Sexuality: #77961 are my sexual tastes a weird obsession ? [Trigger Warning: Sexual Kink]

16 years is not pedophilia.Ephebophilia is normal because this age is the beginning of the discovery of sexual life and everything that is the first time is of course brighter and leaves an impression.But still it is not normal to live in the past and masturbate to porn - please find yourself a partner.I would not advise you to find yourself a partner with a big age difference - because this will negatively affect the relationship, but there are always exceptions.

No. A memory you were involved in, being (often) chronologically younger than those people, cannot constitute pedophilia. A lot of people sexually idealize that period of their life, it is the most vivid and shocking for them. To be brutal, frankly, for many people, it is fated in our very messed up society to be sexually downhill from there, which it shouldn't be, yet is. It is not pedophilia anyway, there is a very hard dividing line with what that is.

On the other hand, it is better to move on from these people and look towards others if this is an obsession and not an occasional erotic reminiscence. You cannot live in the past. Male sexuality stagnates and becomes weird without momentum.

A man is not just a guy who is 2 meters tall and has a lot of muscles. What he has in his head also counts, yes, appearance is important, a healthy psyche is the most important. I am not tall, I have longer hair, my age does not reflect how old I am. But these are advantages, no one attacks me, I do not arouse aggression, on the contrary, I can handle everything gently. If necessary, I can defend myself and give someone fire. Balance between everything is the most important. You can be big, typically masculine, and stupid.

AFODO wrote:

I don't think it's bad. Especially in memories, there is no much difference between 16 and early twenties in appearance. But yeah if you were 70 and would masturbate to teens in your memory that's different.

Aperance is not mean anything. 30 and 34 wouldnt be that different but 16 years old girl and 20 years old girl is totally different bc its still their developing ages (mostly mentally)

AFODO wrote:

But you are good in this case I would say, just look for a partner, do love spell. Or try escorts if you can't get any for a longer period of time.

Buying sex by paying money can cause problems for your sacral chakra and sexual karma. (as i remember)

AFODO wrote:

No.

Really? i am going to highschool and i dated a 20 year old guy before. It was terrible we were really different places and vibrations in life. Also we are calling 20 years old friends ''abla'' (wich means elder sister) cuz they are really experiencing different things.

AFODO wrote:

Any sex is better than no sex, of course I'm not saying to do this with a random gypsy from the streets, but elite (your race) escorts. And no it won't give you bad karma or problems, it's 100x better than porn, but also worse than having a girlfriend. Real sexual satisfaction is needed, if anything, not having sex is what damages your sacral chakra.

Prostitution was also real and accepted in the ancient world.

Really? i used to know that being escort or doing sexual jobs like onlyfans or somethin create you a bad sacral karma, if it is also requesting this service creates bad karma?

CatDoll wrote:View source

Really? i am going to highschool and i dated a 20 year old guy before. It was terrible we were really different places and vibrations in life. Also we are calling 20 years old friends ''abla'' (wich means elder sister) cuz they are really experiencing different things.

Every people are different and let's also not stay out of context, we are talking about memories not actual things.

CatDoll wrote:View source

Really? i used to know that being escort or doing sexual jobs like onlyfans or somethin create you a bad sacral karma, if it is also requesting this service creates bad karma?

Real physical prostitution is different from online prostitution, online is not real, you are not giving any value or real service to anyone, it's bad and also putting out teasing and hot pics is bad for man, it's degrading for them sexually.

However giving real sexual intercourse for man is healthy and good, since it's real.
And again this does not create bad karma, rather, satisfying other's need in this real and healthy way is actually "giving" and creates good karma / burns bad karma.

For woman out there who do these prostitution online should be doing this offline. These things are also not for everyone, not every woman should or can become a prostitute, only very few.

Karnonnos [TG] wrote:View source

Male sexuality stagnates and becomes weird without momentum.

so true

AFODO wrote:View source

Real physical prostitution is different from online prostitution, online is not real, you are not giving any value or real service to anyone, it's bad and also putting out teasing and hot pics is bad for man, it's degrading for them sexually.

However giving real sexual intercourse for man is healthy and good, since it's real.
And again this does not create bad karma, rather, satisfying other's need in this real and healthy way is actually "giving" and creates good karma / burns bad karma.

For woman out there who do these prostitution online should be doing this offline. These things are also not for everyone, not every woman should or can become a prostitute, only very few.

Thans for answer<3

I have said before that women who are prostitutes cannot be judged, their identity belongs to them. (in another thread)

I was told that it was wrong to sell the body and sexuality that the gods gave for money. He also said that prostitution could be pursued as a controlled profession.
But i actually didnt get anything about the word ''controlled''

CatDoll wrote:View source

identity

bodies*

I dont think its bad. I mean theyre just memories. So you dont have nothing to worry about.