This response doesn’t seem rushed at all, really detailed. Would a Google search for those acupressure points be sufficient enough? I’m still new to understanding the yin and yang health principles along with organs but I’m following. To you mean relation to the liver and kidneys spiritually or the liver and kidneys literally? I did have a kidney infection not long ago either, and I think it was due to this issue as well. My body just generally feels weak. Mood is weak, mind is weak. I can’t focus on anything very well.
There’s a constant head pressure, doesn’t ache, but pressure that’s been there for months. Sometimes disappearing but most often not. Right in between the eyebrows. It feels like the sinuses and extends into my head, sinuses aren’t clogged at all though.
I generally feel hot and on edge, have been getting crazy hot flashes too and my face gets red. Easily stressed by minor inconveniences. Wired. Excessive hunger. Impatient. Almost passing out as soon as I feel hungry. Cant function if I’m even slightly hungry, mainly any time before 5. Shakiness. At night it isn’t so bad. When 5 hits I get so tired that I almost fall asleep at the wheel occasionally.
Also woke up with the room spinning this morning. That was really odd.
Yes, a google search would be sufficient. Look for images where they use their hands as guides because it is proportional to your body as well. 3 fingers for them is 3 fingers of distance for you as well, and so on. Spleen 6 is 4 fingers from the highest point on the ankle bone (medial malleolus) out along the tibia. It should be positioned right after the 4th finger and under the tibia. You might feel a slight divet or "hole". Also, using your whole thumb means you don't have to exact in your location.
The relationship between the liver and kidneys that I refer to is physical in a practical sense, although of course everything is both. It means you should pay attention to both organs: if the kidney yin is damaged, then the liver will eventually also become that way as well. The "Nourish" formula addresses both liver and kidney yin for this reason.
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What you have is definitely a yin deficiency. This is also affecting the yang a bit as well. Your blood is also affected if you are having hair loss, but this is also considered within the category of yin. Being female, of course you lose blood often and are already susceptible to this.
The excessive hunger is stomach heat as a result of not recieving yin from the kidneys. This should resolve on its own. It is not as much of an issue unless it is causing your significant mental disturbance or eating too much. You can use stomach 44 or 45, located on the toes, to drain heat from the stomach and resolve pathogenic hunger.
The shakiness and dizziness are also yin deficiency symptoms. The dizziness could be from the kidneys or also from liver yang rising. GB 20 (rear of head), or GV 20 (top of head) are localized points that can help dizziness or headaches.
If you have a somewhat painful headache at the top of the head, this is likely liver yang rising and solved by liver 3 and also spleen 6. The headache you describe, if it feels like it inside the head, would be more like insufficient blood, yin, or jing from the kidneys not nourishing the brain. However, if it feels like pain behind the eyes or eyebrows itself, this would be more gallbladder meridian pain, which could be coming from the liver being upset.
CentralForce mentioned PCOS involving phlegm and this would definitely show in terms of cyst or bumps. He also mentioned the kidney yang directly. The yin and the yang are related and a deficiency in one will hurt the other. Kidney 3 directly heals both yang and yin of the kidneys.
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In my next post I can send you some links that will allow you to more easily distinguish your symptoms. From a practical standpoint, however, this is not necessary. You want to focus on healing kidney yin, liver yin, blood (yin fluid anyway).
You will want to take something like Yinvive: https://www.activeherb.com/yinvive/
You should also think about something that directly supports Blood like "Tonics8". This one includes spleen herbs that would counter any dampness from the Yinvive or herbs for blood: https://www.activeherb.com/bazhen/
It is possible there is spleen involvement relating to your fatigue near meals, so that would solve that as well.
You could also take something for kidney yang if you desired, such as "Yanvive" from active herbs. You could also just take ashwagandha, maca, or cinnamon for a similar effect.
Any of the above would help, but the yinvive would help the most. Also, you can vary the doses as needed, such as doubling or halving the recommended. Perhaps you might want to double up for the first few days, for example.
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Regular pushing of the acupoints will help resolve some symptoms immediately, and some over time. Pushing kidney 3, say over 5 or 10 minutes, can start to calm a hot flash, for example. You can push the points while meditating or just sitting and watching TV or something.
I would recommend just pushing them whenever and for basically as long as possible. There are no downsides, you are just telling the body "heal this right now", which make sense if it is your primary imbalance. As long as you are eating and have enough energy, this healing will keep happening.
Just do your best to find them, perhaps looking at multiple images or reading some descriptions. Again, they are relatively easy. Spleen 6 is the best as it hits liver, kidney, and spleen at once. For specific symptoms like hot flashes or low willpower, then use kidney points. For tremors, shakiness, headache, irritability, you would want to try liver 3 more.
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For exercise, I would hold off on anything that will make you sweat a lot. Walking is fine. Hatha yoga is the best for yin and should be the priority.
For diet, read this https://eastmountain.ca/5kidneyyin.pdf which describes healing kidney yin deficiency. Basically animal products, grains, denser veggies/starches. Avoid anything super spicy or too pungent (which would further damage yin). For the blood, you want animal products and other red foods. Consider animal liver as well.
Some of these foods are easier to prepare than others. Just do your best here and prioritize speed as well. Frozen veggies or rice can be heated quickly in a pan. Thawed meats can also be cooked relatively quickly. Make large batches of food, don't worry about doing actual recipes or whatever. It is best to just cook once a day and then reheat everything later, instead of actually cooking each time.
Try to sleep early if you can. You will want to be sleeping by 11pm each night. If you wake up from hot flashes then push kidney 3 for a bit and perhaps drink water and it should resolve. This should also help the wired feeling.
Speaking of water: Do your best to stay very hydrated, as of course this will replenish the yin of the body. Perhaps you already sometimes feel very thirsty at times. Make sure you are drinking room temp water, as cold liquids will hamper the digestive power of the stomach.