I apologize for being blunt here, but just because it is a past-life connection, doesn't mean it is for the best. I am speaking from experience here.
Look, strong attractions often involves some degree of projection - seeing qualities in another person that reflect our own desires, ideals, or unresolved issues. Sometimes, we project our “ideal” onto someone, which can lead to feeling “fated” or intensely connected, even without much interaction. This doesn't make it any more true, or of fate. You haven't even met this person yet.
It’s helpful to take a step back and ask: What am I really seeking here? Often, intense connections reflect something we’re yearning for internally, whether it’s love, acceptance, passion, or understanding. Shifting focus inward to what you truly need from a relationship can help clarify if this specific connection is healthy or sustainable.
Sometimes, letting go of the idea that the connection or fate must happen can be liberating. Relationships that come together naturally are usually more fulfilling, so being open to a range of outcomes - including no connection - can allow you to relax and be more authentic. Sometimes, it’s simply not a match, and that’s okay.
I stand by my words when I say that your best chance of obtaining a real, genuine, deep, and lasting relationship is to first free yourself, and then perform a love spell to attract the most compatible person into your life. This is the most effective way for anyone who truly seek something of great value in a relationship.
Thank you for your response. I've explained how I felt to the person, and whatever happen's, happen's. I'm at peace with the end result.
If nothing happen's, that's fine. I've said what I had to say, and I'm satisfied.
I understand what you mean about projection and ideals and all of that, but I'm not really the type.
I always try to take a realistic and self-reflective view of things, especially human relationships.
But something about the tiniest detail's of their actions appeals to me in an explicable way. And it's nothing to do with desperation, co-dependency, need for love etc., they just align with me on an energetic level.
Probably, because the synastry is very strong. Her Jupiter is conjunct my Venus, my Mercury is conjunct her Moon, My Mars and her Venus are conjunct at the exact degree. My Jupiter, which is in my natal 7th house, is conjunct her Ascendent. But slightly problematic, is my Pluto is also conjunct her Venus.
Either way, I've already started to remove the negative karma, so we'll see what happens in the future.