BDSM and Me

It seems to me that if you just follow the meditation program up to awake the Base Chakra, you'll just loose the ability to be submissive.
Be submissive is surely a manifestation of a lack of grounding.
Maybe by nature you are kind and the lack of grounding make you submissive, while authoritarian/proud people can become abusive or sadistic when not grounded.

Talon wrote:View source

This is embarrassing - sort of.

BDSM fits me. It's adventurous - so am i . I have met outstanding people. It's not just kink, it's connections. i have learned about myself too.

I am quite submissive. Largely life experiences made my submissive character but it seems, it may have been there and awakened - perhaps.

Enough back story
MORE TO THE POINT

I had a dominant. She also dedicated herself to Satan. We have that in common. (among other things, ) She doesn't think it is good for a follower of this religion to be overly submissive.

I see her point. She wants the best for me. How do i break from submission. it's been so long.

I hope this IS seen as an appropriate question. I think it is because I'm growing. I think that makes Father Zeus proud. Growth /shadow work sure can be difficult. it's worth it though !

It’s okay and healthy to follow your nature and sexual preferences.

You can be submissive in bed, and you can also experiment with being more dominant.

If you are too submissive in real life, meaning you have a weak character and it’s affecting you negatively. You can do workings for this, workings with fire, solar workings or sun and mars squares. Make sure your solar and male chakras are healthy and strong.

Hit the gym too and work on your personality and develop healthy social skills and practice being assertive, putting boundaries.

Talon wrote:View source

This is embarrassing - sort of.

BDSM fits me. It's adventurous - so am i . I have met outstanding people. It's not just kink, it's connections. i have learned about myself too.

I am quite submissive. Largely life experiences made my submissive character but it seems, it may have been there and awakened - perhaps.

Enough back story
MORE TO THE POINT

I had a dominant. She also dedicated herself to Satan. We have that in common. (among other things, ) She doesn't think it is good for a follower of this religion to be overly submissive.

I see her point. She wants the best for me. How do i break from submission. it's been so long.

I hope this IS seen as an appropriate question. I think it is because I'm growing. I think that makes Father Zeus proud. Growth /shadow work sure can be difficult. it's worth it though !

You can and should empower your third chakra. When you do this, you should also have an outlet in the real world for things that this area represents/rules over. Change is only half done in meditation.

Ælberiigor wrote:View source

It seems to me that if you just follow the meditation program up to awake the Base Chakra, you'll just loose the ability to be submissive.
Be submissive is surely a manifestation of a lack of grounding.
Maybe by nature you are kind and the lack of grounding make you submissive, while authoritarian/proud people can become abusive or sadistic when not grounded.

No. And I wonder your implication that BDSM is not a natural form of expression to some people being True or not...

Henu the Great wrote:View source

No. And I wonder your implication that BDSM is not a natural form of expression to some people being True or not...

I admit I'm not sure that any custom be natural, but a way to evacuate energy. In fact, I think BDSM is better than drug because it frees while drug jails.

I mentionned the Base Chakra because I felt during its activation a deep gravity and a powerful grounding... making me no more OK to tolerate anything.
But I activated it too soon and had to stop exercises...

Ælberiigor wrote:View source

I mentionned the Base Chakra because I felt during its activation a deep gravity and a powerful grounding... making me no more OK to tolerate anything.
But I activated it too soon and had to stop exercises...

I know the feeling, and I am very accustomed to it. Keep on working on it, that's all I can say.

I appreciate the feedback. it's better than what I had. My take was just keep trying to change - except the inevitable failure and frustration but keep trying and eventually - long term success.

I do think it's ok in the right setting. A sense of adventure for example.

I'll put the suggestions into practice. I am a practitioner though. I seem a mess huh? lol

Henu the Great wrote:View source

You can and should empower your third chakra. When you do this, you should also have an outlet in the real world for things that this area represents/rules over. Change is only half done in meditation.

No. And I wonder your implication that BDSM is not a natural form of expression to some people being True or not...

Ælberiigor wrote:View source

It seems to me that if you just follow the meditation program up to awake the Base Chakra, you'll just loose the ability to be submissive.
Be submissive is surely a manifestation of a lack of grounding.
Maybe by nature you are kind and the lack of grounding make you submissive, while authoritarian/proud people can become abusive or sadistic when not grounded.

We all have good and bad points as humans. Some of my good points are; I'm kind, charitable, patient, caring, self reflection etc - this adds to your theory of being kind but not grounded

Talon wrote:View source

This is embarrassing - sort of.

BDSM fits me. It's adventurous - so am i . I have met outstanding people. It's not just kink, it's connections. i have learned about myself too.

I am quite submissive. Largely life experiences made my submissive character but it seems, it may have been there and awakened - perhaps.

Enough back story
MORE TO THE POINT

I had a dominant. She also dedicated herself to Satan. We have that in common. (among other things, ) She doesn't think it is good for a follower of this religion to be overly submissive.

I see her point. She wants the best for me. How do i break from submission. it's been so long.

I hope this IS seen as an appropriate question. I think it is because I'm growing. I think that makes Father Zeus proud. Growth /shadow work sure can be difficult. it's worth it though !

As long as participants are able to, and actually do, consent, then enjoy yourself. Being genuinely-elite, i.e. being a Zevist, doesn't mean not enjoying your own idiosyncrasies. It may just be in your particular case that things have come out in ways so that you enjoy being submissive due to current-life and past-life events, to make you balanced... or... it might not be at all. There tends to be sexual documentary programmes on TV where a presenter observes and inquires, and one bloke visited an online dom-type bloke to be submissive to him, because in his work life he is boss and he needed balance. From what I gathered, it wasn't really a sexual interaction, more a submissive personal fawning and giving money submissively to this dom. I don't know if it was that the professional boss-cum-personal sub bloke was gay or that it was that he just needed a strong dom type over him for a little while every week to help him within himself.

It's not for everyone, but if it's consensual then there's nothing wrong with these things. If it is consensual, then enjoy.

Ælberiigor wrote:View source

It seems to me that if you just follow the meditation program up to awake the Base Chakra, you'll just loose the ability to be submissive.
Be submissive is surely a manifestation of a lack of grounding.
Maybe by nature you are kind and the lack of grounding make you submissive, while authoritarian/proud people can become abusive or sadistic when not grounded.

Being overly submissive can also be caused by a weak solar plexus chakra.

Wotanwarrior wrote:View source

Being overly submissive can also be caused by a weak solar plexus chakra.

Right. This Chakra is also related to dignity, and I'd better to restart a session to empowered them all properly.

By the way and for all, I didn't point the "sexual submission" as bad, it's just a game, but pointed the inability to assert oneself regardless of the circumstances, to say NO !
Having weak lower Chakras leads to this, and many end jailed by perverse vampires up to understand they are not submissive by essence but weak, living that to avoid to admit their weakness and take in charge this point.