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GoldenxChild1

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Without divulging details about my life, I have a half-sister I haven't seen in years. We didn't grow up together as she is my biological Dad's child with another women who isn't my Mom. Anyways, this whole time, she has lived in the same city as me, so distance isn't an issue, but indifference is. We have each other only one social media channel, and I have reached out to tell her my door is always open, but she has no real interest in getting to know each other again.

How can I change this, or should I change this?

In Spiritual Satanism, along with all healthy Pagan cultures, family is very important. Originally, I didn't care much for family, however I do now. I want a relationship with my sister. We are blood related after all.

Any help would be great
 
GoldenxChild1 said:
Without divulging details about my life, I have a half-sister I haven't seen in years. We didn't grow up together as she is my biological Dad's child with another women who isn't my Mom. Anyways, this whole time, she has lived in the same city as me, so distance isn't an issue, but indifference is. We have each other only one social media channel, and I have reached out to tell her my door is always open, but she has no real interest in getting to know each other again.

How can I change this, or should I change this?

In Spiritual Satanism, along with all healthy Pagan cultures, family is very important. Originally, I didn't care much for family, however I do now. I want a relationship with my sister. We are blood related after all.

Any help would be great
You can't force it. It's not like a regular sibling relationship, you didn't really have a relationship built in like most people do and your paths are not intertwined in any way.

I have half blood relatives too but I don't have a relationship with them. It used to bother me alot but I don't think it's worth trying to change at this point. I've tried but there is just no love or even basic connection, and I do not want to invite other peoples' dysfunction into my life. I've just accepted that there is nobody that I can have a familial relationship with.
 
GoldenxChild1 said:
Without divulging details about my life, I have a half-sister I haven't seen in years. We didn't grow up together as she is my biological Dad's child with another women who isn't my Mom. Anyways, this whole time, she has lived in the same city as me, so distance isn't an issue, but indifference is. We have each other only one social media channel, and I have reached out to tell her my door is always open, but she has no real interest in getting to know each other again.

How can I change this, or should I change this?

In Spiritual Satanism, along with all healthy Pagan cultures, family is very important. Originally, I didn't care much for family, however I do now. I want a relationship with my sister. We are blood related after all.

Any help would be great

Well, Meditate in the evening/night, do your cleaning and yoga.. just do your regular spiritual exercises in the evening/night, so you have a powerful boost when you are about to go to bed.

Instead of going to bed, after Meditating, do a spell on her.

Go into a light trance, pull her light body out and hold her, so you don’t lose focus. Vibrate the runes into her soul, imagine them in golden light, also lightening up her entire soul. Make her feel the way you want her to feel, infuse her emotions, a smile, etc.

After you are done with the vibrations, program her. She should be asleep while doing so.

After that, keep your focus on her, and just let her feel positive emotions towards you.

I have been doing this for job interviews etc. And it always worked.
 
NinRick said:
GoldenxChild1 said:
Without divulging details about my life, I have a half-sister I haven't seen in years. We didn't grow up together as she is my biological Dad's child with another women who isn't my Mom. Anyways, this whole time, she has lived in the same city as me, so distance isn't an issue, but indifference is. We have each other only one social media channel, and I have reached out to tell her my door is always open, but she has no real interest in getting to know each other again.

How can I change this, or should I change this?

In Spiritual Satanism, along with all healthy Pagan cultures, family is very important. Originally, I didn't care much for family, however I do now. I want a relationship with my sister. We are blood related after all.

Any help would be great

Well, Meditate in the evening/night, do your cleaning and yoga.. just do your regular spiritual exercises in the evening/night, so you have a powerful boost when you are about to go to bed.

Instead of going to bed, after Meditating, do a spell on her.

Go into a light trance, pull her light body out and hold her, so you don’t lose focus. Vibrate the runes into her soul, imagine them in golden light, also lightening up her entire soul. Make her feel the way you want her to feel, infuse her emotions, a smile, etc.

After you are done with the vibrations, program her. She should be asleep while doing so.

After that, keep your focus on her, and just let her feel positive emotions towards you.

I have been doing this for job interviews etc. And it always worked.

I was thinking of doing something like this! Thx
 
I'm new here and I have a lot of questions and I don't know how to post anything here
 
Olian0_0 said:
I'm new here and I have a lot of questions and I don't know how to post anything here

Navigate to ancient-forums.com, which you already know how to do, and scroll down to Joy of Satan 666 to click on that title. Once there, you will see a post to forum option to the left near the top of the page.
 
Personally, I wouldn't bother. Even if you try using magic on her, it would take 10 times as much effort because she's clearly not interested in letting you in her life.

I would just cut any bonds I have with a person like that and move on.
 
Purified666 said:
Personally, I wouldn't bother. Even if you try using magic on her, it would take 10 times as much effort because she's clearly not interested in letting you in her life.

I would just cut any bonds I have with a person like that and move on.

I guess it just saddens me to let go of a potential relationship with a blood relative. I have 4 other siblings, all of which I see on holidays, but I do not have much of a relationship with them either.

Don't you want a brother or a sister to be close to in life? Do you have one?
 
GoldenxChild1 said:
Purified666 said:
Personally, I wouldn't bother. Even if you try using magic on her, it would take 10 times as much effort because she's clearly not interested in letting you in her life.

I would just cut any bonds I have with a person like that and move on.

I guess it just saddens me to let go of a potential relationship with a blood relative. I have 4 other siblings, all of which I see on holidays, but I do not have much of a relationship with them either.

Don't you want a brother or a sister to be close to in life? Do you have one?

I look at the general compatibility with a person before I choose to invest time into them, especially if it involves magic. A mere blood bond in my current reincarnation is not enough, even more so if it didn't happen in past lives - then it's just an ephemeral bond probably not worth keeping.

Your other 4 siblings at least make the effort to meet up with you during the holidays (I assume they don't live close), unlike your half-sister who lives in the same city and doesn't want to be in your life.

Going back to my first point, family is important only if it empowers/improves you as a person. Staying in or pursuing a incompatible/dysfunctional family out of dogmatic views regarding the family will only diminish you as a person.

The choice is ultimately yours, but I suggest you at least meditate on this for some time before making a decision.
 
Purified666 said:
I look at the general compatibility with a person before I choose to invest time into them, especially if it involves magic. A mere blood bond in my current reincarnation is not enough, even more so if it didn't happen in past lives - then it's just an ephemeral bond probably not worth keeping.

Your other 4 siblings at least make the effort to meet up with you during the holidays (I assume they don't live close), unlike your half-sister who lives in the same city and doesn't want to be in your life.

Going back to my first point, family is important only if it empowers/improves you as a person. Staying in or pursuing a incompatible/dysfunctional family out of dogmatic views regarding the family will only diminish you as a person.

The choice is ultimately yours, but I suggest you at least meditate on this for some time before making a decision.
Strong and well-argued conviction. Respect!
 
GoldenxChild1 said:
Without divulging details about my life, I have a half-sister I haven't seen in years. We didn't grow up together as she is my biological Dad's child with another women who isn't my Mom. Anyways, this whole time, she has lived in the same city as me, so distance isn't an issue, but indifference is. We have each other only one social media channel, and I have reached out to tell her my door is always open, but she has no real interest in getting to know each other again.

How can I change this, or should I change this?

In Spiritual Satanism, along with all healthy Pagan cultures, family is very important. Originally, I didn't care much for family, however I do now. I want a relationship with my sister. We are blood related after all.

Any help would be great

Do a Working of GEBO and WAUNJO with an appropriate affirmation that you form a healthy and loving relationship with your half sister. These aren't just form making Romantic Relationships, but also Bonds and Relationships with Friends. Family is very important and you should try to make it work. I wish you luck in this Endeavour and i wish that you would report your success in this thread as well.
 
General Yeager said:
GoldenxChild1 said:
Without divulging details about my life, I have a half-sister I haven't seen in years. We didn't grow up together as she is my biological Dad's child with another women who isn't my Mom. Anyways, this whole time, she has lived in the same city as me, so distance isn't an issue, but indifference is. We have each other only one social media channel, and I have reached out to tell her my door is always open, but she has no real interest in getting to know each other again.

How can I change this, or should I change this?

In Spiritual Satanism, along with all healthy Pagan cultures, family is very important. Originally, I didn't care much for family, however I do now. I want a relationship with my sister. We are blood related after all.

Any help would be great

Do a Working of GEBO and WAUNJO with an appropriate affirmation that you form a healthy and loving relationship with your half sister. These aren't just form making Romantic Relationships, but also Bonds and Relationships with Friends. Family is very important and you should try to make it work. I wish you luck in this Endeavour and i wish that you would report your success in this thread as well.

Thanks brother. I appreciate your advice. When I have the energy and resources I will. Currently, I'm dealing with some health issues that are taking up a considerable amount of energy.
 
Henu the Great said:
Purified666 said:
I look at the general compatibility with a person before I choose to invest time into them, especially if it involves magic. A mere blood bond in my current reincarnation is not enough, even more so if it didn't happen in past lives - then it's just an ephemeral bond probably not worth keeping.

Your other 4 siblings at least make the effort to meet up with you during the holidays (I assume they don't live close), unlike your half-sister who lives in the same city and doesn't want to be in your life.

Going back to my first point, family is important only if it empowers/improves you as a person. Staying in or pursuing a incompatible/dysfunctional family out of dogmatic views regarding the family will only diminish you as a person.

The choice is ultimately yours, but I suggest you at least meditate on this for some time before making a decision.
Strong and well-argued conviction. Respect!

Thank you!

I try to be as objective as possible whenever an emotionally charged topic/subject is at play. During such an event it's easy to lose sight of what ultimately matters: finishing the Great Work and claiming our birthright as rulers of the stars.
 
Have the best relationship that you can with the 4 of your siblings that you are close with. And one day the 5th one may think of all 4 of you together and want to be closer with the whole group. This shifts the focus towards wanting to be part of a family group, instead of just being closer with one person who honestly she barely knows and might not be fully comfortable with.


4 siblings who you are very close with is still a good record and you are lucky to have this. Many people don't have as good of a family.
 
Ol argedco luciftias said:
Have the best relationship that you can with the 4 of your siblings that you are close with. And one day the 5th one may think of all 4 of you together and want to be closer with the whole group. This shifts the focus towards wanting to be part of a family group, instead of just being closer with one person who honestly she barely knows and might not be fully comfortable with.


4 siblings who you are very close with is still a good record and you are lucky to have this. Many people don't have as good of a family.

Thanks for the reply Ol. Although I understand the argument some of our SS brothers are making, I think they're too off-the-mark. Unless your family member is a Christian or something, why not try? Especially seeing as we understand the power of family and have the power to improve it.
 

But you have been trying. What about her wishes? What about her desire to stay away? You have made it blatantly clear to her that you want to be closer and yet she has rejected every attempt at a connection.

I think it's a far more fruitful endeavor to find out why that is than to keep pouring energy trying to get through to her because, after a point, it just becomes counterproductive. Imagine someone you don't want to see constantly hassling you. How would you feel?
 
Powerofjustice said:

But you have been trying. What about her wishes? What about her desire to stay away? You have made it blatantly clear to her that you want to be closer and yet she has rejected every attempt at a connection.

I think it's a far more fruitful endeavor to find out why that is than to keep pouring energy trying to get through to her because, after a point, it just becomes counterproductive. Imagine someone you don't want to see constantly hassling you. How would you feel?

I see where you are coming from, however there is a lack of context you are unaware of.

I reached out once for the first time in over 5 years, and she did respond positively, but not necessarily reciprocal. I have not spoken to her since as I know she doesn't like confrontation. Furthermore, she did not ask that I stay away or to cease communication.

You see, I have made little to no attempts to establish a connection since she left, which she did as a minor (as was I) under her mother's care.

I agree that even family members shouldn't harass each other just because they are blood, but I have done nothing of the sort, nor will I.

You're not the first SS to say it's "a lot of energy", or "it's a waste of energy", etc. I do not think attempting to heal splintered family relations are anything wasted or too much to attempt to try. ESPECIALLY, for the White Race, which has a deteriorated sense of family where we can't even trace our lineage anymore.

Given that information, can you understand the situation a little better?
 
I just wanted to say that I am thankful for the pragmatic advice I have received from some of my fellow SS. All of you have solid arguments, and I appreciate you taking the time to discuss my life with me.
 
GoldenxChild1 said:
Ol argedco luciftias said:
Have the best relationship that you can with the 4 of your siblings that you are close with. And one day the 5th one may think of all 4 of you together and want to be closer with the whole group. This shifts the focus towards wanting to be part of a family group, instead of just being closer with one person who honestly she barely knows and might not be fully comfortable with.


4 siblings who you are very close with is still a good record and you are lucky to have this. Many people don't have as good of a family.

Thanks for the reply Ol. Although I understand the argument some of our SS brothers are making, I think they're too off-the-mark. Unless your family member is a Christian or something, why not try? Especially seeing as we understand the power of family and have the power to improve it.
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Why not try? How about, why doesn't she try? Have you thought about that?

She has no desire to have you in her life and I think her wishes should be respected. Olly and POJ have made good points. What makes you so hung up on this one person when you have several other good relationships already?
 
GoldenxChild1 said:
You're not the first SS to say it's "a lot of energy", or "it's a waste of energy", etc. I do not think attempting to heal splintered family relations are anything wasted or too much to attempt to try. ESPECIALLY, for the White Race, which has a deteriorated sense of family where we can't even trace our lineage anymore.

Given that information, can you understand the situation a little better?

The question is not just about whether to try or not, but whether this is a problem that needs to be addressed at this very moment.

Yes, ideally all families should be healed, but it requires both parties to want this, otherwise you are stuck doing the heavy lifting, all for a result that may not yield any immediate benefit to you.

In most cases, this person is usually fine and healthy, and so there is no strong need to pull them back into your family right now. As we have many priorities to worry about, we have to choose where we put our energy, and since this person has made it difficult, plus there is no emergency, then it is probably better to just leave it until later, such as 5 or 10 years.

Of course you are still free to try on your own, and you could use Berkano or Wunjo to restore communal bonds, but the end result might not actually yield anything substantial to your life
 
GoldenxChild1 said:
I just wanted to say that I am thankful for the pragmatic advice I have received from some of my fellow SS. All of you have solid arguments, and I appreciate you taking the time to discuss my life with me.

Oh, using the method I shared with you, this will not take much energy, and you should see results pretty fast. At least this has been the case for me.
 

This context changes everything. The way I understood it initially was that you had been trying to get through to her for a long time and that she wasn't interested.

What I meant with my initial reply was that it would be far easier to figure out why she was avoiding contact and resolve that than to keep pouring energy into trying to have a relationship again. (Though that ended up not being the case)

I don't get it; if you really haven't spoken to her in such a long time, what's the big deal? If there is no animosity, no friction, then what's stopping you from just contacting her again?

I guess you can do a short working to ensure better success and understanding in relationships beforehand, but I got the idea it was way worse.
 
Blitzkreig [JG said:

Yes, time is not necessarily sensitive. Thanks Blitz.

One of the arguments I've seen is that I should consider the wishes of my sister, and I do. Another great point I saw is that family should uplift and improve you, otherwise why bother.

However, I have an answer to that, as SS we rarely have family that truly uplifts or improves us, given that most of us have family that is asleep and would not support our Spiritual Satanic development.

So, in my opinion, it is not their responsibility to improve or uplift us, but ours given the nature of the hierarchy of souls. We should seek to mend wounds in our family to further uplift and improve ourselves and our own blood, and thus the race. They do not have the same privileges as we do.
 
NinRick said:
GoldenxChild1 said:
I just wanted to say that I am thankful for the pragmatic advice I have received from some of my fellow SS. All of you have solid arguments, and I appreciate you taking the time to discuss my life with me.

Oh, using the method I shared with you, this will not take much energy, and you should see results pretty fast. At least this has been the case for me.

Yes, I will definitely get around to it. Thanks Nin
 
Powerofjustice said:

This context changes everything. The way I understood it initially was that you had been trying to get through to her for a long time and that she wasn't interested.

What I meant with my initial reply was that it would be far easier to figure out why she was avoiding contact and resolve that than to keep pouring energy into trying to have a relationship again. (Though that ended up not being the case)

I don't get it; if you really haven't spoken to her in such a long time, what's the big deal? If there is no animosity, no friction, then what's stopping you from just contacting her again?

I guess you can do a short working to ensure better success and understanding in relationships beforehand, but I got the idea it was way worse.

It is a little complicated to explain. Basically, I know how she will respond to certain requests based on the experience from other members of my family (Dad and Sister) who have tried in the past to invite her our for coffee, for example.

Yes, I may do something in the future. It is not time sensitive. Thanks brother.
 
existentialcrisis said:
GoldenxChild1 said:
Ol argedco luciftias said:
Have the best relationship that you can with the 4 of your siblings that you are close with. And one day the 5th one may think of all 4 of you together and want to be closer with the whole group. This shifts the focus towards wanting to be part of a family group, instead of just being closer with one person who honestly she barely knows and might not be fully comfortable with.


4 siblings who you are very close with is still a good record and you are lucky to have this. Many people don't have as good of a family.

Thanks for the reply Ol. Although I understand the argument some of our SS brothers are making, I think they're too off-the-mark. Unless your family member is a Christian or something, why not try? Especially seeing as we understand the power of family and have the power to improve it.
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Why not try? How about, why doesn't she try? Have you thought about that?

She has no desire to have you in her life and I think her wishes should be respected. Olly and POJ have made good points. What makes you so hung up on this one person when you have several other good relationships already?

Read my reply to Blitz when it posts!

I believe it is a duty of an SS to do what he or she can for family because of the maturity of the soul compared to his or her kin.

Basically, if a family member doesn't want a relationship, his or hers wishes should only be respected if it is good for them, but said family member is usually simply ignorant of what is good for them.
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Satan

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