Crystallized Mushroom
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does any research show what causes such a thing is it something your born with cause my self i have what seems to be low or barely any desires toward men and women almost like i'm just neutral it seems weird :? :?
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what causes asexuality?
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Crystallized Mushroom
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Meteor said:
and what mental or spiritual issues could cause asexuality if its okay to ask? Maybe stormblood would know he seems highly knowledgeable :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
WhiteDawn666
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Have you been traumatized before? Asexuality can be a reaction to abusive behavior from others even if it was just emotional abuse. I struggled with it before, I lost all sexual desire for a long time outside of masterbation as I didn't trust anyone enough to want to be intimate with them. It was not pleasurable to have sex with others anyway (could not orgasm, sex was painful).
It took me a long time to come out of it, I spent months not having sex with anyone. It would really help to find the right partner before trying sex again if or when you chose too. I think asexuality is a natural reaction to being around low quality potential or current partners, or unresolved trauma (past or present).
There can be a lot of power in not wanting others sexually when everyone around you is shit, or rabidly horny.
It took me a long time to come out of it, I spent months not having sex with anyone. It would really help to find the right partner before trying sex again if or when you chose too. I think asexuality is a natural reaction to being around low quality potential or current partners, or unresolved trauma (past or present).
There can be a lot of power in not wanting others sexually when everyone around you is shit, or rabidly horny.
Stormblood
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I agree with Meteor.
You see, we are masters in feeding fire to things without realising to what exactly are feeding into.
You say that you are asexual and have barely any desire towards men or women but have you tried or put effort into taking interest towards either sex.
Try taking interest in the opposite sex first, see what it is like to do so.
You might just be stuck by saying "I don't have any desire" when in fact you could potentially indeed have the desire.
I might be wrong here but I would still advise you to try to take an interest in opposite sex out of your own volition. Keep an open mind when you approach someone of opposite sex without any self convinced bias.
Try it and let me know your experience.
You say that you are asexual and have barely any desire towards men or women but have you tried or put effort into taking interest towards either sex.
Try taking interest in the opposite sex first, see what it is like to do so.
You might just be stuck by saying "I don't have any desire" when in fact you could potentially indeed have the desire.
I might be wrong here but I would still advise you to try to take an interest in opposite sex out of your own volition. Keep an open mind when you approach someone of opposite sex without any self convinced bias.
Try it and let me know your experience.
Academic Scholar
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Crystallized Mushroom said:
Meteor said:
There’s nothing wrong with asexuality, having a low sex drive and not wanting to have sex. Asexuality is found in nature and there are asexual animals, just like how homosexuality is found in nature and there’s homosexual animals.Username said:
HPS Maxine explained in this sermon how there’s nothing wrong with having a low sex drive and that no one should be forced into anything sexual: https://www.ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=24&t=18337
Don't forget all the chemicals, pollutants, and plastics found among products we use everyday.
Aside from asexuality it should be known as a conditioned response depending on the person. While I think some people do have a genuine negation towards sex and a small minority are actually asexual or limited in sexuality.
I believe all these chemicals, pollutants, and plastics are exacerbating said responses or said negations. With that said while it's more conditioned true don't ignore modern societies issues.
It's kinda like the sex-masturbation issue. Most people fuck like they are masturbating i.e. quietly. I recall reading a few times that performing in bed with loudness vocalization, grunting, expressions of statements should be done outloud. There's a few researches that point out that although pornography is faked often times for the most part. The very act of expressing yourself in the throws of passion outloud seems to incite a greater sexual and orgasmic response. Especially considering that the body knows when masturbation is occurring and when sex is occurring and makes the man in particular deliver more volume of reproductive matter. Although I have read women react differently and their vagina seems to understand it's being penetrated by a man and manipulates itself to provide a better ground for the man's/s reproductive substances.
With that said don't ignore modern societies issues as another factor.
Aside from asexuality it should be known as a conditioned response depending on the person. While I think some people do have a genuine negation towards sex and a small minority are actually asexual or limited in sexuality.
I believe all these chemicals, pollutants, and plastics are exacerbating said responses or said negations. With that said while it's more conditioned true don't ignore modern societies issues.
It's kinda like the sex-masturbation issue. Most people fuck like they are masturbating i.e. quietly. I recall reading a few times that performing in bed with loudness vocalization, grunting, expressions of statements should be done outloud. There's a few researches that point out that although pornography is faked often times for the most part. The very act of expressing yourself in the throws of passion outloud seems to incite a greater sexual and orgasmic response. Especially considering that the body knows when masturbation is occurring and when sex is occurring and makes the man in particular deliver more volume of reproductive matter. Although I have read women react differently and their vagina seems to understand it's being penetrated by a man and manipulates itself to provide a better ground for the man's/s reproductive substances.
With that said don't ignore modern societies issues as another factor.
Stormblood
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Academic Scholar said:
Having a low sex drive is different than having no sex drive at all. Example of asexual animals? None. You are most likely confusing genderless animals and asexual reproduction for sexual orientation. Those are usually part of the lower animal kingdom, negligible when compared with mammals and human beings.
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She doesn't say anything about being asexual. It says simply that some people have very low sex drives and shouldn't be forced into sex which is kinda common sense.Academic Scholar said:
Asexual means not being attracted to either sex which is a mental disorder because one hates itself on a biological level undeserving of love and companionship.
Most probably this is a serious psychological disorder that might have been caused by trauma or chemicals in the food and water and/or vaccines.
Or it could simply be a coping mechanism to protect the ego in an extreme way because one cannot get laid.
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