ChaosBringer666
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So recently I've realized that I have a strong aversion to other men, quite strange that I only just noticed it. I don't want to go into many details, (because its embarrassing) but when I asked Father if I was "comparing myself to him" he said "yes and no." No because I've never directly compared myself to him. (in a negative way) But yes because I compare my physical self to every male around ( and by extension Father ) because of how I was born ( I have type of palsy that makes me limp and weaker than most guys...)
YES I know that a body is not what defines you as man. it actually is more than just surface level, all clashes with authority growing up or otherwise have always been men at least with women there is always a common ground met. With men, it usually hurts bad. It Doesn't mean I didn't deserve it but It always feels like I get pushed into a corner. like I remember one time on a school walk one of my peers (who knows nothing about me) starts chirping " pick up your feet" "your not gangster stop walking like that" for like 20-30 minutes we finally get back to school and he asks "so uh why do you walk like that"... :| fuck off like actually.
So that's one instance, I wouldn't say it's super common but it happens enough to remind me I'm not normal, every bloody time I forget.
sooo uhh that's it, kinda 2 problems woven together but I couldn't properly explain the aversion without details. now I have dealt with hang ups before but those were inner problems, this is a little different and literally involves men as a whole so I don't really know where to starts.
Thanks everyone
have a good day
YES I know that a body is not what defines you as man. it actually is more than just surface level, all clashes with authority growing up or otherwise have always been men at least with women there is always a common ground met. With men, it usually hurts bad. It Doesn't mean I didn't deserve it but It always feels like I get pushed into a corner. like I remember one time on a school walk one of my peers (who knows nothing about me) starts chirping " pick up your feet" "your not gangster stop walking like that" for like 20-30 minutes we finally get back to school and he asks "so uh why do you walk like that"... :| fuck off like actually.
So that's one instance, I wouldn't say it's super common but it happens enough to remind me I'm not normal, every bloody time I forget.
sooo uhh that's it, kinda 2 problems woven together but I couldn't properly explain the aversion without details. now I have dealt with hang ups before but those were inner problems, this is a little different and literally involves men as a whole so I don't really know where to starts.
Thanks everyone
have a good day