Question #165: Femdom

You answered your own question. If you have lots of masculine traits and are a successful man, then you are more of a man than 80% of males today.

What you're doing in a bedroom with your consenting partners does not invalidate anything outside of that bedroom. Do not feel guilty, shameful or confused about exploring your sexuality and desires, especially considering this is a pretty normal fetish to have all things considered.

I'd be more concerned if you told us you want to have sex with other races or have some extremely unhealthy fetish. In my experience, the people who wish to criticize, mock and condemn others for exploring their sexual desires, are virgins who are just bitter and jealous that they themselves cannot explore theirs, so they condemn and shame others who can.

At the end of the day if you are stronger, more successful and smarter than the guy who is mocking you for your desire to be sexually dominated by your partner(s), you are still the superior male in comparison to them.

The above things are what matters when gauging your masculinity and worth as a man.

I've known dudes who are completely submissive in bed and yet if you try to call them weak or a sissy for it, the next day you are in a hospital with your nose inside your skull. So who's the real sissy?

It's quite interesting that bedroom preferences are not the same as you would be when you are around others. It can be either way, btw. This is totally normal.

A lot of what you find online is crap, but femdom or various domination fetishes can be very good.

Online you find nonsense like humiliation, chastity, cuckolding, and a lot of other nonsensical crap.

Most people would not be able to practice it properly at deep levels, they would end up exploiting you.

Domination fetish is a way of worshiping your partner and giving them power over you. This should be taken on a constructive path, and not unnecessary slavery.

This practice should not reinforce any imbalances, but it should strengthen the bond between the two people

I would only trust a Goddess for such a practice, I would not trust any human being out there, would you trust a human being to hand over your existence, your soul, body and mind?

If you are talking about one-night-only experiences instead, think about it.
Femdom would lose its meaning.

As for the central point, domination fetish will not make you less of a man.
On the contrary, worshiping your wife with body and soul will make you more of a man than before.
This practice if done in the right way and with your partner (which in my opinion should be eternal), is one of the most noble and sacred things there is.

The rest of the world has a wrong oppinion (I'm reffering to the fetish comunity, and not to the "normies"), only a few practice it with heart and soul, the rest just have itchy dick. Those few who do it with heart are limited by it, because of the human aspect in it all.

With a Goddess there are no mistakes, true femdom you can only experience with a divine being.
It is complicated to explain, I hope you can understand me.

Vira_ wrote:

I would only trust a Goddess for such a practice, I would not trust any human being out there, would you trust a human being to hand over your existence, your soul, body and mind?

With a Goddess there are no mistakes, true femdom you can only experience with a divine being.
It is complicated to explain, I hope you can understand me.

This post is funny in that you admit that your demoness partner dominates you but you mask it somewhat no need to try to hide this or be ashamed, it is the same with me as well brother. I agree with you and hope your relationship goes well.

Totaler Krieg wrote:

Really it depends on what your definition of manly is, sometimes what you do in the bedroom is reflected in other aspects of life in which case I see no problem with this some are born with more feminine or water traits this information is in your chart.

Perhaps its an expression of a hidden desire to be dominated by women including in other things as well and there is no problem with this if its your natural desire its better not to repress it or it could just be something only restricted to sex though this desire comes from something.

Either way you may have the wrong view of manhood or overthinking of this you should do more inner work to find out who you really are and look at your chart these concerns are artificial and no problem to someone who knows themself

In reality, it depends on persons natal chart and in what position certain parts, such as ic and dc are.

Qingu666 wrote:

This post is funny in that you admit that your Demoness partner dominates you but you mask it somewhat no need to try to hide this or be ashamed, it is the same with me as well brother. I agree with you and hope your relationship goes well.

Thank you, it is interesting to talk about these topics in a more spiritually advanced way, and in a positive light.
Generally out there it's just nonsense talk.

Compared to the common thinking on the subject, it is about love expressed in a deep but also playful way, where free self-expression is enhanced.
That's to give you a general idea (the post above also deals with this), what you do then, or your various sexual preferences, are tastes, and at least for me they are private.

However I would be interested to hear other general oppinions on the subject.

AskSatanOperator wrote:

I am not a "sissy".

I have lots of masculine traits and a very smart, masculine, and successful man.

But, I love some kinky stuff of dominance play. I can be dominant and enjoy it thoroughly. But femdom or plays of worship or female dominance can be a huge turn on.

But recently especially since I have been working on my masculine traits more and embracing my masculine side I can't help but feel a little bad about this part of my sexuality.

I wanna ask does liking power play and being the "sub" side make you less of a man?

Wow bro, give the alcohol a miss get rid of that mentality my man.