Question #4121: about life decisions and regrets, changing certain decisions or going back on them

Decide what's best for you. There are and always will be changes in life. Change is necessary. This is not wrong, it should be

Where ever you find your strength. Go for it

AskSatanOperator wrote:View source

Is it shameful or "wrong" for you to go back on something? I left my home country to come to another and try for a better life, but I decided that I will go back and make my life there (my home country)
I live in a small town in the interior, it's not very evolved compared to a big city or another country, but it's possible to live
and basically I would be going back to where I started, and doing everything again.

I wouldn't say it is inherently shameful or anything like this. Things change in life, based on the situation or our desires. Yes, this can create friction or stress, but so can many things, including staying in a negative situation. So it is all case-dependent and shouldn't be broadly painted as shameful.

Of course, you should also consider other social and financial factors here, as this also influences the success of your judgement.

AskSatanOperator wrote:View source

Это стыдно или "неправильно" для вас, чтобы вернуться к чему-то? Я уехал из своей родной страны, чтобы приехать в другую и попробовать себя в лучшей жизни, но я решил, что вернусь и сделаю свою жизнь там (моя родная страна)
Я живу в маленьком городке в глубинке, он не очень развит по сравнению с большим городом или другой страной, но жить можно
и в основном я бы вернулся туда, где я начал, и делал бы все снова.

There are a lot of different situations in people's lives when you don't know if the decision you've made now is the right decision or not.

I want to say that don't be afraid to make mistakes, but always learn from your mistakes if you made them and don't repeat them again.