Serbon said:
And about discord. I've taken pretty much all security and privacy measures for this. In my opinion, it is a great opportunity for spreading JoS
This is not about privacy or security. If you look what I said was that discord is used by people who have bad intentions and for bad reasons. And most of the people using it are only working to harm people and to confuse people, so do not listen to them.
Which is exactly what you did. Both of you have accounts right here, and anything you wanted to say to him you could have easily done right here. Especially if you actually did have good intentions and actually were being helpful you would have done it right here so that more people would also be helped.
But you purposefully hid yourself and did this secretly on discord instead of saying it here because you knew that people here would be disagreeing with you. You had to hide and give harmful advice because you knew that if you did it here many of us would be saying how harmful it is. And we would be showing all of the many different ways that it does real and possibly permanent damage to people. And this isn't even entirely about you being right or wrong because if you did have anything to share showing any benefit, we would listen to you. But you knew that you were giving harmful advice to a young person.
This is the exact definition of subversive behaviour. And it honestly looks very bad. You are the exact definition example on why nobody should ever use discord or listen to or trust anybody from discord, because all it is is people trying to confuse and hurt other people. And you are this person.