Active HelperDisclaimer: I originally wrote this for a Zevist brother to explain my motivation for being a man looking for a masculine man when it comes to romance. Please not that this is based on personal experience, meditation, and guidance from the Gods. So it may contain inaccuracies as I am living life accumulating experiences and growing like everybody else.
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I came to understand that homosexual relationshis work differently from heterosexual relationships.
Heterosexual relationships work best on complementary factors as male and female are polarities of the universe, each with different rulerships and duties.
On the other hand, homosexual relationships work best on similarity. So, when looking at synastry, the more "conjunction" aspects, the better. Secondarily, sextile, trine and semisextile also work well.
For heterosexuals it's opposites attract, for homosexuals it's like attracts like.
Unfortunately, with so much enemy propaganda, people still have brainwashing-based ideas of relationships. For example, there still this ridiculous notion of top/bottom, dominant/submissive, who's the man and who's the woman in the relationship.
It's all wrong. Regardless of sexual orientation, most man (~95%) are supposed to be predominantly masculine and most women (~95%) are supposed to be mostly feminine. Feminine man and masculine women are a minority in nature.
The problem is that modern cheap nutrition is designed to make soyboys. And then we have feminism trying to create hatred of men and make women take on male roles in society.
Other things go into this. All kind of recreational drugs (including alcohol) are extremely yin, and they have achieved widespread popularity in society to the point, for example, where it's socially unacceptable not to be drinking alcohol every weekend and every nightly social interaction and, in younger generations, to also not be smoking mj and doing other "soft" drugs. It's all an attempt to make people extremely feminine in a negative way, rather than have them embrace beneficial feminine features as supportive functions of their masculinity.
You can add gaming to it, doomscrolling, TV subscriptions and anything than inherently aims at making you become passive in your external life. Passive = yin.
The enemy is constantly attacking masculinity and natural gender roles. With the supply chain completely in their hands, they can do this not just with social engineering (i.e. GLBTQ+, feminism, inceldom, etc) but also through other lifestyle factors such as the ingredients in your food (both cheap and expensive food with few exceptions), your drinking water, what you drink, the activities that are allowed, the "medicines" and treatments that are available and so on.
The role of a man is to not only be active/yang but also proactive. It's your duty to provide in the external sphere of life such as career and social contributions. To take care of yourself as well (e.g. no man is exempt from athleticism). Many people nowadays are just reactive and passive-aggressive at "best". This is not how nature works for a man. If you want something, you need to plan for it and go after it yourself in most cases when it's something you control (i.e. not an uncontrollable environmental circumstances). Proactive means just that. Do not wait to be prompted by someone else! You need to prompt yourself to act!
I cannot speak for women, so I will also not touch female homosexual relationships. A clear-headed homosexual sister can speak on those, and any clear-headed woman, like HPS Lydia can speak for the role of women in society regardless of sexual orientation.
Before I go back to talk about male homosexual relationships, I want to remind you that we are a growth-oriented community of builders here! It's our job to restore society to natural ways of the Gods, not sit and accept things for what they are. Through raising awareness in safe ways and leading by example, this can be achieved.
Now, back to the main topic. Unlike in heterosexual relationships, your boyfriend and future husband will also most likely be your best friend. This is due to the "rule" of similarity. In heterosexual relationships, a man will also need a male best friend and a woman will always need a female best friend. This is because friendship, regardless of sexual orientation, also works on similarity. You can be friends with the opposite sex but, as nature has it, you'll never be best friends.
If you are best friends with someone of the opposite, most likely you both have a long and hard look into the mirror and see for yourself that something has gone wrong. Self-awareness. This is due to the roles of men and women being polar opposites in society. Even if you have many conjunctions, trines, and sextiles in your synastry chart... you'll never express the same way. Even if you were born at the exact same time you'll express differently. Even two members of the same sex express things differently when born the same second, let alone two members of the opposite gender.
So, yeah, homosexual relationships work on similarity and it can be incredibly difficult nowadays to find someone who reciprocate the same beliefs, values and behaviours as you due to the percentage of homosexual people that are brainwashed by GLBT+ and other enemy programmes. More difficult than it is for heterosexual people, because of both the high percentage of brainwashing, and the minority of people who's actually homosexual AND aware of it.
Obviously, not all is lost for people who are here. You have the Gods to ask guidance of and support for attracting the right person. And I can do my best to advise on the spiritual side of things, although you should always go to the Gods first and foremost because they have millennia of advancement and experience that I simply cannot offer.
In regards to reconnecting with your masculinity and reclaiming both your rightful role in society and within yourself, there's a few things that can be done:
- Mars and Sun squares. Preferably when in their home or exalted signs but, as long as you avoid their detriment and fall signs, you can spam them.
- Runes. The best ones are Uruz, Thurisaz and Sowilo in my opinion, if you are just trying to make yourself more masculine. Other runes may be more suited for specific aspects, rather than general masculinity. I would start something like this either with an Aries, Leo, Sagittarius or Scorpio Moon.
- Lord Zeus, Lord Apollo and Lord Ares. You can do their rituals (and the rituals of any masculine Gods), and then meditate on their energies, ask for their help in elevating your Self-awareness and so on, and then integrate their blessings (i.e. you can saturate your chakras and aura with the energies they send, and also circulate it)
- Fixed stars. You can brief energies from specific fixed stars (see the list), saturate your chakras and aura with it, and program them for the specific goals.
- Very advanced: use the splitting the soul technique and focus exclusively on your pingala. You can breathe energies and vibrate mantras into this part of the soul but the main thing is to meditate on it for several minutes either as standalone or as a primer before doing the rest.
- Advanced. Fire element. The fire element is the masculine element par excellent. A few breaths (never go above what suggested on the main website) and then programme the energies.
In regards to attracting the ideal partner:
- Mars squares and Sun squares can improve relationships with other men
- AUM KLIM KAMADEVAYA NAMAH/SVAHA can be used specifically to attract the ideal partner. Credit to Jack (General Yeager) for this mantra.
- Ehwaz, the 19th rune, is specifically good for this as it embodies the concept of similarity. Whether you use it on its own or combine it with Wunjo and/or other partnership/love runes is up to you, but I would always include this when it comes to homosexual relationships.
- Ask for the help of Lord Set, Lord Furfur or any other God/Goddess that helps in matters of love. While for some of them it says "love between a man and a woman), that's outdated knowledge. It's just romantic and sexual love in general.
- Important. You can always boost your aura's ability to attract things/people to you, whether this is an area were your aura struggle or not. This can be done with the bija mantra Klim which rules forces of attraction or, in this case, the element of water is the element most suited to it. As elements are advanced, they can cause backlash and unwanted manifestations if you haven't trained yourself to manage them fully. In the case of water, you can become overly emotional and sensitive if you don't handle it properly. It can cause depression and other issues as well. Please use with caution and don't go over the recommended reps.
All these spiritual techniques need material advancements as well. You cannot expect spirituality to do all the work and take no action on the other levels. For example, mental shifts may need to happen and, while workings give the initial boost, you need to make an effort to make sure the change consolidate. In other words, to make them "stick" and become permanent.
Many things are expected of you as a man.
- Basics: take care of your physical and mental health (includes fitness, nutrition and healthy stress/anger management, to name a few)
- Basics: safe house situation and stable income. If you live in your parents' basement, that doesn't reflect well on you as a man. The difference here with heterosexual relationships is that there is no expectation to financially provide for your partner, while in most heterosexual relationships the man is supposed to provide for their wife and pay for dates. In heterosexual relationships, the man is supposed to be the main income-earner. In homosexual relationships, these can all vary but, in most cases, at least be able to provide for yourself only.
- Personality and growth-orientation
- Have goals and proactively pursue them
- A sense of style. While man shouldn't limit themselves to wear grey, white, black and blue/navy, it also doesn't mean you should dress like a rainbow 24/7. Be sensible. You should also not dress all the time in other ways like other NPCs do (i.e. t-shirt/hoodie and jeans/joggers). NPCs are not role models for anything, let alone style. Mix it up, see what actually works best for you, rather than being a sheep. Venus square or just Venus energies here can help. Throw away all t-shirts with massive prints and similar, as you're not a kid anymore.
If you have mental health issues, those need to be taken care of before entering a serious, committed relationship. It's not fair to dump them on your partner, as in a relationship most aspects of life become shared. Whether you want it or not, poorly-managed mental issues bleed into every aspect of your life making you a worse partner, a worse friend, a worse everything. Get all the help and support you need.
We are not NPCs here, so it's important to optimise all aspects of our lives. This is the difference between someone on the path to Godhood and those who are dabblers or NPCs. I hope this short post can help any homosexual man here understand themselves better and help themselves.