Aynonnn said:
I have Fetishes, I'm not attracted to conventionally attractive women though I admire them and would reproduce with them because it's my duty(Blonde haired, blue eyed bombshell
)Sometimes my desires disturb and/or embarass me, I'd like to know more about why I am the way I am and hear some alternative perspectives. I know these things are not my choice but things I was to inevitably discover and I accept them for that. What do you think?
Just find someone who is into this. You can use magick. To be honest I dont think it ever was a huge problem or possibly even a problem at all in the ancient times. It's only a problem today because of two things.
One: the Abrahamic religions have tried to instill in everyone guilt about their own sexuality and made it so it can only be done a specific way between specific people (heterosexual married couples and avoiding anything that is outside of the realm of _______ insert whatever bible verses someone wants to)
Two: Some people have taken this way too far into things that are actually dangerous and harmful or even deadly in some cases like with some of the BSDM stuff.
When your alone with your partner as long as they are consenting and of the same race do what you like. You don't have to be attracted to conventional anything there are plenty of people out there.
Let's say this: As long as it doesn't harm you or your partner in some way and isn't taken from the mindset of Abrahamic enemy stuff such as degrading the self or feeling guilt or fear over things creating traumas etc then your fine with whatever. A lot of things depend on the mindset behind it to determine if it's ok or not as they could be either.
You probably won't find many into certain things but some things you will find a lot of people into. It depends if what you like is the first case do magick it works just don't automatically trust the person you attract in every little thing that might be a mistake. You only touched on sexually what you wanted you didn't include anything else in the spell. So there is no gaurentee outside of this the person is good in today's world. That's just a disclaimer but most people are not terrible some are.