Yet, it at least proves that it is possible to get a good result. It also proves that it is more mental in origin. https://www.wendi.com/courses/in-control
What affirmation would you with Isa that wouldn't just completely desensitize someone?
The Multi-Orgasmic Man( Mantak Chia) : https://pt.br1lib.org/book/611079/e45460
Step-by-step guide to performing Kegel exercises : https://www.health.harvard.edu/bladder-and-bowel/step-by-step-guide-to-performing-kegel-exercises
How to Do PC Muscle Exercises : https://www.wikihow.com/Do-PC-Muscle-Exercises
ModernMage wrote: What affirmation would you with Isa that wouldn't just completely desensitize someone?
With proper care, Isa won't harm you any more than Thurisaz, Nauthiz, Uruz, or other "dangerous" runes.
You can mix Isa with another rune that gives protective benefits, with the intention of keeping Isa working positively. This, combined with positive intent and focus on the positivity of your work should be sufficient.
I have completed a 40 day working of using Isa and Berkano for enhancing my ability to calm and focus my thoughts. I have had no negative issues from this. It gave my head a degree of silence, and it now feels like my thoughts have more "weight" to them, in a good way. My mercurial abilities have not been damaged, nor have any physical changes.
In this case, Berkano both added a degree of silence or calm, like the moon, to help my working, and added protection from any negatives of Isa. Nauthiz, for example, is similar to ISA in some ways and can be combined with it for a similar purpose.
Personally, I want to say that Isa can be used on its own just fine, assuming proper programming precautions. Yet, I followed the above options due to HPS Pythia's advising caution to be used. I think someone could hurt themselves badly with plenty of other energies, not just the one that represents Ice.
I don't understand about premature ejaculation. But I think there is an important information that you have to know: a normal and healthy sexual relationship lasts a maximum of 05 minutes. The pornographic industry makes people delude themselves and think that it's normal to spend a lot of time in the act, but it's not. It's perfectly normal to last a short time.
Ice Heart wrote: I don't understand about premature ejaculation. But I think there is an important information that you have to know: a normal and healthy sexual relationship lasts a maximum of 05 minutes. The pornographic industry makes people delude themselves and think that it's normal to spend a lot of time in the act, but it's not. It's perfectly normal to last a short time.
I feel sorry for all the woman you've been with. Also you, if that's how sex has been for you all your life.
You don't know what you're missing out on.
Ice Heart wrote: I don't understand about premature ejaculation. But I think there is an important information that you have to know: a normal and healthy sexual relationship lasts a maximum of 05 minutes. The pornographic industry makes people delude themselves and think that it's normal to spend a lot of time in the act, but it's not. It's perfectly normal to last a short time.
You are totally wrong. If you do PC Muscle Exercises, You will last much longer than 5 minutes.
Also, I believe that people should learn Tantric massage( Yoni massage, Lingam massage )
It is NOT normal to last a short time.
Who gets to decide what the ideal length before you ejaculate is? Certainly not science.
If 20 seconds is all the time nature deemed necessary for you to get the job done then that’s that. Everyone’s body is different. There’s no such thing as “premature ejaculation”.
Lunar666 wrote: If you do PC Muscle Exercises, You will last much longer than 5 minutes.
I didn't know about these exercises.
Lunar666 wrote: It is NOT normal to last a short time.
I said this based on what some people who claimed to be knowledgeable on the subject told me, some of them trained in the health area. But since you say that and mentioned these exercises I was in doubt. I don't do these things because I'm not interested, but I've said this based on what "in the know" people have told me.
The Outlaw Torn wrote: Who gets to decide what the ideal length before you ejaculate is? Certainly not science.
If 20 seconds is all the time nature deemed necessary for you to get the job done then that’s that. Everyone’s body is different. There’s no such thing as “premature ejaculation”.
Since we are on the proper thread I don't mind discussing this now.
Well for obvious reasons lasting longer yields greater reward for both partners. It takes a woman much longer to orgasm and they can have multiple ones at that. I'll take the advice given and see if I can improve.
GoldenxChild1 wrote: As the title implies..
I can finish in like 20 seconds sometimes while having sex with my partner. I'd like to, for obvious reasons, increase that.
I want to enjoy sex instead of Wam Bam Thank-you Mam. Is this a physiological issue?
I have no problems with erections, in fact those are easy and require no effort.
Breathing exercises / pranayama develop control of your ejaculation too. If you are not in control of your breath, you will not be able to control ejaculation. This isn't fool proof, but it certainly helps.
Also, try extending foreplay. I know it sounds counter productive, but practising staying aroused for longer periods with your partner, before actually having sex, will prime you - mentally and physically.
And just to add... I believe the duration of sex to be when a women reaches her climax. Christianity put a muzzle over female sexuality, there is much more to it than just depositing your semen. A good 20-30+ minutes would be ideal in my opinion, using various positions. 5 minutes is a quicky, which works well sometimes, but expect her to come back for more quite soon after :lol:
gnome wrote: And just to add... I believe the duration of sex to be when a women reaches her climax. Christianity put a muzzle over female sexuality, there is much more to it than just depositing your semen. A good 20-30+ minutes would be ideal in my opinion, using various positions. 5 minutes is a quicky, which works well sometimes, but expect her to come back for more quite soon after :lol:
Thanks for your advice brother, I appreciate it.
I dont know if you have fixed your issue already... Cuz I've just discovered the post but i have to say I used to have the same problem. I think I was worst than you. In and out 2 times and that was all... Fucking deppressing.
The thing is I talked with my sexual partner and
explained to her that I needed her help and patience to overcome this crap and she understood of course. I started doing the famous pc exercises wich are an enormous help once you start mastering them and, shit, what can I say...
It was awful my man, fucking her super slow... Pausing the thing constantly, losing the erection sometimes cuz I was so stressed on that...
Key here is persevering... I've been 5 months having sex almost dayly whith her... (4 days period) and the improve has been enormous... I dont even want to remember when I started... There are still days that im kinda over sensitive because of spiritual works or yoga but is just laughter and fun even if I cum too soon.
Strongly recommend pc exercises and just surrender and admit to your partner you need to treat this.
Hope I helped a brother in Satan.
Learn about the IC muscle and how to isolate it. It makes a big difference in how effective kegels are.
Also look up reverse kegels.
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