AskSatanOperator
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TLDR: I plan on doing a Love spell for attracting a partner in January when Venus is in Pisces, but I am an incel with not much going for me. I am working on or finished a lot of freeing workings regarding love and sex but am unsure on how to materially proceed for success. I also don't know where I would even go to find women in the first place. I want to avoid places like bars and clubs.
Full: Long time incel that gave up on love/sex due to me failing at it miserably. The freeing workings have invigorated me into finally resolving this part of my life but I am drastically behind my fellow male peers in pretty much every category (physique, wealth, status, money, charisma, etc). This isn't to beat myself down, just an objective measurement. I also have a very stiff style of communication and definitely not the fun kind of guy. I want to emphasize that my natal chart's 7th house has over half of my chart inside it with a lot of love/sex related aspects. This is extremely important to me. I have completed or currently am working on:
- Removing past love ties and vows
- Removing Mars, Venus, Mercury, and Jupiter negative Karma
- Removing obstacles to love and sex life- Removing barriers between women and I
- Venus square for physical beauty- Mars square for increasing muscle mass (unfortunately retrograde)
- Aura for attracting a sexual partner (also mars retrograde)
I am putting my all into this but the material side is my biggest problem I believe. I have no car, little wealth, old clothes, scrawny, poor social skills, I don't get out much, and I'm not exactly a fun guy. I am out of the times as I am into geek culture and know very little of anything mainstream. I have never used a dating app of any kind and the furthest I have ever gone is kissing back in middle school. Which was about 2 decades ago. Where should I even go to attempt to find a partner? What steps should I take on the material side of things with these workings under my belt? I know that I need get some new clothes and work on making more money (doing a Jupiter square for wealth) but not much else.
Full: Long time incel that gave up on love/sex due to me failing at it miserably. The freeing workings have invigorated me into finally resolving this part of my life but I am drastically behind my fellow male peers in pretty much every category (physique, wealth, status, money, charisma, etc). This isn't to beat myself down, just an objective measurement. I also have a very stiff style of communication and definitely not the fun kind of guy. I want to emphasize that my natal chart's 7th house has over half of my chart inside it with a lot of love/sex related aspects. This is extremely important to me. I have completed or currently am working on:
- Removing past love ties and vows
- Removing Mars, Venus, Mercury, and Jupiter negative Karma
- Removing obstacles to love and sex life- Removing barriers between women and I
- Venus square for physical beauty- Mars square for increasing muscle mass (unfortunately retrograde)
- Aura for attracting a sexual partner (also mars retrograde)
I am putting my all into this but the material side is my biggest problem I believe. I have no car, little wealth, old clothes, scrawny, poor social skills, I don't get out much, and I'm not exactly a fun guy. I am out of the times as I am into geek culture and know very little of anything mainstream. I have never used a dating app of any kind and the furthest I have ever gone is kissing back in middle school. Which was about 2 decades ago. Where should I even go to attempt to find a partner? What steps should I take on the material side of things with these workings under my belt? I know that I need get some new clothes and work on making more money (doing a Jupiter square for wealth) but not much else.