Deshasya Shasakah
How can I make a person finally open up about their feelings for me instead of hiding behind ‘attachment’?
He needs calm, safety, and no pressure from me… and he also has a partner he doesn’t feel anything for - that’s what he told me himself - but he’s afraid to break up because he thinks he’ll ‘miss’ her. It seems to me that she’s convenient for him because he’s afraid of society’s judgment - that’s how I feel.
First, he won't break up with her.
Second, if someone says, "I won't break up with my girlfriend because I'll miss her," that's not someone that "don't feel anything" and is definitely not someone who is in a position of convenience.
I've seen many people living in pure convenience, and I can tell you, it's not like that, even if it seems that way.
" He needs calm, safety and NO PRESSURE from me" you're simply being used and you're making excuses for it.
Look for someone who chooses you, who wants you by their side, and who commits to you. Good luck to you!
Deshasya Shasakah wrote:View source How can I make a person finally open up about their feelings for me instead of hiding behind ‘attachment’?
He needs calm, safety, and no pressure from me… and he also has a partner he doesn’t feel anything for - that’s what he told me himself - but he’s afraid to break up because he thinks he’ll ‘miss’ her. It seems to me that she’s convenient for him because he’s afraid of society’s judgment - that’s how I feel.
Let it happen. No one is going to die from missing someone. Emotions are not scary things.
A lot of men who cheat say that, it's usually a lie. Saying they feel nothing for her, but they really do. Saying they need calm, safety, and no pressure from you, means they want no drama while they carry on with 2 women.
I would have a hard time taking him seriously, because it's what so many men who cheat say. It's the exact same lines. It's like they all have a handbook of what to say to their mistress and they repeat it word-for-word. I've known people who watched tv and overheard the exact same lines being repeated by the cheating husband to his mistress. There's not even any originality.
But if you are certain he is the one for you, and his other relationship isn't making him fulfilled, then you can do magick for this.
High Priestess Lydia wrote:View source A lot of men who cheat say that, it's usually a lie. Saying they feel nothing for her, but they really do. Saying they need calm, safety, and no pressure from you, means they want no drama while they carry on with 2 women.
I would have a hard time taking him seriously, because it's what so many men who cheat say. It's the exact same lines. It's like they all have a handbook of what to say to their mistress and they repeat it word-for-word. I've known people who watched tv and overheard the exact same lines being repeated by the cheating husband to his mistress. There's not even any originality.
But if you are certain he is the one for you, and his other relationship isn't making him fulfilled, then you can do magick for this.
I'm a man btw, but thanks 🙏
High Priestess Lydia wrote:View source A lot of men who cheat say that, it's usually a lie. Saying they feel nothing for her, but they really do. Saying they need calm, safety, and no pressure from you, means they want no drama while they carry on with 2 women.
I would have a hard time taking him seriously, because it's what so many men who cheat say. It's the exact same lines. It's like they all have a handbook of what to say to their mistress and they repeat it word-for-word. I've known people who watched tv and overheard the exact same lines being repeated by the cheating husband to his mistress. There's not even any originality.
But if you are certain he is the one for you, and his other relationship isn't making him fulfilled, then you can do magick for this.
sorry, but can u advice which magic can I do in this situation?
Deshasya Shasakah wrote:View source How can I make a person finally open up about their feelings for me instead of hiding behind ‘attachment’?
He needs calm, safety, and no pressure from me… and he also has a partner he doesn’t feel anything for - that’s what he told me himself - but he’s afraid to break up because he thinks he’ll ‘miss’ her. It seems to me that she’s convenient for him because he’s afraid of society’s judgment - that’s how I feel.
It sounds like you're gay
So I can't really give any good advice to the gays
Deshasya Shasakah wrote:View source I'm a man btw, but thanks 🙏
I knew it
Don't you find woman attractive?
Deshasya Shasakah wrote:View source How can I make a person finally open up about their feelings for me instead of hiding behind ‘attachment’?
He needs calm, safety, and no pressure from me… and he also has a partner he doesn’t feel anything for - that’s what he told me himself - but he’s afraid to break up because he thinks he’ll ‘miss’ her. It seems to me that she’s convenient for him because he’s afraid of society’s judgment - that’s how I feel.
Maybe you're a little tiny bit delusional now hear me out am not being mean or nasty but analyzing from what you've told us sounds like you want a healthy relationship to be broken up because of what you think your head of your friend and your projecting all thoughts and emotions onto him
Look am not gay at all
But I was once very close with my friend Damian but we're not gay we follow Zevist way of life
Maybe you should to
I FEEL SO SO SORRY FOR YOU HOPEFULLY YOU CAN GET OVER THIS
Deshasya Shasakah wrote:View source sorry, but can u advice which magic can I do in this situation?
Maybe first try to balance out your soul
Do raum meditation or go and do some research as to what can help
ARIES SPIRITUAL LIGHTOFLUCIFER666 wrote:View source I knew it
Don't you find woman attractive?
Being homosexual is alright
Asra wrote:View source Being homosexual is alright
Its alright
We all have our faults
Thats we come learn and grow
Love lots sister these are very wise words
Let everyone evolve at their own pace
ARIES SPIRITUAL LIGHTOFLUCIFER666 wrote:View source Its alright
We all have our faults
Thats we come learn and grow
Love lots sister these are very wise words
Let everyone evolve at their own pace
That's not a fault. It's common knowledge here that being homo or bisexual is alright.
I'm gay too, btw the situation is a classic, as it happened to me a similar thing.
One piece of advice as i chased emotionally unavaiable men: they're not worth the hassle like 99,9999% of the time, you'd need some very very rare event this person changes. but from what this person said. you're basically a side piece :(
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