slyscorpion wrote:What I don't get is why girls don't seem to go for guys that are nice and have positive energy everyone says I am yet they go for people that are really negative no problem.
There's a bunch of "reasons" behind this. For one, many people think that the "bad guys" would have some kind of mysterious and hidden side to them, which creates curiosity and attraction.
For two, the "nice guys" are often perceived as more submissive and "beta" kind of males, which for obvious reasons makes them seem less attractive to people than the "bad guy" who isn't afraid of doing bad things. I believe people work off the illusion that befriending (or taking as a lover) a bad guy, would mean that this person would somehow be nice to them and only be bad to others, which would create a sense of being protected. This however is not what happens in most cases, and the "bad guy" just turns abusive towards their partner.
But even despite this, most people still prefer the bad guy over the submissive beta "nice guy". Not to mention that the abrahamic faiths program people subconsciously to invite suffering and slavery into their lives, which also adds towards making them prefer the bad guy.
If you want people to look at you with more attraction, then try building some masculinity. Do some workouts regularly and work on your confidence. A nice guy who isn't afraid to pick a fight and engage in conflict, is the one who will stand superior to any "bad guy" out there.
There be an old saying - nice guys finish last. That could be...erm...taken cough
in different...erm...ways cough
, and I'm not talking about Green Day nor the Orion Experience. Here are some links regarding "nice guys finish last" -“Nice guys finish last.” Really? What does the research say?https://www.bakadesuyo.com/2013/05/nice ... inish-lastWhy “Nice Guys Finish Last” is Wrong
Is being nice a losing strategy?https://www.projectmanager.com/training ... t-is-wrongWhy Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
Here's a crazy notion: maybe they don't.https://www.vice.com/da/article/pp8jkv/ ... inish-lastDo Nice Guys Really Finish Last?
New research into agreeableness and financial success yields some surprises.https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog ... inish-lastJordan Peterson: Why Do Nice Guys Nice Finish Last? (MUST WATCH)https://youtu.be/di2FM8WZI5ENice Guys Finish Fast and Bad Guys Finish Last: Facilitatory vs. Inhibitory Interaction in Parallel Systems.https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/21516183
NCBI is the National Centre for Biotechnology Information and it advances science and health by providing access to biomedical and genomic information. That page on this link mentions Systems Factorial Technology -
Systems Factorial Technology: A Theory Driven Methodology for the Identification of Perceptual and Cognitive Mechanisms explores the theoretical and methodological tools used to investigate fundamental questions central to basic psychological and perceptual processes. Such processes include detection, identification, classification, recognition, and decision-making.
This book collects the tools that allow researchers to deal with the pervasive model mimicry problems which exist in standard experimental and theoretical paradigms and includes novel applications to not only basic psychological questions, but also clinical diagnosis and links to neuroscience.
Researchers can use this book to begin using the methodology behind SFT and to get an overview of current uses and future directions. The collected developments and applications of SFT allow us to peer inside the human mind and provide strong constraints on psychological theory.
https://books.google.com/books/about/Sy ... escription
- Provides a thorough introduction to the diagnostic tools offered by SFT
- Includes a tutorial on applying the method to reaction time data from a variety of different situations
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- Examines tools to expand the scope of SFT analyses
- Applies SFT to a spectrum of different cognitive domains across different sensory modalities
So the term "incel" is not defined - or should I say it is not "defined", so from what I have gathered, "incels" are too nice to get laid, and can be, but not are necessarily, angry because of that. This, in some people's opinions, makes them losers and shouldn't be pitied nor helped, when they needed someone else to wipe their arse for a few years, but also elderly people, very technically, do fall into this "category", dare I call it. Well... whatever the weather, there is so-called scientific research into the cognitive processes of it and interaction (sociopsychology, or sexosociopsychology)... but also contradictory...erm...evidence(?) which states that those who are too nice don't finish last...
So now then... which way will it go? The jew "puts out some 'feelers'" to see what will happen and to see how things will happen, so that it can then decide what to do next. If I were a betting person, I'd bet each person who visits this forum, the Yahoo! Groups, and all of JoSM sites and profiles/accounts/pages that there will not be any gun-totin', penis-strokin', ...surely also for girls... vagina-finger-pokin' shootings in any cinemas showing this film. Girls can be whatever gender-fluid-change-my-mind-every-day-LGBTQROFLCOPTER-incel-is-supposed-to-be-today, as well...can't they?! They seem to be less-bothered about it, though.
Maybe the Boy whatever-incel-is-today-s should get together and have some FwB (friends with benefits) fun privately, and not be upset with gettin' they dick wet, bwoi. For those who are very lonely, then they should improve themselves so that they could at least get with someone. Attend Gay Night and see about getting some dick, whether they're gay or bi or not. You don't need to be non-heterosexual to have non-heterosexual sex, but you need sex! It also goes without saying - with someone of your own Race!