So I ve been trying to manifest a good relationship like healthy and stuff that is good for my future etc and thing is why do I keep manifesting / attracting girls that were already in a relationship or that they just broke up with someone and shit. Like I ve keep getting good looking girls and stuff but most of the time they re weird / already broke up with someone. Oh and also for example after I meet the specific girl I kinda just stop doing the working , is it ok or do you need to continue it if you attracted one ?
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Jupiter1 min to readYeah, I understand it's all good thank you for all the advice same goes for blitz and Henu. My bad I didn t also meant to be mean or something , beside that I mentioned x8 / x5 since x5 it s about love and stuff that s why.
Regards
Look into multiples of such numbers. 5x5, 55, and something along those lines.
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Yeah, I understand it's all good thank you for all the advice same goes for blitz and Henu. My bad I didn t also meant to be mean or something , beside that I mentioned x8 / x5 since x5 it s about love and stuff that s why.
Regards
Look into multiples of such numbers. 5x5, 55, and something along those lines.
At least you're lucky enough to not get stoned or hated if you go out with your partner outside. I absolutely do NOT accept any straight guy's excuses over why they can't find a girl. You can.
I have seen the absolute shittiest, most vile scumbag of this earth still get into good relationships with good women, so do NOT equate yourself to them, because you are likely not like them and have even the knowledge ready at your disposal to attract any girl you want.
Meanwhile for me, I would get lucky if I don't get sent 5 "interesting" pics a week from guys on Grindr and other dating apps, and the attractive ones are almost always straight men wanting to experiment. I mean, the attention is nice and really puffs up my self esteem:ROFLMAO: but at the end of the day, I really don't have any options at all to truly satisfy my inner wants in a partner. Men aren't really that much interested in dating anymore, and this is some brutal, hard fact that I am starting to swallow, almost making me act like them and just look to people as objects that fulfill sexual needs, which feels off to be honest.
You can do the God Ritual for Lady Astarte, and ask for her help in sending a good, capable and attractive woman your way. It will definitely help.
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At least you're lucky enough to not get stoned or hated if you go out with your partner outside. I absolutely do NOT accept any straight guy's excuses over why they can't find a girl. You can.
I have seen the absolute shittiest, most vile scumbag of this earth still get into good relationships with good women, so do NOT equate yourself to them, because you are likely not like them and have even the knowledge ready at your disposal to attract any girl you want.
Meanwhile for me, I would get lucky if I don't get sent 5 "interesting" pics a week from guys on Grindr and other dating apps, and the attractive ones are almost always straight men wanting to experiment. I mean, the attention is nice and really puffs up my self esteem:ROFLMAO: but at the end of the day, I really don't have any options at all to truly satisfy my inner wants in a partner. Men aren't really that much interested in dating anymore, and this is some brutal, hard fact that I am starting to swallow, almost making me act like them and just look to people as objects that fulfill sexual needs, which feels off to be honest.
You can do the God Ritual for Lady Astarte, and ask for her help in sending a good, capable and attractive woman your way. It will definitely help.
You should ask yourself, why is it a problem if a girl has already had a relationship before they met you? Does it matter if they broke up with someone and they are looking for a different partner?
Sure, if these girls have issues either because of their past relationships, or because they are weird and their previous relationships failed due to that, then be careful before starting something, but if it is just about them having had a relationship before meeting you, why would that be an issue? Most adults you will meet will have had relationships before they met you, if they didn't have this yet at a certain age that is a bigger problem in itself.
Many early relationships that people have early in their life are completely meaningless, so them having had one or multiple or not isn't a problem at all. Judge if these girls would fit you based on their personality and character, and whether you actually like them or not, not based on things that do not matter in the context of your relationship with them.
Was looking for that word.meaningless. some of us got here because we can feel the blissful love towards the God's yes as a male you might think I am emotional and a p**y.I grew up here and it freaks me out how everyone sees relationships most of them as meaningless I don't get it
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You should ask yourself, why is it a problem if a girl has already had a relationship before they met you? Does it matter if they broke up with someone and they are looking for a different partner?
Sure, if these girls have issues either because of their past relationships, or because they are weird and their previous relationships failed due to that, then be careful before starting something, but if it is just about them having had a relationship before meeting you, why would that be an issue? Most adults you will meet will have had relationships before they met you, if they didn't have this yet at a certain age that is a bigger problem in itself.
Many early relationships that people have early in their life are completely meaningless, so them having had one or multiple or not isn't a problem at all. Judge if these girls would fit you based on their personality and character, and whether you actually like them or not, not based on things that do not matter in the context of your relationship with them.
Was looking for that word.meaningless. some of us got here because we can feel the blissful love towards the God's yes as a male you might think I am emotional and a p**y.I grew up here and it freaks me out how everyone sees relationships most of them as meaningless I don't get it
You don't need to immediately jump into a relationship with a girl, you can just talk to them first for a while, maybe meet up a few times and see how things are. You cannot know much about a person just from knowing they just broke up.
These girls who just broke up, they are available again now and they are clearly wanting a boyfriend. Now, I would also be cautious, because someone who just went through a breakup is likely to not be the most stable person, maybe they are acting on emotion, they aren't serious and just want attention because they feel lonely, or whatever, but you can only find this out by giving something a little bit of time.
Another angle this can go is that the working specifically attracts these girls, exactly because they were in a shit relationship before and they break up, and now become available to you who can provide a much better relationship and be a much better partner.
Thank you for this reply.I hv been taking relationships too seriously it seems that one can hv as many as possible.I thought there were morals,ethics,respect and care that should be involved.it seems I was wrong thank you for clarifying that
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You don't need to immediately jump into a relationship with a girl, you can just talk to them first for a while, maybe meet up a few times and see how things are. You cannot know much about a person just from knowing they just broke up.
These girls who just broke up, they are available again now and they are clearly wanting a boyfriend. Now, I would also be cautious, because someone who just went through a breakup is likely to not be the most stable person, maybe they are acting on emotion, they aren't serious and just want attention because they feel lonely, or whatever, but you can only find this out by giving something a little bit of time.
Another angle this can go is that the working specifically attracts these girls, exactly because they were in a shit relationship before and they break up, and now become available to you who can provide a much better relationship and be a much better partner.
Thank you for this reply.I hv been taking relationships too seriously it seems that one can hv as many as possible.I thought there were morals,ethics,respect and care that should be involved.it seems I was wrong thank you for clarifying that
I add to this interesting thread, when you find a potential partner, try to understand which kind of people are her parents. Except very mature people, who developed their personality in full, most people will copy-paste behaviors they have learned in childhood, mostly from parents. If one or both parents are very negative, chances are this influences the daughter for the worst. This may surface much later in a relationship. In case she had positive parents, this would be a good starting point.
Yeah but if these show up one can simply leave
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I add to this interesting thread, when you find a potential partner, try to understand which kind of people are her parents. Except very mature people, who developed their personality in full, most people will copy-paste behaviors they have learned in childhood, mostly from parents. If one or both parents are very negative, chances are this influences the daughter for the worst. This may surface much later in a relationship. In case she had positive parents, this would be a good starting point.
Yeah but if these show up one can simply leave
At least you're lucky enough to not get stoned or hated if you go out with your partner outside. I absolutely do NOT accept any straight guy's excuses over why they can't find a girl. You can.
I have seen the absolute shittiest, most vile scumbag of this earth still get into good relationships with good women, so do NOT equate yourself to them, because you are likely not like them and have even the knowledge ready at your disposal to attract any girl you want.
Meanwhile for me, I would get lucky if I don't get sent 5 "interesting" pics a week from guys on Grindr and other dating apps, and the attractive ones are almost always straight men wanting to experiment. I mean, the attention is nice and really puffs up my self esteem:ROFLMAO: but at the end of the day, I really don't have any options at all to truly satisfy my inner wants in a partner. Men aren't really that much interested in dating anymore, and this is some brutal, hard fact that I am starting to swallow, almost making me act like them and just look to people as objects that fulfill sexual needs, which feels off to be honest.
Not all of us,if it's for fun then everyone is a possibility even married men.I think you hv to socialize more thats it
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At least you're lucky enough to not get stoned or hated if you go out with your partner outside. I absolutely do NOT accept any straight guy's excuses over why they can't find a girl. You can.
I have seen the absolute shittiest, most vile scumbag of this earth still get into good relationships with good women, so do NOT equate yourself to them, because you are likely not like them and have even the knowledge ready at your disposal to attract any girl you want.
Meanwhile for me, I would get lucky if I don't get sent 5 "interesting" pics a week from guys on Grindr and other dating apps, and the attractive ones are almost always straight men wanting to experiment. I mean, the attention is nice and really puffs up my self esteem:ROFLMAO: but at the end of the day, I really don't have any options at all to truly satisfy my inner wants in a partner. Men aren't really that much interested in dating anymore, and this is some brutal, hard fact that I am starting to swallow, almost making me act like them and just look to people as objects that fulfill sexual needs, which feels off to be honest.
Not all of us,if it's for fun then everyone is a possibility even married men.I think you hv to socialize more thats it
Thank you for this reply.I hv been taking relationships too seriously it seems that one can hv as many as possible.I thought there were morals,ethics,respect and care that should be involved.it seems I was wrong thank you for clarifying that
In a more ideal situation, you would want to avoid certain things, like having many relationships that don't last in short order, however, for many people life is not ideal, someone might need to go through a phase like that in order to grow later. This is more common especially when someone is young and undecided. It becomes a problem if this state lasts and a person gets stuck in it, you can see, the reason I brought that example up is because in that example, the woman in question did grow out of it after knowing herself better and finding someone to settle down with.
The reason I gave that example, is to shatter the falsehood that woman who have been with other men before are somehow tainted or worthless by default, and to show that it is perfectly possible for them to build a lasting and stable relationship with a man later on after they get through that kind of phase of desire and undecidedness.
Does not mean there are no ethics regarding relationships, nor that you should treat every relationship as a temporary distraction. The most important thing is to know yourself and what you need/desire at the moment, and go from there. Being with someone and breaking up relatively shortly afterwards does not have to be disrespectful, whether it is depends on how it happens. To prevent unnecessary breakups, I always recommend getting to know the person well enough beforehand to have an idea if you really have a mutual attraction, rather than start something with a person you barely know at all, only to find out you really don't like them a week later.
When people are young it is impossible to know what you really want or need, so it is very normal to outgrow a relationship that was started when you are young (18-20 years old or less), after you understand yourself better and become more mature. Relationships that don't last more than a few days or weeks are meaningless in the long term, even something that lasts for half a year won't have much meaning long term, however it can still teach you a lot about yourself and about love/relations with others in general, give you necessary life experience to become able to create a lasting relationship later on, start a family, etc.
When you are younger, it is the time to have those experiences, then as you mature, you build upon what you've learned from those experiences to create a meaningful relationship with someone. Not everyone needs the same kind or amount of such experiences, but it is good for anyone to have some at that earlier point in your life.
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Thank you for this reply.I hv been taking relationships too seriously it seems that one can hv as many as possible.I thought there were morals,ethics,respect and care that should be involved.it seems I was wrong thank you for clarifying that
In a more ideal situation, you would want to avoid certain things, like having many relationships that don't last in short order, however, for many people life is not ideal, someone might need to go through a phase like that in order to grow later. This is more common especially when someone is young and undecided. It becomes a problem if this state lasts and a person gets stuck in it, you can see, the reason I brought that example up is because in that example, the woman in question did grow out of it after knowing herself better and finding someone to settle down with.
The reason I gave that example, is to shatter the falsehood that woman who have been with other men before are somehow tainted or worthless by default, and to show that it is perfectly possible for them to build a lasting and stable relationship with a man later on after they get through that kind of phase of desire and undecidedness.
Does not mean there are no ethics regarding relationships, nor that you should treat every relationship as a temporary distraction. The most important thing is to know yourself and what you need/desire at the moment, and go from there. Being with someone and breaking up relatively shortly afterwards does not have to be disrespectful, whether it is depends on how it happens. To prevent unnecessary breakups, I always recommend getting to know the person well enough beforehand to have an idea if you really have a mutual attraction, rather than start something with a person you barely know at all, only to find out you really don't like them a week later.
When people are young it is impossible to know what you really want or need, so it is very normal to outgrow a relationship that was started when you are young (18-20 years old or less), after you understand yourself better and become more mature. Relationships that don't last more than a few days or weeks are meaningless in the long term, even something that lasts for half a year won't have much meaning long term, however it can still teach you a lot about yourself and about love/relations with others in general, give you necessary life experience to become able to create a lasting relationship later on, start a family, etc.
When you are younger, it is the time to have those experiences, then as you mature, you build upon what you've learned from those experiences to create a meaningful relationship with someone. Not everyone needs the same kind or amount of such experiences, but it is good for anyone to have some at that earlier point in your life.